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GoldenAgeHero
03-31-2007, 08:05 PM
so first,second and third base(being sex) for most of you? or do you guys have set times when you are ready to have sex with the one you've been dating?

this is'nt an advice thread. i Just wanted to know your dating habits:(

I_Hate_U_All
03-31-2007, 08:08 PM
http://www.nndb.com/people/909/000024837/simmons.jpg I'm going to enjoy reading this thread.

Showtime
03-31-2007, 08:08 PM
After a couple drinks on the first date...

Fran
03-31-2007, 08:10 PM
Dude, right when you meet her, GAH. :up:

Cmill216
03-31-2007, 10:29 PM
Third base isn't sex. That's home plate, fool. :rolleyes:

Erzengel
03-31-2007, 10:32 PM
Third base isn't sex. That's home plate, fool. :rolleyes:

GAH: I went all the way last night.
Everyone: Really?
GAH: Yeah all the way to 3rd.

Anyways, GAH the answer to your question si there is not set time, or number of dates. It should be when you both are ready.

Mee
03-31-2007, 10:34 PM
Anyways, GAH the answer to your question si there is not set time, or number of dates. It should be when you both are ready.
GAH: Are we there yet? Are we there yet?

Lobo
03-31-2007, 10:35 PM
How long? It depends on the girl, and what you two are ready to do with each other

Cmill216
03-31-2007, 10:36 PM
GAH: I went all the way last night.
Everyone: Really?
GAH: Yeah all the way to 3rd.


Makes you wonder what's Home in GAH's world. :wow:

C. Lee
03-31-2007, 10:38 PM
i Just wanted to know your dating habits:(
pervert:cmad:

Erzengel
03-31-2007, 10:38 PM
Makes you wonder what's Home in GAH's world.

Being arrested.

Badger
03-31-2007, 10:39 PM
When's the right time?

When the girl says, "Are you going to **** me already!!" Or something along those lines.

Not a moment sooner, you have no say. Even if you don't want it.

Tangled Web
03-31-2007, 10:44 PM
You shouldn't enter a relationship expecting sex right away. Like Erz said, it's when you're both ready.

Warhammer
03-31-2007, 10:47 PM
GAH, it's when you "feel" it.

Tangled Web
03-31-2007, 10:51 PM
GAH, it's when you "feel" it.

Hopefully when she feels it too,

Warhammer
03-31-2007, 10:57 PM
Hopefully when she feels it too,

LOL

The Squirrel
03-31-2007, 11:39 PM
well I'm going on 8 1/2 enough months, so.... I'd say a looong time for me.

tzarinna
04-01-2007, 02:09 PM
Are you writing a paper?

*Well I try not to kiss on the first date. That's the rule but it has been broken when I felt a good solid connection.
Sex...hmmm..that's not set but usually maybe in like a month. :huh:

terry78
04-01-2007, 02:24 PM
When you're at the movies and do the popcorn in the lap trick, and she doesn't go "ewwww", that's pretty much a sign that everything is copacetic.

WorthyStevens
04-01-2007, 04:11 PM
Unless I screw it up somehow, not very long.

BloodyWolverine
04-01-2007, 04:31 PM
My figuring it should be up to the woman guys. But do make sure that she is ready mind wise for women are emotional and it can be to forget someone. Yes i get guys get stir crazy but be careful to think before jumping in and think about her as well.
I wouldn't really know but its just how i think its should be. Go for it if she is willing but show her respect by maybe giving her time.

ShadowBoxing
04-01-2007, 05:14 PM
Usually not all that long. Maybe a few weeks tops. But it depends on the girl and how central sex is to dating in this particular relationship.

mightiest_mortal
04-02-2007, 02:24 AM
Normally sleep with girls before I even know their names... but thats like a tradition in this country.

user123456789
04-02-2007, 02:46 AM
2nd date

November Rain
04-02-2007, 03:44 AM
as long as physically possible, I leave the decision entirely up to the other party, which makes me always come across as more assured.

Halcohol
04-02-2007, 03:47 AM
If the first date goes really well, I usually go for a goodnight kiss but nothing more. Even if she invites me in, I still find that sex too early will truly screw things up.

Honestly, I don't usually try to knock one out of the park until we've been dating at least a month or two.

Immortalfire
04-02-2007, 08:21 AM
I certainly hope the Hype has prepared GAH for a loving, long lasting relationship in the future :dry:

Babs Gordon
04-02-2007, 08:23 AM
Depends on how long it takes to really get to know the guy. I don't give free hand outs.

Majin Boo
04-02-2007, 08:25 AM
doing when she is sleeping, she wont know

Erzengel
04-02-2007, 08:26 AM
I just picture GAH with a calender with a big red circle set around 1 to 2 months from the actual first date saying "2 MONTHS!!! SEX!!!".

Immortalfire
04-02-2007, 08:27 AM
I just picture GAH with a calender with a big red circle set around 1 to 2 months from the actual first date saying "2 MONTHS!!! SEX!!!".

LoL :woot:

Colossal Spoons
04-02-2007, 09:26 AM
As if GAH didn't know, the answer is "it depends". Did you expect there to be a set date where the couple needs to decide whether to hump or split?

Halcohol
04-02-2007, 09:27 AM
As if GAH didn't know, the answer is "it depends". Did you expect there to be a set date where the couple needs to decide whether to hump or split?
If you've been on a date for over an hour and you haven't gotten ANYTHING, kick her to the curb. She's just a tease.

Why aren't you writing this down? I'm giving you GOLD here!

Erzengel
04-02-2007, 09:30 AM
As if GAH didn't know, the answer is "it depends". Did you expect there to be a set date where the couple needs to decide whether to hump or split?
I have it slated in my planner that it's next Tuesday after House and before Letterman.

Colossal Spoons
04-02-2007, 09:34 AM
Assuming you don't do one night stands or sex on the first date, like me; the first date is the time to ask all the important questions like:

Do want kids?
Are you f'n crazy?
Will you go f'n crazy in a few months?
Do you have a weirdo ex-b/f that you may or may not still be in love with?
Do you have a truckload of male friends who look like they wanna **** you?

...etc


P.S These are all questions I should have asked past g/f's btw :cmad:

Erzengel
04-02-2007, 09:37 AM
Are you f'n crazy?
Will you go f'n crazy in a few months?

Oh Spoons. Don't you know they are all crazy to some degree. :o

Oh ladies I'm only joking.

Pssst Spoons. I'm not kidding. :csad:

Colossal Spoons
04-02-2007, 09:43 AM
If ATP and I break up, I'm going to an asylum to find my next g/f...just to cut to the chase. :o

Memphis Slim
04-02-2007, 09:56 AM
so first,second and third base(being sex) for most of you? or do you guys have set times when you are ready to have sex with the one you've been dating?

this is'nt an advice thread. i Just wanted to know your dating habits:(

Well....here are some questions to ask yourself:

1. Am I able to pay child support?

2. Do I want children right now?

3. Do I want to catch a disease that I might carry for the rest of my life?

4. Do I want to catch a disease that could kill me?

5. Is all of the potential risk worth it?

If you answered yes to all of these, then by all means, have at it.


Just some stuff to consider..........:D

Mr Jide
04-02-2007, 09:57 AM
If your game is tight, sex will happen when you want it to happen. All the initiation and build up is what late night phone calls are for and when you meet up, exercise what I call the, BONDular technique and you'll be well on your way to vaginaville.

Immortalfire
04-02-2007, 10:14 AM
Assuming you don't do one night stands or sex on the first date, like me; the first date is the time to ask all the important questions like:

Do want kids?
Are you f'n crazy?
Will you go f'n crazy in a few months?
Do you have a weirdo ex-b/f that you may or may not still be in love with?
Do you have a truckload of male friends who look like they wanna **** you?

...etc


P.S These are all questions I should have asked past g/f's btw :cmad:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v126/immortalfire/lold.jpg

Wilhelm-Scream
04-02-2007, 10:20 AM
Makes you wonder what's Home in GAH's world. :wow: when the girl at McDonalds hands him his fries and her hand touches his for a second?

Colossal Spoons
04-02-2007, 10:20 AM
Fantabulous :D

C.F. Kane
04-02-2007, 10:37 AM
I'll give the same answer that everyone else has been giving: When It Feels Right.


That or whenever she says so.

Colossal Spoons
04-02-2007, 10:39 AM
Or...whenever your scientits buddy can get his hands on that CHCL3

kane9321
04-02-2007, 10:51 AM
whenever the girl gives the ok..then you go for the kill

Colossal Spoons
04-02-2007, 10:55 AM
whenever the girl gives the ok..then you go for the kill

http://www.peele.net/images/persons/ojsimpson2.jpg

Babs Gordon
04-02-2007, 11:10 AM
did you mean to write scientits?

Colossal Spoons
04-02-2007, 11:11 AM
Haha, no and I'm so not editting.

Babs Gordon
04-02-2007, 11:15 AM
So if I'm female AND a scientist, does that make me a scientits?

Colossal Spoons
04-02-2007, 11:17 AM
I'll have to see your resume as well, but you've got one boob in the door.

kane9321
04-02-2007, 11:25 AM
http://www.peele.net/images/persons/ojsimpson2.jpg

oh..huh..well.....he didnt do it:woot:

X-Chick
04-02-2007, 12:51 PM
so first,second and third base(being sex) for most of you? or do you guys have set times when you are ready to have sex with the one you've been dating?

this is'nt an advice thread. i Just wanted to know your dating habits:(

Well, using my past three relationships:

-One month of dating before sex, with like two dates a week for that month
-Two weeks of dating, but we went out like 4 times each week
-Second date...but we'd be crazy about each other for like 3 months and there was extenuating circumstances...and go figure, we're getting married in two months. :o

Ronny Shade
04-02-2007, 01:28 PM
Sex is for losers with insecurity problems

AndThePickles
04-02-2007, 01:52 PM
Assuming you don't do one night stands or sex on the first date, like me; the first date is the time to ask all the important questions like:

Do want kids?
Are you f'n crazy?
Will you go f'n crazy in a few months?
Do you have a weirdo ex-b/f that you may or may not still be in love with?
Do you have a truckload of male friends who look like they wanna **** you?

...etc


P.S These are all questions I should have asked past g/f's btw :cmad:

Lucky me for getting to go through the screening process.