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Holly
09-17-2007, 12:29 AM
no, what is it for
The Original Bamfer
09-17-2007, 12:31 AM
Cutting ***** off. God, you should know.
Holly
09-17-2007, 12:32 AM
i figured it was for cutting meat off of bones
Jack Rabbit
09-17-2007, 12:33 AM
Don't shame Holly's good name.
The Original Bamfer
09-17-2007, 12:33 AM
i figured it was for cutting meat off of bones
Yeah, chickens. Exactly.
amazingfantasy15
09-17-2007, 10:11 AM
I never thought I'd enter this thread but...
I invited a new friend (Only hung out with her once) to my birthday party. She has work then so she can't make it. Now, if I'm sober enough by the end of my dinner party thing, should I take a piece of cake to her at work?
It might be better to go on a date with her before you start bringing her food at work. Plus think of how that will make you look, yout birthday party was so lame that you came to her work afterwards.
Erzengel
09-17-2007, 10:38 AM
I never thought I'd enter this thread but...
I invited a new friend (Only hung out with her once) to my birthday party. She has work then so she can't make it. Now, if I'm sober enough by the end of my dinner party thing, should I take a piece of cake to her at work?
It might be better to go on a date with her before you start bringing her food at work. Plus think of how that will make you look, yout birthday party was so lame that you came to her work afterwards.
I agree with af15.
It is also kinda awkward. Hey I brought this piece of cake wrapped in saran wrap just for you.
*creepy*
It would be different if you just brought the remainder of the cake to the office and left it out for people.
Neptune
09-18-2007, 09:03 AM
Don't you guys know that girls have cooties? :o
terry78
09-18-2007, 09:04 AM
Don't you guys know that girls have cooties? :o
According to the bedbug thread, that's not too far off the mark.
Radiant Dawn
09-18-2007, 01:49 PM
Guys...I think I'm gonna be sick...a guy I really like is now dating a girl that hit on me two years ago who I'm going to call Alicia instead of her actual name (I actually nearly threw up because of her hitting on me. No other details will be given about that incident)
The guy I like (who I'm now friends with because he wants to remain friends - just like every other guy I have a crush on) tells me he got a girlfriend over the weekend. A Sophomore named Alicia. I think 'Naw. Couldn't be THAT Alicia. There are TONS of Alicia's out there.' I walk into the cafetiria, and what do I see?! My guy sitting next to THAT Alicia!! I'm gonna freakin' puke!! Or slaughter her. Whichever comes first....
amazingfantasy15
09-18-2007, 01:51 PM
Guys...I think I'm gonna be sick...a guy I really like is now dating a girl that hit on me two years ago who I'm going to call Alicia instead of her actual name (I actually nearly threw up because of her hitting on me. No other details will be given about that incident)
The guy I like (who I'm now friends with because he wants to remain friends - just like every other guy I have a crush on) tells me he got a girlfriend over the weekend. A Sophomore named Alicia. I think 'Naw. Couldn't be THAT Alicia. There are TONS of Alicia's out there.' I walk into the cafetiria, and what do I see?! My guy sitting next to THAT Alicia!! I'm gonna freakin' puke!! Or slaughter her. Whichever comes first....
That'll teach you to shun a girl's advances, she's just gonna use the guy you like and make him think he turned her into a lesbian.
Lord Valumart
09-18-2007, 01:52 PM
That'll teach you to shun a girl's advances, she's just gonna use the guy you like and make him think he turned her into a lesbian.
....that goes two ways....either:
"after me no other man would do"
or
"after him i gave up on the whole penis thing"
Greenhorn
09-18-2007, 01:53 PM
why not a friendly cat fight?
The Original Bamfer
09-18-2007, 01:53 PM
Guys...I think I'm gonna be sick...a guy I really like is now dating a girl that hit on me two years ago who I'm going to call Alicia instead of her actual name (I actually nearly threw up because of her hitting on me. No other details will be given about that incident)
The guy I like (who I'm now friends with because he wants to remain friends - just like every other guy I have a crush on) tells me he got a girlfriend over the weekend. A Sophomore named Alicia. I think 'Naw. Couldn't be THAT Alicia. There are TONS of Alicia's out there.' I walk into the cafetiria, and what do I see?! My guy sitting next to THAT Alicia!! I'm gonna freakin' puke!! Or slaughter her. Whichever comes first....
Well, the good thing here is that he's dating a girl that once liked you. This could quite possibly mean that he and she have very similar tastes. Which could result in there being potential for him to be interested in you later on.
Relationships are rarely permanent, though, and virtually never in high school. Give it some time and he'll be single again. By that time, though, you may realize you might not like him at all.
aaron
09-18-2007, 01:53 PM
terry i pictured you lookin like that :o
terry78
09-18-2007, 01:56 PM
terry i pictured you lookin like that :o
Usually the people that act all bad ass look like extreme dorks, so you know.
aaron
09-18-2007, 01:58 PM
i guess so
Lunar_Wolf
09-18-2007, 02:24 PM
Here is a question: When your relationship ends how does one feel?
aaron
09-18-2007, 02:24 PM
depends how you felt about the girl/guy duh
Lunar_Wolf
09-18-2007, 02:42 PM
depends how you felt about the girl/guy duh
Lets say you were in love.
Erzengel
09-18-2007, 02:46 PM
Here is a question: When your relationship ends how does one feel?
Can you ask a more generalized question like what turns a someone on or something? :huh:
aaron
09-18-2007, 02:47 PM
depression, loneliness, wanting him/her back.. but it slowly (or quickly) fades depending on how strong the love was.
omid17
09-18-2007, 02:48 PM
Lets say you were in love.
than you probably feel like ****, but hopefully you can get over it, and still remain friends
Ghostvirus
09-18-2007, 04:22 PM
Just throw on some Garth Brooks, or Boys II Men. You will be fine.
Two-Face
09-18-2007, 04:46 PM
Eat ice cream any flavour, you will be fine.
aaron
09-18-2007, 05:38 PM
but then you get fat and the depression returns :(
Two-Face
09-18-2007, 05:53 PM
Yeah if you don't excise.
Eating ice cream makes me happy...
finding some easy piece of ass could work too :up: unless said piece of ass gives you the clap :( but then again, that'll keep your mind on other things for a while . . . things like peniccillin :o
terry78
09-18-2007, 08:20 PM
Just follow what that classic romantic comedy Tomcats taught us.
irpFTzY5wzM
aaron
09-19-2007, 06:48 AM
theres no pleasure in ****ing someones who giving it up easily
terry78
09-19-2007, 09:10 AM
theres no pleasure in ****ing someones who giving it up easily
True enough. We always claim to hate on the women that won't do the sexual stuff until later, but if they did it like on the first date, we'd toss it aside and get bored too quick.
aaron
09-19-2007, 10:42 AM
toss it aside like a towel?
terry78
09-19-2007, 10:45 AM
toss it aside like a towel?
Like a used, wet one. :o
aaron
09-19-2007, 10:45 AM
ohh so you came then? :p
xGEMSKIx
09-23-2007, 06:36 AM
i dont get men.. they complain either way!
aaron
09-23-2007, 06:38 AM
men are mysterious beings
twylight
09-23-2007, 06:48 AM
What do you do if guy says he wants to marry you but doesn't really *propose*?
aaron
09-23-2007, 06:49 AM
you just say 'aww' and realise he doesnt actually probably mean it
twylight
09-23-2007, 06:51 AM
Hmm..he must be defective .:o
aaron
09-23-2007, 06:53 AM
all guys are defective ;)
twylight
09-23-2007, 06:54 AM
....I used to believe that....
aaron
09-23-2007, 06:55 AM
what changed your opinion?
twylight
09-23-2007, 06:56 AM
My best friend becoming my boyfriend.
kainedamo
09-23-2007, 06:57 AM
Ugh.
aaron
09-23-2007, 06:57 AM
i didnt have good experience with that :(
Two-Face
09-23-2007, 06:58 AM
My best friend becoming my boyfriend.
Nice!:cwink:
twylight
09-23-2007, 06:58 AM
hahaha well...it's mutual and different, but doesn't everyone say that? ;)
aaron
09-23-2007, 06:59 AM
yup, from a different and more hopeful perspective ;)
turtlefocker
09-23-2007, 08:12 AM
Does anyone have a trick to picking up a girl from a group without a wingman.
aaron
09-23-2007, 09:57 AM
you could play the 'brooding loner' role
omid17
09-23-2007, 02:54 PM
Does anyone have a trick to picking up a girl from a group without a wingman.
watch the movie HItch, and it will show you how to get a chick from a group
Okay . . . I have an issue:
Last August I kind of started seeing this girl . . . we went out on a few dates, yadda, yadda, but we never really did anything sexual . . . she would always have some kind of excuse, or whatever, and it actually really started wearing on my ego . . . she basically said that we should just be friends, yadda, yadda
anyway, I eventually kind of 'gave up' . . . I told her time and again, I was interested in being more than a friend, and that I wasn't going to keep on going out doing 'date' type activities w/ her, if we were just gonna be friends . . . I treated her pretty much like gold; I guess maybe I was coming on a bit too strong (as far as sex goes), so I kind of tappered off in talking to her altogether . . . to make things even more weird, we work at the same company . . .
so I kind of started talking to another girl (also from work) dangerous, I know!! well . . . after girl #1 found out about it (we'll call her "K"), she started showing interest :confused:
I'm not trying to hurt anyone's feelings, but this was kind of frustrating to me . . . I've been talking to the 2nd girl from work (we'll call her "G") for some time now . . . and the SAME THING HAPPENED!!! just wasn't 'happening', as far as a sexual relationship . . . my mojo was really starting to fail me :(
so I still kind of talk to both of them, but I ended up meeting a really cool girl, not even a girl, a real woman . . . and she's awesome; I like her a lot, and we have had sex . . . pretty good sex, actually, and we click.
but now K is really starting to show interest again . . . she saw hickies on my neck, and asked me to do something with her over the weekend :confused: :confused: I really, really like K . . . we get along pretty well, and despite the issues we had in the beginning, I really like her . . . but she's bull****ted me so many times in the past, I really don't feel like going through it again . . . .
anyway, me & K went out on Saturday night, and she tried to act all disappointed that I didn't answer her call right away, and we danced, like grinded all night . . . and she let me touch her booty and everything, which is something she always shyed away from . . . then we spent the whole day together yesterday . . . just hung out at the mall, went to Goodwill and clowned around, and just kind of kicked it . . .
what should I do!?
Two-Face
09-24-2007, 07:32 PM
Okay . . . I have an issue:
Last August I kind of started seeing this girl . . . we went out on a few dates, yadda, yadda, but we never really did anything sexual . . . she would always have some kind of excuse, or whatever, and it actually really started wearing on my ego . . . she basically said that we should just be friends, yadda, yadda
anyway, I eventually kind of 'gave up' . . . I told her time and again, I was interested in being more than a friend, and that I wasn't going to keep on going out doing 'date' type activities w/ her, if we were just gonna be friends . . . I treated her pretty much like gold; I guess maybe I was coming on a bit too strong (as far as sex goes), so I kind of tappered off in talking to her altogether . . . to make things even more weird, we work at the same company . . .
so I kind of started talking to another girl (also from work) dangerous, I know!! well . . . after girl #1 found out about it (we'll call her "K"), she started showing interest :confused:
I'm not trying to hurt anyone's feelings, but this was kind of frustrating to me . . . I've been talking to the 2nd girl from work (we'll call her "G") for some time now . . . and the SAME THING HAPPENED!!! just wasn't 'happening', as far as a sexual relationship . . . my mojo was really starting to fail me :(
so I still kind of talk to both of them, but I ended up meeting a really cool girl, not even a girl, a real woman . . . and she's awesome; I like her a lot, and we have had sex . . . pretty good sex, actually, and we click.
but now K is really starting to show interest again . . . she saw hickies on my neck, and asked me to do something with her over the weekend :confused: :confused: I really, really like K . . . we get along pretty well, and despite the issues we had in the beginning, I really like her . . . but she's bull****ted me so many times in the past, I really don't feel like going through it again . . . .
anyway, me & K went out on Saturday night, and she tried to act all disappointed that I didn't answer her call right away, and we danced, like grinded all night . . . and she let me touch her booty and everything, which is something she always shyed away from . . . then we spent the whole day together yesterday . . . just hung out at the mall, went to Goodwill and clowned around, and just kind of kicked it . . .
what should I do!?
All I'm saying is: don't mix pleasure with business or work.
^you're right . . . and to be honest, the whole work atmosphere wasn't helping before . . . but now we're located in completely different places . . . I have to go out of my way to see her, whereas before she had even mentioned that I have "stalker tendencies" :mad: and I'm like "*****! I was just going to use the bathroom!!" (not in those words, of course)
but yeah, my point is, we work together, but not in the same vicinity anymore . . . anyway, I think I should just forget about her for all the jerking around she did to me in the beginning . . .
Erzengel
09-24-2007, 07:36 PM
Very common thing actually even with females and males, now that you were seeing G and Girl #3, K becomes interested because she sees that there is something worthwhile in you if someone else likes you. It could also be the challenge to try and win you back because she liked the attention you gave her.
If you are really into Girl #3? Stay with 3.
If it's not exclusive, do them both.
Very common thing actually even with females and males, now that you were seeing G and Girl #3, K becomes interested because she sees that there is something worthwhile in you if someone else likes you. It could also be the challenge to try and win you back because she liked the attention you gave her.
If you are really into Girl #3? Stay with 3.
If it's not exclusive, do them both.
yeah . . . I pretty much figured all that . . . I'm not trying to put all my eggs in one basket anymore, either . . . I seem to always get fuacked metaphorically that way, and not literally :D
and yeah . . . I like girl #3, but I'm not trying to settle on one relationship right now . . . not to say I'm trying to screw any of the ladies over, I just like my freedom . . .
I guess my real question is how to play girl #1 now . . . she asked me to call her tonight, and I kinda think I should blow her off a bit . . . maybe I'll give her a couple days to stew, and then strike again :up: appreciate the advice homie . . . .
Erzengel
09-24-2007, 07:49 PM
Well, the only problem I have is don't lead #3 on. If she is cool that it's casual, that's fine. However, don't be "that" guy and just f' her and leave.
If she is cool, that's a different story.
The key to K is to only give her a lil taste of attention. Do not be there every time she asks or calls. Yeah, don't call her tonight. Give it a couple of days and say yeah sorry, I had plans with #3 or G and be blaze' about it.
^hahaha, yeah word! yeah, I know; I don't wanna fk #3 over, cuz she's a real solid person . . . and I made it a point not to state that we were exclusive, but I know she really digs me . . . so I may have to even cool it off a little . . . but she's older (31), and I think we can keep it casual . . . maybe I'll do something nice for #1, like bring her lunch or something tomorrow, and then be like "gotta go!" heh . . .
Ghostvirus
09-24-2007, 09:22 PM
& to think I took advice from your DV8...For shame.:csad:
How old are you by the way?
Erzengel
09-25-2007, 06:06 AM
^hahaha, yeah word! yeah, I know; I don't wanna fk #3 over, cuz she's a real solid person . . . and I made it a point not to state that we were exclusive, but I know she really digs me . . . so I may have to even cool it off a little . . . but she's older (31), and I think we can keep it casual . . . maybe I'll do something nice for #1, like bring her lunch or something tomorrow, and then be like "gotta go!" heh . . .
Even bringing her lunch is probably going overboard. Why? :huh:
Even bringing her lunch is probably going overboard. Why? :huh:
no, you're right . . . I'm letting her hang today; I'll catch up w/ her tomorrow :up:
& to think I took advice from your DV8...For shame.:csad:
How old are you by the way?
don't hate the player, M_C, hate the game; heh . . . I've always wanted to say that . . . :D
anyway, I used to be a lot like you, man . . . I had low self-worth, and I would ultimately seal my own demise in the game of love before I even got a chance to get started . . .
the thing is, I learned that when you put all your eggs in one basket, you end up fuacking yourself over . . . society sets all these rules for 'relationships', and we beat ourselves up over stupid **** . . . the fact of the matter is that people are animals . . . and we're not designed for monogomy . . . men are built to spread their seed everywhere possible . . . and the other thing I realized is that i was expending WAY too much brain power in trying to get girls . . . it's a natural-occurring instinct, and when you just let go, the girls come . . .
amazingfantasy15
09-25-2007, 11:53 AM
My advice is forget girl #1, all she wants to do is play games and will ultimately screw you over. She only wants what she can't have or a challenge, if you blow off girl #3 for her, you'll be back where you started with blue balls. Sure have you're fun, but know girl #1 will screw you over, while girl #3 will just screw you.
^yeah, you're pry right . . . I'm tired of her screwing me over!! I was all about her, and all she did was play games; you're right . . .
what I'll pry end up doing is being bluntly honest about the whole thing to her; and be like "Hey, #1, I don't really know where you're coming from . . . cuz when I put it on the table, you kind of screwed me over, and I really like this other girl, and she's been honest with me" . . . .
My advice is forget girl #1, all she wants to do is play games and will ultimately screw you over. She only wants what she can't have or a challenge, if you blow off girl #3 for her, you'll be back where you started with blue balls. Sure have you're fun, but know girl #1 will screw you over, while girl #3 will just screw you.
man . . . but baby is FOINE! but the other thing is, she gets sweated by every guy that meets her . . . just another reason I should blow her off . . . I really like her sense of humor though, and we always have fun together . . .
#3 is not quite as fine . . . a bit on the thick side, but same deal; I have fun with her, and I like her sense of humor and vice versa . . . regardless of what I do, she comes first right now . . .
Erzengel
09-25-2007, 12:08 PM
I'm a petty guy, so if #3 was alright with being casual, then I'd totally try and get back at #1 and #2 and hopefully #1 and #2 at the same time.
^yeah . . . I need to make sure #2 isn't getting any lack of attention . . . I should focus on her today :D
batnkevlar
09-30-2007, 05:40 AM
So I went to this karoke thing right now... met an old friend C, met her incredibly good looking friend L, and me and my friend Lon went to L's car to drink. Anyway, this girl L, we wrote three duets for me and her to sing, sadly none of them were ever called up by the time we left. She's brunette, shorter than me, beautiful as ****, and overall cute as a button. I figure she digs me, after all, I got her number, but the back of my mind I'm wondering. I don't really need any advice, I'm happy and apreciative if I get it, but otherwsie, just telling my story.
So I went to this karoke thing right now... met an old friend C, met her incredibly good looking friend L, and me and my friend Lon went to L's car to drink. Anyway, this girl L, we wrote three duets for me and her to sing, sadly none of them were ever called up by the time we left. She's brunette, shorter than me, beautiful as ****, and overall cute as a button. I figure she digs me, after all, I got her number, but the back of my mind I'm wondering. I don't really need any advice, I'm happy and apreciative if I get it, but otherwsie, just telling my story.
hell yeah, sounds like she digs you man . . . I would call her for karaoke next week . . . call her the day before it happens . . . this gives you a good 'waiting' period, refers to the first thing you did when you met, and also keeps it spontaneous (cuz it's the next day) and casual . . . and see where it goes from there . . .
Immortalfire
10-02-2007, 04:49 PM
This really hot girl looked in my general direction at the Georgia game on Saturday. :heart:
terry78
10-02-2007, 05:00 PM
This really hot girl looked in my general direction at the Georgia game on Saturday. :heart:
You animal.
LexCorp
10-03-2007, 03:27 AM
This really hot girl looked in my general direction at the Georgia game on Saturday. :heart:
I love when they do that. Inspires hope does it not?
Erzengel
10-03-2007, 03:39 PM
How's craig's list doing?
Ghostvirus
10-03-2007, 03:43 PM
I stopped. It is nothing, but spam. Plus It isn't exactly me to do something like that.
Erzengel
10-03-2007, 03:45 PM
I guess that was just a reflex action because of your most recent talk with Pharmacy girl?
Ghostvirus
10-03-2007, 03:55 PM
Not really. Just my fear of dying alone.
As for the Pharmacy Lady. I have been trying avoid her when I go in. It really bothers me that I have to do that, but that I think that it is for the best, because even if she does like me "that way". She is married, & I wouldn't be comfortable with being the "other dude", & if she doesn't like me "that way", I shouldn't be wasting my time.
max, you need to get out there and start chatting up some hunnies dude . . . I'm telling you, just be yourself and don't put all of the sexual pressure on yourself and it'll be sooo money . . .
I stopped. It is nothing, but spam. Plus It isn't exactly me to do something like that.
I hope you didn't flag all the erotic services ads and ruin the fun for everyone else :mad:
Cyrusbales
10-03-2007, 04:15 PM
Hot girls? Or not so hot girls?
Hot girls - You have to put in more effort, and they take up more time, being more of a cimmitment.
not so hot - You can do whatever you like with them, they are greatful and try harder, require little time etc.
Tricky descision, for a quick piece of ass the choice here is easy I think.
Lunar_Wolf
10-03-2007, 04:25 PM
Hot girls? Or not so hot girls?
Hot girls - You have to put in more effort, and they take up more time, being more of a cimmitment.
not so hot - You can do whatever you like with them, they are greatful and try harder, require little time etc.
Tricky descision, for a quick piece of ass the choice here is easy I think.
And even if you end up with a hot girl, they will backstab you one way or the other most of the time.
terry78
10-03-2007, 04:35 PM
The hot girls always know they're hot, so even if they are nice as can be, they always know they can have something waiting in the wings if you **** up. Or even if you don't.
Lunar_Wolf
10-03-2007, 04:38 PM
The hot girls always know they're hot, so even if they are nice as can be, they always know they can have something waiting in the wings if you **** up. Or even if you don't.
Wise and true words.
I'll tell you how I operate these days . . . think of dating/talking to girls like an audition for a band or something . . . I used to think of it as me auditioning for the chick, but then I said to myself: THIS IS BULL****!
now I let these ladies audition for me. . . sounds kinda cocky, but that's how I look at it now . . . cuz if you really click w/ a girl (who happens to be hot, and click for not just that reason), you won't have to worry about her backstabbing you . . .
terry78
10-03-2007, 04:46 PM
That comes back to the "woman chooses the man, the man doesn't choose the woman." Since we put ourselves out there, they can either say yes or no. And how many guys actually have said no to a chick? They know we're all ****s. :o
Lunar_Wolf
10-03-2007, 04:48 PM
That comes back to the "woman chooses the man, the man doesn't choose the woman." Since we put ourselves out there, they can either say yes or no. And how many guys actually have said no to a chick? They know we're all ****s. :o
****S4LIFE
hammy
10-03-2007, 04:51 PM
:dry:
terry78
10-03-2007, 04:52 PM
LOL. I know casey is just eating this up.
Lunar_Wolf
10-03-2007, 04:55 PM
Girls are like vultures in a dessert, pecking at you, stalking, waiting for you to fall to your knees.
Ghostvirus
10-03-2007, 06:37 PM
max, you need to get out there and start chatting up some hunnies dude . . . I'm telling you, just be yourself and don't put all of the sexual pressure on yourself and it'll be sooo money . . .
I am man! You do know Kosmo from that show The Pickup Artist was using that money term as well. He kind of killed it.:csad:
I hope you didn't flag all the erotic services ads and ruin the fun for everyone else :mad:
No I just deleted them. I wouldn't take away Blind Fury's bread, & Butter.:word:
Girls are like vultures in a dessert, pecking at you, stalking, waiting for you to fall to your knees.
Well that isn't very positive.:dry:
How ever it is true.:ninja:
omid17
10-03-2007, 06:43 PM
Hot girls? Or not so hot girls?
Hot girls - You have to put in more effort, and they take up more time, being more of a cimmitment.
not so hot - You can do whatever you like with them, they are greatful and try harder, require little time etc.
Tricky descision, for a quick piece of ass the choice here is easy I think.
true man, my homie is a horny **** so he sticks with the "not so hot girls" cuz he could tap it all day
LexCorp
10-04-2007, 03:25 AM
That comes back to the "woman chooses the man, the man doesn't choose the woman." Since we put ourselves out there, they can either say yes or no. And how many guys actually have said no to a chick? They know we're all ****s. :o
I have said no to a few "chicks". Simple fact that I am picky you can be just as damm picky as any girl if you want.
Spider-X
10-04-2007, 04:17 AM
oh man...does ignorance run rampant in this thread or what...just look at this single page...i could write a novel on all the stereotyping and male ego B.S. on this single page.
but instead i'll show you guys some pretty pictures:
exhibit A...my girlfriend of 6 years and myself...she's major hotness:
http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b359/Spider-X/IMG_3330.jpg
exhibit B...professional picture of the pretty lady and myself again...and once again, hotness:
http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b359/Spider-X/000621007.jpg
and that brings me to exhibit C..oh, wait...what's this? WE'RE MARRIED NOW! (as of a month ago):
http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b359/Spider-X/Wedding006.jpg
and she knows she's attractive...just goes to show ya...
http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b359/Spider-X/IMG_2124.jpg
Ghostvirus
10-04-2007, 06:58 AM
*opens up envelope* & the award for most pretentious post ever........
oh man...does ignorance run rampant in this thread or what...just look at this single page...i could write a novel on all the stereotyping and male ego B.S. on this single page.
but instead i'll show you guys some pretty pictures:
exhibit A...my girlfriend of 6 years and myself...she's major hotness:
http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b359/Spider-X/IMG_3330.jpg
exhibit B...professional picture of the pretty lady and myself again...and once again, hotness:
http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b359/Spider-X/000621007.jpg
and that brings me to exhibit C..oh, wait...what's this? WE'RE MARRIED NOW! (as of a month ago):
http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b359/Spider-X/Wedding006.jpg
and she knows she's attractive...just goes to show ya...
http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b359/Spider-X/IMG_2124.jpg
:whatever:
LexCorp
10-04-2007, 07:06 AM
*opens up envelope* & the award for most pretentious post ever........
:whatever:
Dude that is pretty tacky.
The picture of my fiance is on my desk. I don't need to post it.
What did you prove...stereotyping and male ego B.S?
Hell yes. :whatever:
Well done
It's your sister right? ;)
Erzengel
10-04-2007, 07:57 AM
I'll take "Insecurity and Need to Show Off for Faceless Internet People" for $1,000 Alex.
LexCorp
10-04-2007, 08:01 AM
I'll take "Insecurity and Need to Show Off for Faceless Internet People" for $1,000 Alex.
Yes indeed this is not myspace.
Ghostvirus
10-04-2007, 12:34 PM
I'll take "Insecurity and Need to Show Off for Faceless Internet People" for $1,000 Alex.
*beep*What is divorced in less than a year, because she feels like a trophy wife?
tzarinna
10-04-2007, 03:31 PM
LMAO! :woot:
*The flesh is getting weak. :ninja:
Spider-X
10-04-2007, 03:55 PM
*opens up envelope* & the award for most pretentious post ever........
:whatever:
thank you thank you!!! you have not idea how hard i worked to get this award...
and i see my post has been taken out of context...not that i blame you, i should have quoted who that post was mainly aimed at in the first place:
The hot girls always know they're hot, so even if they are nice as can be, they always know they can have something waiting in the wings if you **** up. Or even if you don't.
my point was not to show off my wife but to prove that just because you got a hot momma doesn't mean she'll keep her options open and all that other bull that's in this thread. I've shown pics of my wife in the Photo thread (which is where i would have put these if my main point was simply to show off) and have garnered a resounding "she's hot" response...so i have no qualms with stating it. i was trying to give people hope here and it being early and me being less patient than usual lead me looking like a complete jackass.
by the way, "shallow" was the word you were looking for terry...not "hot"...and hot does not = shallow.
Hot girls? Or not so hot girls?
Hot girls - You have to put in more effort, and they take up more time, being more of a cimmitment.
not so hot - You can do whatever you like with them, they are greatful and try harder, require little time etc.
Tricky descision, for a quick piece of ass the choice here is easy I think.
last time i checked this was the Relationship Advice Thread, where people cared about actually developing a meaningful relationship..not the Quick Ass Thread.
*beep*What is divorced in less than a year, because she feels like a trophy wife?
you suck, 'cause that was actually funny. :csad:
Dude that is pretty tacky.
The picture of my fiance is on my desk. I don't need to post it.
What did you prove...stereotyping and male ego B.S?
Hell yes.
Well done
It's your sister right? ;)
where's the stereotyping in stating with confidence that you married an attractive woman (though stated somewhat more cocky than it was meant to come of)?
and
you bet :up:i keed i keed :oldrazz:
aaron
10-04-2007, 04:57 PM
yikes :dry:
Erzengel
10-04-2007, 05:25 PM
thank you thank you!!! you have not idea how hard i worked to get this award...
and i see my post has been taken out of context...not that i blame you, i should have quoted who that post was mainly aimed at in the first place:
my point was not to show off my wife but to prove that just because you got a hot momma doesn't mean she'll keep her options open and all that other bull that's in this thread. I've shown pics of my wife in the Photo thread (which is where i would have put these if my main point was simply to show off) and have garnered a resounding "she's hot" response...so i have no qualms with stating it. i was trying to give people hope here and it being early and me being less patient than usual lead me looking like a complete jackass.
by the way, "shallow" was the word you were looking for terry...not "hot"...and hot does not = shallow.
last time i checked this was the Relationship Advice Thread, where people cared about actually developing a meaningful relationship..not the Quick Ass Thread.
you suck, 'cause that was actually funny. :csad:
where's the stereotyping in stating with confidence that you married an attractive woman (though stated somewhat more cocky than it was meant to come of)?
and
you bet :up:i keed i keed :oldrazz:
I find it's better to date a hot girl and then completely destroy their self esteem and self worth so they won't think they are good enough for anyone else. :heart:
Spider-X
10-04-2007, 08:00 PM
I find it's better to date a hot girl and then completely destroy their self esteem and self worth so they won't think they are good enough for anyone else. :heart:
lol...well...that, like, the only way to keep'em :o
Ash J. Williams
10-04-2007, 08:06 PM
LMAO! :woot:
*The flesh is getting weak. :ninja:
Reminds me of Videodrome.
LexCorp
10-05-2007, 04:51 AM
Its all gravy
Ash J. Williams
10-06-2007, 03:32 AM
I like gravy.
LexCorp
10-06-2007, 03:48 AM
I like gravy.
Well who does not my good sir.
GoldenAgeHero
10-07-2007, 06:32 PM
I find it's better to date a hot girl and then completely destroy their self esteem and self worth so they won't think they are good enough for anyone else. :heart:
you've mentioned that quite a few times, im starting to wonder if you've actually done that.
terry78
10-07-2007, 06:37 PM
you've mentioned that quite a few times, im starting to wonder if you've actually done that.
Those biracial kids always think they're the ****. :o
ShadowBoxing
10-07-2007, 08:53 PM
Spider-X looks like a major tool in everyone of those photos.
tzarinna
10-07-2007, 09:09 PM
I like the B&W one, although it looks totally staged.
Erzengel
10-07-2007, 09:39 PM
you've mentioned that quite a few times, im starting to wonder if you've actually done that.
Those biracial kids always think they're the ****. :o
Oh the other way of dating someone who is just okay, and hot her up. :up:
hammy
10-07-2007, 09:41 PM
Some of the most average women pass for hot here.
The Last Meatbag
10-07-2007, 09:46 PM
OUchiez.
Gary Glitter
10-10-2007, 01:39 PM
ok..i seriously need help.....what can i do if i really like possibly love someone but im afraid that they dont want to talk to me anymore if i tell them how i feel.....:huh:
Concept Name
10-10-2007, 01:41 PM
well.........you wont know till you try it.:/
Showtime
10-10-2007, 01:41 PM
ok..i seriously need help.....what can i do if i really like possibly love someone but im afraid that they dont want to talk to me anymore if i tell them how i feel.....:huh:
That is a tough call, if you tell them you love them you might ruin a friendship you already established or scare them off, if you don't then you might miss an opportunity and regret it forever. :csad:
Ice-man
10-10-2007, 01:43 PM
ok..i seriously need help.....what can i do if i really like possibly love someone but im afraid that they dont want to talk to me anymore if i tell them how i feel.....:huh:
ok your a girl right, it should feel a bit less worrisome for you because sometimes guys are too shy to be the one to say anything.
i say go for it, and what ever happens, happens.
Gary Glitter
10-10-2007, 01:44 PM
well c, i known this person for almost my whole life and they told me they like me but i dont know if i should tell them that i *love* them......
Cmill216
10-10-2007, 01:45 PM
ok your a girl right, it should feel a bit less worrisome for you because sometimes guys are too shy to be the one to say anything.
i say go for it, and what ever happens, happens.
Flowers for the girl of your dreams: $10
Two tickets to the 8:00PM show of Michael Clayton: $17
Dinner for two at Applebee's: $23
Relationship advice from Ice-man: Priceless
That's a tought one since you've known them most of your life. You'll never know if you don't try but you also don't want to possibly ruin the friendship if they take it the wrong way.
Gary Glitter
10-10-2007, 01:47 PM
Flowers for the girl of your dreams: $10
Two tickets to the 8:00PM show of Michael Clayton: $17
Dinner for two at Applebee's: $23
Relationship advice from Ice-man: Priceless
thats cute....i like that...so u guys think i should go for it?
Concept Name
10-10-2007, 01:48 PM
dont waste your time on this, lifes too short to doubt about stuff like this.
go for it.
Ice-man
10-10-2007, 01:48 PM
Flowers for the girl of your dreams: $10
Two tickets to the 8:00PM show of Michael Clayton: $17
Dinner for two at Applebee's: $23
Relationship advice from Ice-man: Priceless
lmao.
aint that a kick in the nutz.
Gary Glitter
10-10-2007, 01:50 PM
you guys are awesome....so...any chance i can get some sentence starters or should i just say it straight out
Immortalfire
10-10-2007, 01:50 PM
Have Ice-man's family make your object of affection an offer he can't refuse.
Gary Glitter
10-10-2007, 01:53 PM
Have Ice-man's family make your object of affection an offer he can't refuse.
i didnt get that one
moraldeficiency
10-10-2007, 01:53 PM
ok your a girl right, it should feel a bit less worrisome for you because sometimes guys are too shy to be the one to say anything.
i say go for it, and what ever happens, happens.
Trust this man's advice. No one on here has more sage wisdom or a happier carefree existence than him.
Cmill216
10-10-2007, 01:54 PM
We need pics.
Prognosticator
10-10-2007, 01:54 PM
Have Ice-man's family make your object of affection an offer he can't refuse.
I can't get this zinger out of my head now. Thanks, Fire!
Wilhelm-Scream
10-10-2007, 01:55 PM
Hmm, let's see...
Tell them how you feel and they might feel the same = Happiness
Tell them how you feel, it makes them feel weird and they avoid you after that = unhappiness
Don't tell them how you feel and maintain contact, BUT, always wondering if there was a chance they felt the same = sort of Happy, sort of Unhappy
Yeah, that's a tough one, Hmmm....
moraldeficiency
10-10-2007, 01:57 PM
BTW, DON'T! Nothing will scare him more than someone he's "serious" with saying something that important at the drop of a hat. Too much too quick and you'll ruin a good thing. Don't say it yet, just tell him that you want to take a "step" further and see how it goes. That he should be able to deal with and when it comes time to really tell him how you feel, he won't freak so hard about it and will be better able to honestly tell you how he feels.
Gary Glitter
10-10-2007, 01:57 PM
i hate these kind of situations,....oh well...i guess i'll tell him...i just wish he'd speak up cause i've always talked to him about everything since a couple of years ago.....i trust him alot...idk....we been really close for almost a year already ..i mean we practicaly know each other like a *snap* dude...
Immortalfire
10-10-2007, 02:01 PM
i didnt get that one
Sorry, you had to be there. :hyper:
shapeshifter
10-10-2007, 02:01 PM
in most cases honesty is the best way to go. if it does not work out at least you can say you were upfront and honest about the whole thing.
good luck
Gary Glitter
10-10-2007, 02:06 PM
ok...do u all know each other cause in the other threaad "im so p*****d off" u guys all talked like u knew each other....
Prognosticator
10-10-2007, 02:07 PM
yeah, we know each other.
*snicker*
Dew k. Mosi
10-10-2007, 02:11 PM
Bump for the merge
Gary Glitter
10-10-2007, 02:11 PM
oh..thats kool....so like r u all in high school or what?
Immortalfire
10-10-2007, 02:14 PM
oh..thats kool....so like r u all in high school or what?
Not I.
I'm old too . . . def not in high school . . .
terry78
10-10-2007, 02:20 PM
oh..thats kool....so like r u all in high school or what?
:dry: :dry: :dry:
Cmill216
10-10-2007, 02:22 PM
:dry: :dry: :dry:
She won't last very long.
well c, i known this person for almost my whole life and they told me they like me but i dont know if i should tell them that i *love* them......
I would personally stay away from the 'L' word for now . . . but you can explain that you do have serious feelings for them . . . the 'L' word might freak the guy out a little unless you've been in an actual relationship for a while . . .
plus, telling him you love him already leaves you vulnerable . . .
Gary Glitter
10-10-2007, 02:24 PM
who wont last very long?
who wont last very long?
don't be afraid LOL! they're just 'breaking you in' . . . they're saying you're not going to last long on the hype . . . but don't listen to them, after 6 months of getting newb-bashed you'll be aiight ;)
Immortalfire
10-10-2007, 02:26 PM
Dudes, be nice to the lady.
Cmill216
10-10-2007, 02:29 PM
rocknrollgurl just needs to post a picture of herself dressed in a Huntress costume.
Then, everyone will treat her like the goddess she probably is. :heart: :) :heart: :) :heart:
so I don't know if anyone remembers my dillemma about the ladies at work, and the lady friend outside of work, and me making a decision about who to go with, or to keep juggling, but the doors have pretty much closed between me and girl #1 . . . she's basically a fuacking psycho . . . so I'm sticking w/ the new lady, girl #3 for now . . . I'm going to still play the field, just cuz I'm always weary of putting all my eggs in one basket, but I'm willing to put most of the eggs in this one :up:
http://a131.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/49/l_4824036ceff878294dc3689404e7a9ba.jpg
Ghostvirus
10-10-2007, 02:56 PM
Now thats money DV8.:cwink:
Gary Glitter
10-10-2007, 02:56 PM
um..im not the type of person that takes pics of myself....but who knows....plus i dont even know how to put an avatar on my profile thing
Gary Glitter
10-10-2007, 03:07 PM
ok..so i need to know: who wants me to tell him i do *love* him or that i should just chill with where im at?
ok..so i need to know: who wants me to tell him i do *love* him or that i should just chill with where im at?
you didn't like my advice on the previous page? :(
Now thats money DV8.:cwink:
I like her :) *giggles like schoolgirl*
Immortalfire
10-10-2007, 03:17 PM
um..im not the type of person that takes pics of myself....but who knows....plus i dont even know how to put an avatar on my profile thing
Get 300 posts, and the option will appear.
GoldenAgeHero
10-10-2007, 03:34 PM
thats cute....i like that...so u guys think i should go for it?
don't go for it or else it'll freak the guy out. tell him that you like him and would like to date him. if you guys get serious then tell him you love him.Don't tell him from the start.
Erzengel
10-10-2007, 03:37 PM
DV8 likes his women salsa style.
Kinda like JAL and GR87.
Wait, bad example. :csad:
amazingfantasy15
10-10-2007, 03:39 PM
well c, i known this person for almost my whole life and they told me they like me but i dont know if i should tell them that i *love* them......
Are you dating him now? If you're not dating/in a relationship don't say you love him. He likes you, so suggest you should go out sometime, see if you work as a couple, once you establish that type of relationship, that's when you drop the "L" bomb. You don't start a relationship saying you love the person.
CristoTheSecond
10-10-2007, 03:49 PM
There's great relationship advice in my sig.
Gary Glitter
10-10-2007, 04:10 PM
um i did like ur advice i think DV8...its just i just have a mixture of stuff and i want to keep my options open i suppose....
um i did like ur advice i think DV8...its just i just have a mixture of stuff and i want to keep my options open i suppose....
but my advice is correct :confused:
I hear what you're saying though :D
DV8 likes his women salsa style.
Kinda like JAL and GR87.
Wait, bad example. :csad:
yes, terrible . . . I've actually high-fived this female, and didn't concoct to travel to another country to obtain said high-five . . . :hyper:
Gary Glitter
10-10-2007, 04:17 PM
i did like ur advice.....
Jessica Drew
10-10-2007, 05:00 PM
What the hell do I do?
I have come in here with advice about this person before and the situation just gets worse.
I hurt someone I loved, and who loved me back, but they never let me make it right. I tried for months and months and even though they admitted to some of my friends that they missed me and did things for me they would have never done for anyone else, they still didn't let me make it right. Well, just when things settled down between us, I met someone who hated them. I really like this person, but they seem set on making the person's life hell. They must think it's because of me, because this person hates them for no apparent reason (that I know of). So, I'm stuck between moving on and enjoying my life with someone who hates someone who hates me. Or risking my pride and friendship with someone else for the sake of someone I love.
Erzengel
10-10-2007, 05:03 PM
How old are you Jessica?
Jessica Drew
10-10-2007, 05:05 PM
Why? I know my problems must sound ridiculous to everyone else. . .
Erzengel
10-10-2007, 05:08 PM
No that's not what I'm getting at.
If you are in high school, and how short and frivolous most relationships are there, is it worth jeopardizing your friends over?
However, yes, if they were true friends they'd stick by you no matter who you date.
But if you are indeed dealing with "immature" people, logic doesn't always come into the equation.
Jessica Drew
10-10-2007, 05:14 PM
No that's not what I'm getting at.
If you are in high school, and how short and frivolous most relationships are there, is it worth jeopardizing your friends over?
However, yes, if they were true friends they'd stick by you no matter who you date.
But if you are indeed dealing with "immature" people, logic doesn't always come into the equation.
I've been trying to just stick with my friend and stay away from that person, but it's too hard. Especially when I knowthey miss me, too. I'm afraid of never saying anything while I have the chance, but I'm also afraid of making myself vulnerable to someone who could so easily hurt me.
Erzengel
10-10-2007, 05:18 PM
And this guy you dig, he dislikes ALL your friends, including the guy you hurt?
Jessica Drew
10-10-2007, 05:23 PM
And this guy you dig, he dislikes ALL your friends, including the guy you hurt?
No, just hates him. It's a strange situation. I love him and I hurt him so now he "hates" me. My friend hates him, and loves to stir things up around him and make him jealous. You'd think I'd love the attention and revenge, but I don't want that at all. I just want to stop hurting him, because I really do love him.
Jack Rabbit
10-10-2007, 05:34 PM
Tell him to grow a pair and stop whining about things past.
Eggyman
10-10-2007, 05:46 PM
Tell him to grow a pair and stop whining about things past.
Listen to this guy -- he knows what he's on about. This is a guy you're talking about, right? Well here's the thing about guys, they only get hurt if they want to be hurt (they like the attention and people being soft with them); if he didn't want to be hurt, he would do the same thing the rest of us would do -- he would go out, get laid, and make himself believe that you don't exist. :ninja:
Erzengel
10-10-2007, 05:48 PM
Also even if the situation was ideal, this guy you like not hating the guy you hurt and the guy you hurt talking to you again, most guys aren't that comfortable with you talking to someone that you dated or how you say it "loved".
You'd have a fight on your hands either way.
35,000th post.
Cmill216
10-10-2007, 05:50 PM
35,000th post.
http://i47.photobucket.com/albums/f186/Kanari1/YAY.jpg
Erzengel
10-10-2007, 05:51 PM
Stay in school CMill216, say your prayers and eat your vitamins and maybe one day you will too. :up:
Eggyman
10-10-2007, 05:51 PM
Congrats dude :)
Yeh, if you want any kinda peace (or piece :D) you should keep the past in the past -- I know as well as anyone that it can be nice being friends with an ex, but it's not nice for the other person you are seeing so sometimes you have to cut those ties.
Jack Rabbit
10-10-2007, 05:52 PM
Listen to this guy -- he knows what he's on about. This is a guy you're talking about, right? Well here's the thing about guys, they only get hurt if they want to be hurt (they like the attention and people being soft with them); if he didn't want to be hurt, he would do the same thing the rest of us would do -- he would go out, get laid, and make himself believe that you don't exist. :ninja:
Word.
Denial and repression of feelings leads to happiness.
Congrats, Erz.
Also even if the situation was ideal, this guy you like not hating the guy you hurt and the guy you hurt talking to you again, most guys aren't that comfortable with you talking to someone that you dated or how you say it "loved".
You'd have a fight on your hands either way.
35,000th post.
and what a post it was! the guy who hates the guy who hurt the guy who loves to love the guy you hate to love who hates to hate the guy you hurt . . . loL! :D
Nazareth said it best with their hit song, Love Hurts . . . . :o
Cmill216
10-10-2007, 05:53 PM
Stay in school CMill216, say your prayers and eat your vitamins and maybe one day you will too. :up:
Do you really mean it, Mr. Erzengel? :meow:
Erzengel
10-10-2007, 05:53 PM
I'm friends with one of my ex's. The current gf is okay with even hanging out with her because she lives 6 hours a way so I see her once ever few years.
It takes a very understanding and mature relationship to allow it. Most people just cut ties with their past.
Erzengel
10-10-2007, 05:54 PM
Do you really mean it, Mr. Erzengel? :meow:
I do, kid.
*tussles your hair*
Jolly Rolly
10-11-2007, 12:04 AM
The problem is that she's married and I have a girlfriend, but I have sort of a foot fetish and my co-worker wears high heels that get me funny in my pants that sometimes I feel like licking her soles and sniffing her feet.
Am I a wacko?
Rezzo
10-11-2007, 12:06 AM
Quentin Tarantino?
Dangerous
10-11-2007, 12:07 AM
No.
Is there any chemistry between you both?
How do you feel about your gf?
These two ares will provide your solution.
Lazlo Panaflex
10-11-2007, 12:17 AM
Give her a foot massage........................................... .................................................. ..................with your tongue.
Cmill216
10-11-2007, 12:17 AM
Am I a wacko?
Yes. Close thread.
Deep Thinkin'!
10-11-2007, 12:20 AM
So what exactly is your question (other than the fact you're a wacko)?
Shuley
10-11-2007, 12:24 AM
Ask her for a footjob.
Dangerous
10-11-2007, 12:25 AM
Ask her if she likes pork.
TNC9852002
10-11-2007, 12:28 AM
The problem is that she's married and I have a girlfriend, but I have sort of a foot fetish and my co-worker wears high heels that get me funny in my pants that sometimes I feel like licking her soles and sniffing her feet.
http://img252.imageshack.us/img252/640/babufen0.gif
-TNC
S_H_F_4839
10-11-2007, 12:30 AM
yeah your a wacko.
I mean if you start up with this woman then break it off you will have to see her everyday, unless you quit or she does.
LexCorp
10-11-2007, 04:17 AM
The problem is that she's married and I have a girlfriend, but I have sort of a foot fetish and my co-worker wears high heels that get me funny in my pants that sometimes I feel like licking her soles and sniffing her feet.
Am I a wacko?
That is normal for someone your age...:dry:
November Rain
10-11-2007, 04:33 AM
have all the old relationshp threads been merged into this one?
that sucks donkey balls.
spam's cornered in the lounge, celebrity worship has taken a whole new level in its forum (went from one woman based thread to about a million) and now this...
there is actually going to be nothing to talk about in community anymore...
LexCorp
10-11-2007, 04:36 AM
have all the old relationshp threads been merged into this one?
that sucks donkey balls.
spam's cornered in the lounge, celebrity worship has taken a whole new level in its forum (went from one woman based thread to about a million) and now this...
there is actually going to be nothing to talk about in community anymore...
People have been saying that for a long time. Dude just talk about what you like and it will be fine! N Rain what do you want to talk about?
Shuley
10-11-2007, 04:44 AM
People have been saying that for a long time. Dude just talk about what you like and it will be fine! N Rain what do you want to talk about?
She wants to talk about sex of course! We all do.
LexCorp
10-11-2007, 04:48 AM
She wants to talk about sex of course! We all do.
Rain is a girl? Interesting.
Ghostvirus
10-11-2007, 05:57 AM
have all the old relationshp threads been merged into this one?
that sucks donkey balls.
spam's cornered in the lounge, celebrity worship has taken a whole new level in its forum (went from one woman based thread to about a million) and now this...
there is actually going to be nothing to talk about in community anymore...
I am glad this is happening. It is actually turning into what I was hoping. I place where the people can get advice.:yay:
LexCorp
10-11-2007, 05:58 AM
I am glad this is happening. It is actually turning into what I was hoping. I place where the people can get advice.:yay:
I agree I have given some good advice in this thread. I know the hype has issues by tso does every forum on Earth. Still no one tells me where they would rather go. They complain and then post on the hype a few days later.
Gary Glitter
10-11-2007, 07:24 AM
YEah...this place is awsome..it helps you n many ways
LexCorp
10-11-2007, 08:14 AM
YEah...this place is awsome..it helps you n many ways
Have you been helped by the HYPE?
Gary Glitter
10-11-2007, 12:28 PM
yes...
Arkady Rossovich
10-11-2007, 01:06 PM
Why is it that the ratio of divorse is 50%?
Gary Glitter
10-11-2007, 01:21 PM
because people cannot decide weather or not that they love each other for eternty....not just for 5 hours...
Cmill216
10-11-2007, 01:30 PM
Why is it that the ratio of divorse is 50%?
Because no one takes marriage seriously anymore. People just do it because they think they're in love with someone, and they aren't ready for the commitment that marriage actually demands.
Erzengel
10-11-2007, 01:32 PM
Yes. Marriage too young and it's like "acceptable" to be divorced now, as like in the 50s when it was pretty much taboo.
But yeah, a lot of people want to take the easy way out and think of marriage almost like a job that can be easily changed.
Gary Glitter
10-11-2007, 02:05 PM
i think that i a relationship is worth marriage, then thats a different story, but if u get married just to do it, then ur wasting time.....
Why is it that the ratio of divorse is 50%?
I think it's more like 60%
LexCorp
10-12-2007, 03:19 AM
Because no one takes marriage seriously anymore. People just do it because they think they're in love with someone, and they aren't ready for the commitment that marriage actually demands.
Very true
terry78
10-12-2007, 08:28 AM
Because no one takes marriage seriously anymore. People just do it because they think they're in love with someone, and they aren't ready for the commitment that marriage actually demands.
I'd even put moving in together in a similar category, even though it's nowhere near the committment an actual marriage is.
LexCorp
10-12-2007, 08:38 AM
I'd even put moving in together in a similar category, even though it's nowhere near the committment an actual marriage is.
Moving in is a big step. It is a very good test for marrige. If you can do it so be it.
Deep Thinkin'!
10-13-2007, 11:40 PM
Ok
I've been friends with this guy for a few months, its been hinted that he had "liked" me.
I found out tonight that is was true, and now we're going to go out.
My problem is, I sorta kinda like him. He's a very good guy, with good motives. Sort of a flirtatious fellow, but that doesn't bother me.
He has quirks that I doubt I'd be able to get used to, and I'm not completely physically attracted to him and his overly sweet personality.
I've had interest in another guy at my work, he knows it but we're not going out. (long story) but in a very odd way, by choosing to go out with this other guy I feel like I'm throwing away something with this guy at work even though we aren't going to go out.
I've told myself not to compromise myself, but this guy genuinely cares and is a wonderful person. The only thing I'm compromising is the whole attraction thing.
I can't help but feel bad about it...
Shuley
10-13-2007, 11:56 PM
Ok
I've been friends with this guy for a few months, its been hinted that he had "liked" me.
I found out tonight that is was true, and now we're going to go out.
My problem is, I sorta kinda like him. He's a very good guy, with good motives. Sort of a flirtatious fellow, but that doesn't bother me.
He has quirks that I doubt I'd be able to get used to, and I'm not completely physically attracted to him and his overly sweet personality.
I've had interest in another guy at my work, he knows it but we're not going out. (long story) but in a very odd way, by choosing to go out with this other guy I feel like I'm throwing away something with this guy at work even though we aren't going to go out.
I've told myself not to compromise myself, but this guy genuinely cares and is a wonderful person. The only thing I'm compromising is the whole attraction thing.
I can't help but feel bad about it...
So many people turn off the ones that can love them and turn on the ones that can't. People get more attractive as you get to know them.
Deep Thinkin'!
10-14-2007, 12:08 AM
So many people turn off the ones that can love them and turn on the ones that can't. People get more attractive as you get to know them.
Yeah which is what happened with the guy at work.... and it's why I'm giving this other guy a chance.
Shuley
10-14-2007, 02:46 AM
Yeah which is what happened with the guy at work.... and it's why I'm giving this other guy a chance.
:up:
LexCorp
10-15-2007, 03:14 AM
Ok
I've been friends with this guy for a few months, its been hinted that he had "liked" me.
I found out tonight that is was true, and now we're going to go out.
My problem is, I sorta kinda like him. He's a very good guy, with good motives. Sort of a flirtatious fellow, but that doesn't bother me.
He has quirks that I doubt I'd be able to get used to, and I'm not completely physically attracted to him and his overly sweet personality.
I've had interest in another guy at my work, he knows it but we're not going out. (long story) but in a very odd way, by choosing to go out with this other guy I feel like I'm throwing away something with this guy at work even though we aren't going to go out.
I've told myself not to compromise myself, but this guy genuinely cares and is a wonderful person. The only thing I'm compromising is the whole attraction thing.
I can't help but feel bad about it...
Sounds classic
Guy A can give you everything you need but you are not interested.
Guy B can probably give you nothing you need but you want his man stick.
So what do you choose? A or B....
I am sure it is not that black and white but....you should not be dating guy A for much longer if you really are not in to him and just forget about guy b as he said no already.
So what to do what to do....go for the new GUY C! :cwink:
Manosman
10-15-2007, 03:22 AM
Ok
I've been friends with this guy for a few months, its been hinted that he had "liked" me.
I found out tonight that is was true, and now we're going to go out.
My problem is, I sorta kinda like him. He's a very good guy, with good motives. Sort of a flirtatious fellow, but that doesn't bother me.
He has quirks that I doubt I'd be able to get used to, and I'm not completely physically attracted to him and his overly sweet personality.
I've had interest in another guy at my work, he knows it but we're not going out. (long story) but in a very odd way, by choosing to go out with this other guy I feel like I'm throwing away something with this guy at work even though we aren't going to go out.
I've told myself not to compromise myself, but this guy genuinely cares and is a wonderful person. The only thing I'm compromising is the whole attraction thing.
I can't help but feel bad about it...
heck give him a chance. go out on a date with him, its not like you have to ge steady with him, just go out on a date and take it day by day, you may find yourself liking him more, but this is what dating is for.
LexCorp
10-15-2007, 03:33 AM
heck give him a chance. go out on a date with him, its not like you have to ge steady with him, just go out on a date and take it day by day, you may find yourself liking him more, but this is what dating is for.
Give him a chance yeah. Maybe just the one. If there are no sparks she needs to look for someone else.
Manosman
10-15-2007, 03:34 AM
exactly
LexCorp
10-15-2007, 03:38 AM
exactly
Take Manosman on a date he can be your guy C. :woot:
Manosman
10-15-2007, 03:41 AM
Take Manosman on a date he can be your guy C. :woot:
I think she may be a little too young, but yeah, thanks, haha
LexCorp
10-15-2007, 03:49 AM
I think she may be a little too young, but yeah, thanks, haha
How old is she? How old are you?
Manosman
10-15-2007, 03:50 AM
according to her public profile shes 16, im 21, 22 in a week, so its illegal, hahah
LexCorp
10-15-2007, 04:29 AM
according to her public profile shes 16, im 21, 22 in a week, so its illegal, hahah
Not in my country. lol
Deep Thinkin'!
10-15-2007, 04:16 PM
Ha, I've known guy "A" longer than guy "B", and so far the only thing I liked about him was the attention he gave me. We're polar opposites.
He's all about being kind and athletic, I could honestly care less... I've hung out with him a lot has friends and the best word is to describe it is "disgust".
I'm looking for guy C. :)
(the problem with guy A is age difference, thats all. He never said "no" but "can't".)
Shuley
10-15-2007, 04:20 PM
Ha, I've known guy "A" longer than guy "B", and so far the only thing I liked about him was the attention he gave me. We're polar opposites.
He's all about being kind and athletic, I could honestly care less... I've hung out with him a lot has friends and the best word is to describe it is "disgust".
I'm looking for guy C. :)
(the problem with guy A is age difference, thats all. He never said "no" but "can't".)
it's "Couldn't care a less"
Deep Thinkin'!
10-15-2007, 04:21 PM
it's "Couldn't care a less"
Come on, work with me. :csad:
LexCorp
10-16-2007, 03:20 AM
Ha, I've known guy "A" longer than guy "B", and so far the only thing I liked about him was the attention he gave me. We're polar opposites.
He's all about being kind and athletic, I could honestly care less... I've hung out with him a lot has friends and the best word is to describe it is "disgust".
I'm looking for guy C. :)
(the problem with guy A is age difference, thats all. He never said "no" but "can't".)
Ahh I see. Well as long as guy C rocks your socks off then go for it if you find him.....
How much older is guy B?
Gary Glitter
10-16-2007, 07:46 AM
i think they are right about jst leting the other guys, A and B, out of the picture for a realationship other than friends but hey u never know these days....but i think u should go for guy C....
Fried Gold
10-16-2007, 07:50 AM
Come on, work with me. :csad:Ridiculous grammatical faux pas aside, why must you be with guy A, B, or C? What about guy D, or E? Just because you haven't met them yet doesn't mean they don't exist.
Erzengel
10-16-2007, 08:19 AM
Ok
I've been friends with this guy for a few months, its been hinted that he had "liked" me.
I found out tonight that is was true, and now we're going to go out.
My problem is, I sorta kinda like him. He's a very good guy, with good motives. Sort of a flirtatious fellow, but that doesn't bother me.
He has quirks that I doubt I'd be able to get used to, and I'm not completely physically attracted to him and his overly sweet personality.
I've had interest in another guy at my work, he knows it but we're not going out. (long story) but in a very odd way, by choosing to go out with this other guy I feel like I'm throwing away something with this guy at work even though we aren't going to go out.
I've told myself not to compromise myself, but this guy genuinely cares and is a wonderful person. The only thing I'm compromising is the whole attraction thing.
I can't help but feel bad about it...
Quick advice.
Never settle.
LexCorp
10-16-2007, 08:40 AM
i think they are right about jst leting the other guys, A and B, out of the picture for a realationship other than friends but hey u never know these days....but i think u should go for guy C....
Ridiculous grammatical faux pas aside, why must you be with guy A, B, or C? What about guy D, or E? Just because you haven't met them yet doesn't mean they don't exist.
That was my point I was trying to make their are guys a-z and more...
Find the right one. Duh!
tzarinna
10-16-2007, 03:32 PM
I think I fell a love like 6 times today.
So many cute guys running around. :meow:
Shuley
10-16-2007, 04:23 PM
Come on, work with me. :csad: Where at the snack bar? lol
Shuley
10-16-2007, 04:25 PM
I think I fell a love like 6 times today.
So many cute guys running around. :meow:
I see you got alot of love to give.
Deep Thinkin'!
10-16-2007, 06:00 PM
Ahh I see. Well as long as guy C rocks your socks off then go for it if you find him.....
How much older is guy B?
Actually they were both older than me.
Guy A was older though. Guy B was pushing it, but it was alright.
i think they are right about jst leting the other guys, A and B, out of the picture for a realationship other than friends but hey u never know these days....but i think u should go for guy C....
Ridiculous grammatical faux pas aside, why must you be with guy A, B, or C? What about guy D, or E? Just because you haven't met them yet doesn't mean they don't exist.
That was my point I was trying to make their are guys a-z and more...
Find the right one. Duh!
yeah I just hope I run out of ABCs :csad:
Quick advice.
Never settle.
Never have. :csad:
Ghostvirus
10-16-2007, 08:17 PM
I think I fell a love like 6 times today.
So many cute guys running around. :meow:
Hey now. Modertely hot dudes need love too.:o
tzarinna
10-16-2007, 08:29 PM
Of course they do. :cwink:
Ash J. Williams
10-16-2007, 08:36 PM
Well, this one girl I know got me a pair of gloves on Sunday seeing as I wear gloves sometimes and I'm wondering if that's an expression of affection or just for the sake of getting me a gift.
The Last Meatbag
10-16-2007, 08:38 PM
........They're high fiving gloves :o
Ash J. Williams
10-16-2007, 08:42 PM
No, they're work gloves.
The Last Meatbag
10-16-2007, 08:45 PM
I dunno, don't take it as anything serious, you're probably in the friend zone. Does she ever do things that make it seem like she's interested in you? (besides the gloves)
Ash J. Williams
10-16-2007, 08:48 PM
She shares a birthday with me.
LexCorp
10-17-2007, 05:00 AM
Well, this one girl I know got me a pair of gloves on Sunday seeing as I wear gloves sometimes and I'm wondering if that's an expression of affection or just for the sake of getting me a gift.
Why do you wear gloves?
Honey Vibe
10-17-2007, 11:29 PM
There's a young man I really like, and I can see him as my husband. How do I release my love, in gradual expression, without seeming over-bearing? I don't want to scare him off.
omid17
10-17-2007, 11:31 PM
There's a young man I really like, and I can see him as my husband. How do I release my love, in gradual expression, without seeming over-bearing? I don't want to scare him off.
start talkin to him baby girl:cwink:
Honey Vibe
10-17-2007, 11:33 PM
start talkin to him baby girl:cwink:
I don't want to say things that will be off-putting. It's too early for me to be thinking any such thing.
omid17
10-17-2007, 11:35 PM
I don't want to say things that will be off-putting. It's too early for me to be thinking any such thing.
do you actually know the guy?
Honey Vibe
10-17-2007, 11:36 PM
Yes.
omid17
10-17-2007, 11:40 PM
just tell him how you trully feel about him, i think he would like that
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