*Official* Relationship Advice Thread

[Ghostvirus]

I figured since there seems to be alot of people asking advice about relations. There should be a place to post question, suggestion, etc...

I will go first. There is this pharmacy that I have went to for about 10 years. I love the place, because I have built a strong rep, so I don't have to deal with some of the crap that others do.

Anyway I have run into a little bit of a delimma. There is a pharmacist who works there that I can't stop thinking about. I want to ask her out, but I have 2 probs.

1. I am pretty sure that she is quite a bit older than me. Which isn't a problem for me. I just don't know if it is one for her.

2. If she says no I can't very well keep going there, because it would just be awkward.

Basically. Should I risk it, or not?

[Abaddon]

chat her up some and find out more about her first.

also, I think there's another thread like this somewhere.:o

[Jack Rabbit]

My advice: don't ask for advice on message boards.

[Majik1387]

Maximum Carnage, talk to her more, see what kind of guys she goes for, get to know here etc. then get back to us.

[fangrl06]

My advice: don't ask for advice on message boards.
^good advice.:dry:

[Ghostvirus]

I don't know if anyone else has this problem, but I am witty, & funny when I am around people I know. But as soon as I am around woman, or just strangers I black out. My brain goes blank, & I become a bumbling baffoon. Which I think some mis-conceive as arragance.

I am also horribly bad at picking up signals. I will say that she has actually made it a point to talk to me when I am there, & that all the times we have talked she has not once brought up a boyfriend, or husband, so...

[Jack Rabbit]

I don't know if anyone else has this problem, but I am witty, & funny when I am around people I know. But as soon as I am around woman, or just strangers I black out. My brain goes blank, & I become a bumbling baffoon. Which I think some mis-conceive as arragance.

I am also horribly bad at picking up signals. I will say that she has actually made it a point to talk to me when I am there, & that all the times we have talked she has not once brought up a boyfriend, or husband, so...

Heh. I'm the same way, to an extent. If I'm with friends, and comfortable, I'm usually pretty smooth and conversational, but if I'm at all uncomfortable, I'm ****ed.

Funny story:I'm at a club with a bunch of friends, I'm pretty buzzed, my friends peel off to dance, I stayed to keep an eye on the drinks and coats--i didn't feel like dancing. Some gorgeous girl came over and sat next to me.
Girl: "What's up?"
Me: *delayed* "...g-good."

Then I just sat there for about thirty seconds, didn't even attempt a save, and mumbled an excuse to leave, and proceeded to drink heavily.

Classic uncomfortable Pete.:up:

[Arkady Rossovich]

What kind of advise..is good advise?No one knows...

[Ghostvirus]

Heh. I'm the same way, to an extent. If I'm with friends, and comfortable, I'm usually pretty smooth and conversational, but if I'm at all uncomfortable, I'm ****ed.

Funny story:I'm at a club with a bunch of friends, I'm pretty buzzed, my friends peel off to dance, I stayed to keep an eye on the drinks and coats--i didn't feel like dancing. Some gorgeous girl came over and sat next to me.
Girl: "What's up?"
Me: *delayed* "...g-good."

Then I just sat there for about thirty seconds, didn't even attempt a save, and mumbled an excuse to leave, and proceeded to drink heavily.

Classic uncomfortable Pete.:up:

Hey at least you walked away. I usually freeze, & stay there not saying anything until they leave. Thats where the presumed arrogance comes into play. When in reality I am losing my sh**, can't move, or speak. It really pisses me off!

[Abaddon]

What kind of advise..is good advise?No one knows...

What the hell are you talking about?:huh:

[Fran]

I think ShadowBoxing started one.

http://forums.superherohype.com/showthread.php?t=271263

[Lunar_Wolf]

Risk it, you only live once.

[tzarinna]

Treat her like a person and not some quest.
Maybe ask her to hang out and do something that's not so date/romantic pressured.

[Immortalfire]

Glad to see someone finally gave GAH his own refuge thread. :hyper:

[Mee]

I think ShadowBoxing started one.

http://forums.superherohype.com/showthread.php?t=271263
Yeah...

No one is going to stop before they make a thread about how they sneezed on a girl and their world is ending and go "hey, maybe there's a special thread for this kind of thing."

[Darthphere]

I really like this girl and she likes me but the problem is, she has no arms and she can't hug me. I can't love without hugs, what should I do?

[Mee]

Train her to hug with her legs. :huh:

[Jack Rabbit]

I really like this girl and she likes me but the problem is, she has no arms and she can't hug me. I can't love without hugs, what should I do?

Give her one of your arms, so you can have a weird, creepy half-hug.

[Majik1387]

I really like this girl and she likes me but the problem is, she has no arms and she can't hug me. I can't love without hugs, what should I do?
Artificial arms

Next question

[Ghostvirus]

I knew this thread was going to eventually become a place for all the smart asses. I had to try though.*shrugs, & leaves thread for dead*

[Darthphere]

I knew this thread was going to eventually become a place for all the smart asses. I had to try though.*shrugs, & leaves thread for dead*

You really didn't.:o

[Abaddon]

some people actually gave you good advice.

[kytrigger]

I figured since there seems to be alot of people asking advice about relations. There should be a place to post question, suggestion, etc...

I will go first. There is this pharmacy that I have went to for about 10 years. I love the place, because I have built a strong rep, so I don't have to deal with some of the crap that others do.

Anyway I have run into a little bit of a delimma. There is a pharmacist who works there that I can't stop thinking about. I want to ask her out, but I have 2 probs.

1. I am pretty sure that she is quite a bit older than me. Which isn't a problem for me. I just don't know if it is one for her.

2. If she says no I can't very well keep going there, because it would just be awkward.

Basically. Should I risk it, or not?
Just ask her out. What makes you think you can't go back there if she says no?

All she says is no. She's not gonna scream no, jump over the counter laughing at you and kick you in the balls.

Rejection really isn't as bad as some people make it out to be. Life does go on, the earth still spins.

Even if fro some reason it does become awkward, WHO CARES? It's not like she was gonna go out with you anyway so **** the awkwardness.

[Kritish]

My advice: don't ask for advice on message boards.

Especially from superhero message boards. But it’s good to get all the people foolish enough to ask for advice in a thread that we can all ignore. Would a mod like to sticky this?

[Abaddon]

you can ignore any thread.

[Kritish]

you can ignore any thread.

But now I only have to ignore one advice thread. :o

[Abaddon]

the titles usually give them away though.:o

[Majik1387]

I knew this thread was going to eventually become a place for all the smart asses. I had to try though.*shrugs, & leaves thread for dead*
I tried, I know it sounded smartass-y when i said get back to me, but for good advice, the situation can't be so vague

[Abaddon]

it's not even that complicated.

[Ghostvirus]

it's not even that complicated.

This thread wasn't supposed to be just about me. It was supposed to be for anyone that needs advice. There are some people out there that don't mind giving it properly.

I don't understand why people feel the need to enter one of these threads, & act like asking a woman out is simple. For some people it isn't that simple. I mean when a person has been rejected more than accepted. After a while being rejected starts to sting.

For people that have a strong game. They wouldn't understand that. But why must you act like everyone should have strong game, & if they don't there must be something wrong.

For my I may be putting the "Pu**y on a pedestal", but the reason I am is because for me it seems so hard to obtain. There are others out there like me. I just figured I could get kind of a support group going.

[Halcohol]

This thread wasn't supposed to be just about me. It was supposed to be for anyone that needs advice. There are some people out there that don't mind giving it properly.

I don't understand why people feel the need to enter one of these threads, & act like asking a woman out is simple. For some people it isn't that simple. I mean when a person has been rejected more than accepted. After a while being rejected starts to sting.

For people that have a strong game. They wouldn't understand that. But why must you act like everyone should have strong game, & if they don't there must be something wrong.

For my I may be putting the "Pu**y on a pedestal", but the reason I am is because for me it seems so hard to obtain. There are others out there like me. I just figured I could get kind of a support group going.
That's the thing... you're thinking about the pu**y. My advice?

Don't.

If you're nervous about approaching women, quit thinking about getting some. She's a person. Go over and be social, talk to her. Game is simply figuring out what to say, and if you act confident, you'll say the right thing. Chicks dig confidence. Even if you think you're ugly, if you go up to a woman and act like you're a mature guy who knows exactly who he is, you'll do just fine.

That's what I've learnt, but form your own opinions.

[Trainwreck2100]

She's probably married.

[Ghostvirus]

All the times I have talked to her. She has mentioned her kids, but never a Bo, or Hubby.

[Trainwreck2100]

All the times I have talked to her. She has mentioned her kids, but never a Bo, or Hubby.

That's crazy, if you lived in SA, I'd say you were talking about the pharmacist I work with. She acts the same way, but she's married, which sucks

[Majik1387]

All the times I have talked to her. She has mentioned her kids, but never a Bo, or Hubby.
Check her ring finger.

[Ghostvirus]

I have she has (I kid you not) 4 rings on her ring finger!

[tzarinna]

What attracts you to this women other than how she looks,you must feel you have something in common...at least I hope that's the reason you're interested in her?
Base your approach on that (your common interest).

[Abaddon]

This thread wasn't supposed to be just about me. It was supposed to be for anyone that needs advice. There are some people out there that don't mind giving it properly.

I don't understand why people feel the need to enter one of these threads, & act like asking a woman out is simple. For some people it isn't that simple. I mean when a person has been rejected more than accepted. After a while being rejected starts to sting.

For people that have a strong game. They wouldn't understand that. But why must you act like everyone should have strong game, & if they don't there must be something wrong.

For my I may be putting the "Pu**y on a pedestal", but the reason I am is because for me it seems so hard to obtain. There are others out there like me. I just figured I could get kind of a support group going.

I already gave you advice. Get to know her better. In fact come right out and ask her if she's married.:o

[Harlekin]

I don't understand why people feel the need to enter one of these threads, & act like asking a woman out is simple. For some people it isn't that simple. I mean when a person has been rejected more than accepted. After a while being rejected starts to sting.

Get rejected some more. That sounds lame, I know, and I won't say I'm getting results, but I've found it becomes easier to ask out women. Eventually, the rejection stops stinging and you just accept it for what it is.

[Lord Valumart]

want my advice on relationships?

see your parenter often and shag them every opertunity you can get...

as for how to get into a relationship...don;t start by grabbing their tit as a hello...that ends in a slap...

[hippy fascist]

I figured since there seems to be alot of people asking advice about relations. There should be a place to post question, suggestion, etc...

I will go first. There is this pharmacy that I have went to for about 10 years. I love the place, because I have built a strong rep, so I don't have to deal with some of the crap that others do.

:huh: :huh: :huh:

Anyway I have run into a little bit of a delimma. There is a pharmacist who works there that I can't stop thinking about. I want to ask her out, but I have 2 probs.

1. I am pretty sure that she is quite a bit older than me. Which isn't a problem for me. I just don't know if it is one for her.

2. If she says no I can't very well keep going there, because it would just be awkward. :o

Basically. Should I risk it, or not?

You're asking her out on a date not asking if you can stick your penis in her. Why would this be awkward :huh:

Also what kind of rep did you build up. Can you eat more laxatives than any of the other customers without ****ting yourself?

Sometimes I just despair...


Jag

[hippy fascist]

want my advice on relationships?

see your parenter often and shag them every opertunity you can get...

as for how to get into a relationship...don;t start by grabbing their tit as a hello...that ends in a slap...

Scottish people and their incestuous relationships... :heart:


Jag

[Mr. Credible]

I really like this girl and she likes me but the problem is, she has no arms and she can't hug me. I can't love without hugs, what should I do?


ugh... i don't know whether or not you're serious, but this happened to me the other day, kind of.

i was flirting with the very pretty young tanning salon girl the other day, and she had a towel draped over one of her arms, and it looked kind of weird, but i didn't think anything of it, then when the towel came off, she had, not so much a stump, but it kind of came to a point... like a well-tanned finger at the end of her forearm.

i just kind of... gawked.

then i left.

[hippy fascist]

enjoy the lake of fire ****er! :cmad:


Jag.

[Ghostvirus]

What attracts you to this women other than how she looks,you must feel you have something in common...at least I hope that's the reason you're interested in her?
Base your approach on that (your common interest).

Good question. I don't know really. She just seems like she is really cool, & laid back. For some reason I can't stop thinking about her. Hard to explain.

I already gave you advice. Get to know her better. In fact come right out and ask her if she's married.:o

That pretty much lets the cat out of the bag. I would think.

Get rejected some more. That sounds lame, I know, and I won't say I'm getting results, but I've found it becomes easier to ask out women. Eventually, the rejection stops stinging and you just accept it for what it is.

I have actually given this alot of thought. My problem is in my 29 years on this planet people that I open myself up to have hurt me more than anything, so it is hard for me to expose myself by asking another person out.

want my advice on relationships?

see your parenter often and shag them every opertunity you can get...

as for how to get into a relationship...don;t start by grabbing their tit as a hello...that ends in a slap...

All I have to say is I am glad I wasn't raised in Ireland.:o

You're asking her out on a date not asking if you can stick your penis in her. Why would this be awkward :huh:

Also what kind of rep did you build up. Can you eat more laxatives than any of the other customers without ****ting yourself?

Sometimes I just despair...


Jag

1. In my experience for some reason it gets awkard after said question is uttered. It might just be my perception.

2. No, I just have kind of a Cheers type thing going there. Everybody knows my name, & I like it. With the way businesses come, & go. It is hard to do that these days.

[hippy fascist]

Go up to the counter

Ask for a 20 pack of ribbed magnums

Ask her if she wants to give you a hand putting one on

This WILL work, I promise :up:



:ninja:


Jag.

[Erzengel]

Basically. Should I risk it, or not?
Life's all about risk. Sitting on your hands waiting for things to fall in your lap isn't the way to go through life.

Besides I think there are better things in life than having a "strong rep" at a pharmacy. I go to my pharmacy for 2 reasons. To get medicine and condoms. That's all most people shoulld need too.

[incubat]

Hey at least you walked away. I usually freeze, & stay there not saying anything until they leave. Thats where the presumed arrogance comes into play. When in reality I am losing my sh**, can't move, or speak. It really pisses me off!

I thougt I was the only idiot... that happens to me all the time. Like you said, I can be very funny, but when I get around people I don't know yet, or hot girls...I just forget how to speak and start mumbling... and I also don't pick up signals, except when they're not directed at me...

[incubat]

Oh yeah, I forgot, go for it Maximum,trust me, there's nothing worst than asking yourself later "what if".

[Ghostvirus]

I thougt I was the only idiot... that happens to me all the time. Like you said, I can be very funny, but when I get around people I don't know yet, or hot girls...I just forget how to speak and start mumbling... and I also don't pick up signals, except when they're not directed at me...

I will sometimes pick up the signals, but not until much later. I will be sleeping, & suddenly wake like "sumB**ch! that woman was flirting with me." Then I just add another notch to the regrets post.:csad:

[Abaddon]

That pretty much lets the cat out of the bag. I would think.



Not if you work it into the conversation.

[Ghostvirus]

Oh yeah, I forgot, go for it Maximum,trust me, there's nothing worst than asking yourself later "what if".

I am going to test the waters tomorrow. I will let you all know what went down.

[incubat]

I hate it when that happens...worst thing is, when I see a someone flirting with a friend of mine or so, I see the signs right away and am all like "dude you didin't see that?" but when it's about me I get all neurotic and only get it when it's too late...

[Ghostvirus]

I feel ya man.

[Machx72]

Back when I worked at a tinting company, I worked with a guy who wanted to get into the pants of this [pretty damned hott] woman who worked at the local gas station.

He kept saying he had to give it time and keep coming in so he can get on her sweet side.

My advice to him was just to slap his dick on the counter, and tell her, "Let's go."

He's probably done that by now, knowing him.

[Machx72]

I hate it when that happens...worst thing is, when I see a someone flirting with a friend of mine or so, I see the signs right away and am all like "dude you didin't see that?" but when it's about me I get all neurotic and only get it when it's too late...

I'm the same exact way... With everything.

I can help with problems with other people, but when it comes to me... I can't do a damn thing.

My friend set me up on a blind date for this weekend, and I haven't been on a date in forever- and even when I was dating that girl, we had been in a relationship and she was very straight-forward about everything.

This time around, the girl's two years younger than me, and from what I've been told this girl probably won't be nearly as straightforward as my ex was, if she even likes me at all.

So my friend told me about "reading the signs" and ****... But I can't do that. I'm dumber than **** when it comes to reading signs, and have no clue what to do on a date really.

I think I just suck at dating in general:dry:.

[Erzengel]

Practice, practice, practice.

[Machx72]

I don't know how to start :(.

[Erzengel]

Date 1, followed by Date 2 etc.

Date 2 doesn't necessarily have to be with same woman.

[Machx72]

Very true.

I've never been one for casual dating... But I think that may be the direction I'm headed in.

I don't know if my friend is "hooking me up" with this girl [for a potential relationship], so to speak... Or just getting me a date.

[Kyalesyin]

I could use some relationship advice....

Everything is going perfectly, we're desperately in love, we've got our future all planned out, my wife is beautiful, our new home is amazing, her parents love me...

What am I doing wrong?

[Erzengel]

Very true.



I've never been one for casual dating... But I think that may be the direction I'm headed in.



I don't know if my friend is "hooking me up" with this girl [for a potential relationship], so to speak... Or just getting me a date.

Stop overthinking. Stop thinking girlfriend, marriage, kids.

Worry about the 1st date.

Do you know when to worry about the 2nd date? After the first one.

And about your 1st date, I know most of us are preprogrammed to be on date behavior for like the 1st year but try your best to be yourself, keep the conversation on her and just try and have a good time. Most of the time they just happen to work themselves out.

[Machx72]

DEFYING JESUS!

THOU SHALT NOT HAVE GAYSEX.

That's one of the subliminals of the Ten Commandments.

I don't live by them :-).

Wow... That totally makes it look like I have gay sex.

I don't.

[SpideyLad]

Go up to the counter

Ask for a 20 pack of ribbed magnums

Ask her if she wants to give you a hand putting one on

This WILL work, I promise :up:



:ninja:


Jag.

Yeah, and by work, you mean get a slap in the face:oldrazz:

[Machx72]

Worry about the 1st date.

Do you know when to worry about the 2nd date? After the first one.

And about your 1st date, I know most of us are preprogrammed to be on date behavior for like the 1st year but try your best to be yourself, keep the conversation on her and just try and have a good time. Most of the time they just happen to work themselves out.

I'm hoping to high heaven it works itself out, cuz I have no clue what I'm doing. I'll try to follow that, though... I tend to "be myself" all the time, but sometimes "being myself" is what gets me into trouble...

But I guess I should just stop thinking about that and just do it anyway:oldrazz:.


Stop overthinking. Stop thinking girlfriend, marriage, kids.

Actually, I'm one of those people who are kind of... Intimidated, you could say, by these kinds of things. I'm too young for marriage and kids, and I haven't had a girlfriend in over a year and a half.

I just don't really know if that was my friend's intention with this, that's all.

[Erzengel]

The only reason I brought up marriage and kids is because you were already bringing up girlfriend and you haven't even been on a date with her yet.

Go out, have fun. If you both have fun, go out again. Rinse and repeat. And after a while, you kinda will know if you want her around or not. Just stop over analyzing everything and just put your best foot forward.

[Machx72]

The only reason I brought up marriage and kids is because you were already bringing up girlfriend and you haven't even been on a date with her yet.

Go out, have fun. If you both have fun, go out again. Rinse and repeat. And after a while, you kinda will know if you want her around or not. Just stop over analyzing everything and just put your best foot forward.

Yeah... I do overanalyze a lot of things...

Damn. Right, first things first, this girl is supposedly gonna call tonight. I gotta get my mind straight before that.

Thanks for the advice.

[Erzengel]

It's what I do. :up:

Now I have to ridicule someone to balance this out.

[Kyalesyin]

If everyone on this forum gets laid this year, the universe as we know it will cease to exist.

[terry78]

I had actually started talking to a girl at one of the local malls that used to work at the music store a few years back, and I would go in at random just looking for goofy music she knew I wasn't into, and one day I was like, "we need to hit a movie or something on one of your lunch hours one day." Then she says, "do you have a small dick? Cause I can't date a dude with a small dick." :dry: I kinda laughed it off and was like, "not to my knowledge, no." i think that was my stage where i was a little afraid of aggressive chicks that basically threatened my attempts at being the aggressor. :csad:

[Kyalesyin]

I had actually started talking to a girl at one of the local malls that used to work at the music store a few years back, and I would go in at random just looking for goofy music she knew I wasn't into, and one day I was like, "we need to hit a movie or something on one of your lunch hours one day." Then she says, "do you have a small dick? Cause I can't date a dude with a small dick." :dry: I kinda laughed it off and was like, "not to my knowledge, no." i think that was my stage where i was a little afraid of aggressive chicks that basically threatened my attempts at being the aggressor. :csad:

I'm going to hell. I laughed. I laughed for a full minute and then some. I can only imagine the look on your face...

[incubat]

Yeah... I do overanalyze a lot of things...

Damn. Right, first things first, this girl is supposedly gonna call tonight. I gotta get my mind straight before that.

Thanks for the advice.

Overanalyzing things is just a way to stall them... I should know, I do it all the time...

[incubat]

If everyone on this forum gets laid this year, the universe as we know it will cease to exist.

I'd get offended.. If it wasn't true...

(btw, you're on this forum too)

[Ghostvirus]

I could use some relationship advice....

Everything is going perfectly, we're desperately in love, we've got our future all planned out, my wife is beautiful, our new home is amazing, her parents love me...

What am I doing wrong?

*Smacks you* You were sleep typing.:o

If everyone on this forum gets laid this year, the universe as we know it will cease to exist.

I believe that was chapter 4 in the Brief History Of Time, By Stephen Hawking.

I had actually started talking to a girl at one of the local malls that used to work at the music store a few years back, and I would go in at random just looking for goofy music she knew I wasn't into, and one day I was like, "we need to hit a movie or something on one of your lunch hours one day." Then she says, "do you have a small dick? Cause I can't date a dude with a small dick." :dry: I kinda laughed it off and was like, "not to my knowledge, no." i think that was my stage where i was a little afraid of aggressive chicks that basically threatened my attempts at being the aggressor. :csad:

I would have asked for a ruler, & dropped trow.:o




Just kidding I would have freaked out, & ran away.

[amazingfantasy15]

Good question. I don't know really. She just seems like she is really cool, & laid back. For some reason I can't stop thinking about her. Hard to explain.

Do you really know much about her other than what she "seems" like? Do you have any shared interests? If you feel like there is something there just go for it, don't worry about any awkwardness later.

[Ghostvirus]

Do you really know much about her other than what she "seems" like? Do you have any shared interests? If you feel like there is something there just go for it, don't worry about any awkwardness later.


What you said before got me thinking. I really don't know that much about her. I know she has a daughter, & I think she has a son, but other than that I don't really no if we share the same interests. So I am going to go ahead, & take this real slow, get to know her, then when the opportunity presents itself. I will make my move.

[Kyalesyin]

I'd get offended.. If it wasn't true...

(btw, you're on this forum too)

I'm married. I get laid most nights...

I'm making up for the rest of the forum...

[Sugarculted]

I break the rules :cmad:

I have a healthy sex life, in the same room as my countless Marvel toys/comics.

It doesn't make sense :s

[Kyalesyin]

We keep all our comics and action figures in the bedroom... doesn't slow us down either...

[incubat]

I'm married. I get laid most nights...

I'm making up for the rest of the forum...

well, then I guess I (we) should be thankful (jealous)

[Ghostvirus]

Got A Q.

That Pharmacist that I talked about. Still has yet to mention a significant other. I have gone there twice a month for about 5 years. We talk just about everytime. She even seems to make it a point to fill my stuff.

Anyway. Like I said she hasn't mentioned a better half, but she has mentioned many, many other personal things. Is it normal for a women to leave out her husband, but talk about her kids, & what not?

Am I reading to much in to this?

[Erzengel]

What do you have to lose? A little embarassment?

Just ask her next time, "Hey can I get your number?".

There's your answer.

And who cares if you get embarassed, just next time you go in, act like nothing ever happened.

[Ghostvirus]

What do you have to lose? A little embarassment?

Just ask her next time, "Hey can I get your number?".

There's your answer.

And who cares if you get embarassed, just next time you go in, act like nothing ever happened.

I have a lot to lose emotionally. I have become very smitten with her over the years.

[BRUTAL]

You've liked her for 5 years and haven't asked her out?

[Erzengel]

I have a lot to lose emotionally. I have become very smitten with her over the years.
Honestly? Get over it.

Life is all about risk.

If that girl quits her job tomorrow, are you going to cling to those handful of times that you actually spoke to her?

Wouldn't you have rathered said, at least I asked her? Regret is worse than disappointment.

[Ghostvirus]

Honestly? Get over it.

Life is all about risk.

If that girl quits her job tomorrow, are you going to cling to those handful of times that you actually spoke to her?

Wouldn't you have rathered said, at least I asked her? Regret is worse than disappointment.

Believe me I know. I am just terrified is all. Anyway that isn't what I was wondering.

Is it normal for a women to leave you significant other out of a conversation. If it has to with her personal life?

[BRUTAL]

Honestly? Get over it.

Life is all about risk.

If that girl quits her job tomorrow, are you going to cling to those handful of times that you actually spoke to her?

Wouldn't you have rathered said, at least I asked her? Regret is worse than disappointment.

Honestly.

If she rejects you, so what? It's not like you two had anything special to begin with.

[Symbiotic]

Go for it, dude!

[Erzengel]

Not necessarily.

Maybe there isn't a husband or boyfriend or even girlfriend or wife?

Maybe there is and she just likes the attention or she feels that part of her life is private.

Honestly, if you don't ask her, you'll never know. But, if you just want to sit on your hands, waiting for her to essentially tell you to ask her out, you will be waiting even longer.

Just be honest with yourself.

[Symbiotic]

Not necessarily.

Maybe there isn't a husband or boyfriend or even girlfriend or wife?

Maybe there is and she just likes the attention or she feels that part of her life is private.

Honestly, if you don't ask her, you'll never know. But, if you just want to sit on your hands, waiting for her to essentially tell you to ask her out, you will be waiting even longer.

Just be honest with yourself. Exactly.

[Wilhelm-Scream]

NO!

Do NOT ask her anything!

Don't make any moves or let her find out that you like-like her!

Just silently admire her from afar and wonder.

Stay alone! It's safe!
Just imagine how things could be. Don't find out how they could be!

Is some possible new world of happiness and pleasure worth possibly getting a little embarrassed for a few seconds and making a chick's day by suggesting that she's attractive to someone?!?

[Ghostvirus]

Not necessarily.

Maybe there isn't a husband or boyfriend or even girlfriend or wife?

Maybe there is and she just likes the attention or she feels that part of her life is private.

She told me that her teen daughter is pregnant, & the father is a 20 year old man. Can't get much more private than that, but she has still to mention a side kick.

Honestly, if you don't ask her, you'll never know. But, if you just want to sit on your hands, waiting for her to essentially tell you to ask her out, you will be waiting even longer.

Just be honest with yourself.


I am aware of this. I am just trying to work through some fear issues. I am trying before this does end up being a regret. But as it stands right now. I would rather be taking fire in Iraq than ask her out. I bullet wound would be easier to take.

[Erzengel]

I'm sure there are other pharmacies you can go to.

I mean this in the least offensive way but seriously stop being a pussy.

[Ghostvirus]

I'm sure there are other pharmacies you can go to.

I mean this in the least offensive way but seriously stop being a pussy.

I tell myself that everyday. Just some where along the way. I started letting fear control my life. I don't know when it happened. All I know is it is hard to dig my self out of that hole.

[Wilhelm-Scream]

as it stands right now. I would rather be taking fire in Iraq than ask her out. I bullet wound would be easier to take.
HaHaHaHaHaHaHa
Crawl into a hole. :o


EDIT: whoa, weird....the cosmic consciousness sent out the word "hole" at that moment. :eek:

[Erzengel]

There are other women if she says no.

You are looking for a "sure thing" with this woman but you're not going to get a guarantee on it.

1 year waiting is FAR too long.

Actually go tonight, and just say "Hey, can I get your number so we can talk sometime?" She says Yes, great if she says No, say "That's okay. Take it easy."

Stop building this up to be the end all, be all of experiences.

[Ghostvirus]

There are other women if she says no.

You are looking for a "sure thing" with this woman but you're not going to get a guarantee on it.

1 year waiting is FAR too long.

Actually go tonight, and just say "Hey, can I get your number so we can talk sometime?" She says Yes, great if she says No, say "That's okay. Take it easy."

Stop building this up to be the end all, be all of experiences.

kay. Gotcha.

[Wilhelm-Scream]

If she's available she already thinks he's gay or socially inept or taken. :(

[Logan's Runt]

I tell myself that everyday. Just some where along the way. I started letting fear control my life. I don't know when it happened. All I know is it is hard to dig my self out of that hole.

Believe me, I've been there. You've got to face it or it'll keep getting more comprehensive. I was nearly agoraphobic at one time in my life.

[Erzengel]

Believe me, I've been there. You've got to face it or it'll keep getting more comprehensive. I was nearly agoraphobic at one time in my life.
I hate spiders too. :csad:

[Ghostvirus]

If she's available she already thinks he's gay or socially inept or taken. :(

I have wondered about the gay thing.

Believe me, I've been there. You've got to face it or it'll keep getting more comprehensive. I was nearly agoraphobic at one time in my life.

Word. I have teetered on the edge of agoraphobia many times. That is the one fear I can face. Anyime I find it scary to get out. I make myself get out.

I hate spiders too. :csad:

Please be joking.:oldrazz:

[Erzengel]

So have you ever googled her?

Myspace? Facebook?

If you want a little more confidence, maybe you can find out if she's taken or not?

[Ghostvirus]

I just know her first name, & I am pretty sure she doesn't have the time to Myspace.

[Erzengel]

She's the pharmacist and doesn't have a name tag, or something off the perscription AND you've been talking to her for 5 years?

[Spider-Fan]

You have been talking to her for five years?

Just ask her out man. If she's taken, she's taken, but just do it.

[Ghostvirus]

OMG! I know I just went to comment in another thread! I didn't want to bring this up again! AHHH The Pressure. I plan on asking her out. Then I will update this thread. It won't be for at least a month, because she is taking a break to help her kid take care of her newborn.

I do appreciate the help though. Thanks.

[Erzengel]

How old are you and how old is this woman?

[Ghostvirus]

How old are you and how old is this woman?

That another connundrum.:csad:

I am 29, & she has a daughter that is 16. So I am hoping she is only 39. *fingers crossed*

Truth be told. I don't care.

[incubat]

don't kill the messenger, but she might be 40something..

[terry78]

That another connundrum.:csad:

I am 29, & she has a daughter that is 16. So I am hoping she is only 39. *fingers crossed*

Truth be told. I don't care.

Wait two years when the daughter turns 18, and....no. I won't go there.

[Ghostvirus]

don't kill the messenger, but she might be 40something..

*shoots incubat in the face*:dry: :ninja:

Wait two years when the daughter turns 18, and....no. I won't go there.

Thats not how I role. I can't really stand to be with anyone under 22. They are just too damn cheerful, & dumb.

[incubat]

Wait two years when the daughter turns 18, and....no. I won't go there.

freakin' lol

[tzarinna]

I know a woman that's 36 and has a daughter that's 18, just so ya know.

[Ghostvirus]

I know a woman that's 36 and has a daughter that's 18, just so ya know.

That is what I am hoping. I mean anything over 42 is going to get a little weird.

[incubat]

I know a woman that's 36 and has a daughter that's 18, just so ya know.

I know it happens
http://i114.photobucket.com/albums/n269/incubat/gilmore-girls.jpg

:whatever:


but hey, I was just saying...

[ShadowBoxing]

There is this hawt MILF at the gym now. I should bang her...nay, I will.

[tzarinna]

^Make sure you rock her world.

[Immortalfire]

When it comes to advice, the Hype is a delicate combo of Dr. Phil and Dear Abby....on crack.

[Ghostvirus]

When it comes to advice, the Hype is a delicate combo of Dr. Phil and Dear Abby....on crack.

I think there is a hint of Dice Clay as well.

[terry78]

I know it happens
http://i114.photobucket.com/albums/n269/incubat/gilmore-girls.jpg

:whatever:


but hey, I was just saying...

To answer the hypothetical, yes I would bang Lorelai and Rory at once...or while one watched and made sarcastic quips.

[ShadowBoxing]

^Make sure you rock her world.
Yeah something like that...

[Ghostvirus]

Yeah something like that...

Have her take the dentures out. Smooth sailin.:ninja:

[terry78]

Have her take the dentures out. Smooth sailin.:ninja:

Nothing but gums...now how would that feel? :p

[ShadowBoxing]

Have her take the dentures out. Smooth sailin.:ninja:
Oh no she is a young mommy.

[incubat]

To answer the hypothetical, yes I would bang Lorelai and Rory at once...or while one watched and made sarcastic quips.

ok....



thou I can't say I hadn't thougt of that:rolleyes:

[Ghostvirus]

Oh no she is a young mommy.

Step 1. Knock her teeth out.

Step 2. Get her dentures to apologize.

Step 3. Make her take the dentures out.

Step 4. Ride the tunnel tunnel.:o

[StrainedEyes]

God, How do people get to be nearly 30 and still mope and cry over 'that special girl.'? I can only imagine what the rest of your life is like. All I can picture is the most awkward conversations that go on between you two when you go to get pills filled. Her blabbing on endlessly about her pregnant daughter and you staring at her with doughy eyes and saying 'uhhuh' every so often.

She is a 40 year old WOMAN with a daughter and her own problems, I doubt she needs some frieghtned 30 year old man-child clumsily asking for her number so you can 'hang out some time.'

Either show some balls and act like the man that 40 year old woman would want and ask her out. Or continue to pine away in your sheepish corner while she lives her life.

[Ghostvirus]

God, How do people get to be nearly 30 and still mope and cry over 'that special girl.'? I can only imagine what the rest of your life is like. All I can picture is the most awkward conversations that go on between you two when you go to get pills filled. Her blabbing on endlessly about her pregnant daughter and you staring at her with doughy eyes and saying 'uhhuh' every so often.

She is a 40 year old WOMAN with a daughter and her own problems, I doubt she needs some frieghtned 30 year old man-child clumsily asking for her number so you can 'hang out some time.'

Either show some balls and act like the man that 40 year old woman would want and ask her out. Or continue to pine away in your sheepish corner while she lives her life.

My, my aren't we the sensitive type. By the way you misspelled frightened. Just thought you should know the first step to manhood is spelling.

I am not really babbling when I am around her. I just kind of clam up. Forgive me for not being as cool as you.

[StrainedEyes]

My, my aren't we the sensitive type. By the way you misspelled frightened. Just thought you should know the first step to manhood is spelling.

I am not really babbling when I am around her. I just kind of clam up. Forgive me for not being as cool as you.

Gosh, a spelling attack. Those always sting the most. :whatever:

[Ghostvirus]

Gosh, a spelling attack. Those always sting the most. :whatever:

What is your deal man? I wasn't really attacking you. Just pointing it out. In kind of a ironic jokey way.

Loosen up.

[StrainedEyes]

It's just thread after thread after thread of middle school - high school people complaining about this perfect girl that they have known for years but don't have the courage to ask out. The girls with the crappy boyfriends or the sad stories, the ones the boy wants to save. They just need that perfect moment to break out of their shy bubbles and get the best girl.

It's just like, c'mon man. You're 29 years old, probably settled in a career with an apartment or house. You're an adult living in the adult world. Yet for some reason you are overcome by a silly irrational fear of looking silly infront of this woman who you don't really know and who really has no idea who you are, aside from a recurring customer.

It would not be the end of the world if she had somebody. Frankly if you cared about her, you'd be happy that she was happy. There's a walgreens every 3 miles everywhere, so a new pharmacy (if that's what it came to, if you are that overwhelmed) would not be that hard to find.

But she's an adult, and so are you. I'm sure she's had plenty of people ask her out, and would not act strangely or hate you if you did.

Just freaking do it and get on with your life. Life is way to short, she could quit, or even die, and you'd be left worse off than you are now.

[Ghostvirus]

It's just thread after thread after thread of middle school - high school people complaining about this perfect girl that they have known for years but don't have the courage to ask out. The girls with the crappy boyfriends or the sad stories, the ones the boy wants to save. They just need that perfect moment to break out of their shy bubbles and get the best girl.

It's just like, c'mon man. You're 29 years old, probably settled in a career with an apartment or house. You're an adult living in the adult world. Yet for some reason you are overcome by a silly irrational fear of looking silly infront of this woman who you don't really know and who really has no idea who you are, aside from a recurring customer.

It would not be the end of the world if she had somebody. Frankly if you cared about her, you'd be happy that she was happy. There's a walgreens every 3 miles everywhere, so a new pharmacy (if that's what it came to, if you are that overwhelmed) would not be that hard to find.

But she's an adult, and so are you. I'm sure she's had plenty of people ask her out, and would not act strangely or hate you if you did.

Just freaking do it and get on with your life. Life is way to short, she could quit, or even die, and you'd be left worse off than you are now.

I hear what you are saying. Plenty of other people have said it before you.

However, I don't think it is fare for equate maturety with fear. Every single person on this planet has a irrational fear of some kind. Mine just happens to be rejection. I am trying to work through it, but it is hard for me. Seeing as how I have cultivated it for many, many years.

But I am trying, & that's all I can do.

[Spider-Fan]

It's just thread after thread after thread of middle school - high school people complaining about this perfect girl that they have known for years but don't have the courage to ask out. The girls with the crappy boyfriends or the sad stories, the ones the boy wants to save. They just need that perfect moment to break out of their shy bubbles and get the best girl.

It's just like, c'mon man. You're 29 years old, probably settled in a career with an apartment or house. You're an adult living in the adult world. Yet for some reason you are overcome by a silly irrational fear of looking silly infront of this woman who you don't really know and who really has no idea who you are, aside from a recurring customer.

It would not be the end of the world if she had somebody. Frankly if you cared about her, you'd be happy that she was happy. There's a walgreens every 3 miles everywhere, so a new pharmacy (if that's what it came to, if you are that overwhelmed) would not be that hard to find.

But she's an adult, and so are you. I'm sure she's had plenty of people ask her out, and would not act strangely or hate you if you did.

Just freaking do it and get on with your life. Life is way to short, she could quit, or even die, and you'd be left worse off than you are now.

Dude, it is not like every person after a certain age suddenly has no nervousness about asking people out. Tons of people are like that. Instead of trying to group everyone with middle school and high school kids, try to help them and build their confidence.

Honestly, so many people on this forum are just insensitive towards others.

NOTICE: I have not complained once in this thread (nor will you ever see me do so), but posts like these make me just want to go off on people.

[StrainedEyes]

I hear what you are saying. Plenty of other people have said it before you.

However, I don't think it is fare for equate maturety with fear. Every single person on this planet has a irrational fear of some kind. Mine just happens to be rejection. I am trying to work through it, but it is hard for me. Seeing as how I have cultivated it for many, many years.

But I am trying, & that's all I can do.

Everybody is insecure. It's not like your fear is unusual or greater then anyone elses. You just make it out to be overwhelming and crippling. As does everybody with a fear, especially a fear of rejection.
Do you have any basis for it? Did you ask someone out and they beat you up because of it? Did you accidently kill someone for saying no? Have you had any actual bad experience happen (aside from being rejected) come from asking someone out? I'm going to assume no. Which means your fear is completely fabricated and not special.

Stop acting like you will die if she says no. "OMG i'm like totally gunna die if he doesn't like ask me to the prom' There are plenty of real things to be afraid of.

If you never take a chance, you will never change.

[Ghostvirus]

Everybody is insecure. It's not like your fear is unusual or greater then anyone elses. You just make it out to be overwhelming and crippling. As does everybody with a fear, especially a fear of rejection.
Do you have any basis for it? Did you ask someone out and they beat you up because of it? Did you accidently kill someone for saying no? Have you had any actual bad experience happen (aside from being rejected) come from asking someone out? I'm going to assume no. Which means your fear is completely fabricated and not special.

Stop acting like you will die if she says no. "OMG i'm like totally gunna die if he doesn't like ask me to the prom' There are plenty of real things to be afraid of.

If you never take a chance, you will never change.

Since you have asked I am going to tell you why.

When I was 15 my mom had me checked in to a hospital for teen depression. 2 weeks later she comes in, & tells me she has no plans of ever picking me up. I spent the next for years in foster care. Until I was spit out the system.

That was August 19th 1993. I didn't see her again until 7 years later. I am in no way using this as an excuse.

I also know that I am not the only one with these problems. That is why I made this Thread. I thought more people would come in with their troubles. That has not happened so far.

You also need to understand that getting rid of fears can't just magically happen over night. It takes a lot of effort. I have a lot more things mentally to deal with than just fear. I am slowly getting through them. Again all I can do is try.

[Snipershot]

ive gotten much better in the past year in asking people out, but sadly i have had no lasting relationships. im praying the 1 im in now actually decides to last for me

[Snipershot]

i also think that getting rejected a couple times freshman year helped me out a bit.

[batnkevlar]

Yeah, rejection ain't a big deal really... you just go with the flow...

has this whole thread been about Maximum Carnage's problems? We should bring in some new people too, and totally answer multiple questions at once, thus confusing people and leading to misunderstandings and maybe even real-life ****ups...

[Ghostvirus]

Yeah, rejection ain't a big deal really... you just go with the flow...

has this whole thread been about Maximum Carnage's problems? We should bring in some new people too, and totally answer multiple questions at once, thus confusing people and leading to misunderstandings and maybe even real-life ****ups...

I kind of agree. Except for the last sentence. Don't really know how to take that.

Anyway I made this thread so a whole bunch of peeps can come in here, & mix it up. So far that has failed.

[Erzengel]

Dude, it is not like every person after a certain age suddenly has no nervousness about asking people out. Tons of people are like that. Instead of trying to group everyone with middle school and high school kids, try to help them and build their confidence.

Honestly, so many people on this forum are just insensitive towards others.

NOTICE: I have not complained once in this thread (nor will you ever see me do so), but posts like these make me just want to go off on people.
Well, I try. :o

[Immortalfire]

So, I'm thinking of trying the Harry Osborn wink on the hot bank teller..

http://forums.superherohype.com/image.php?u=34624&dateline=1184302351


She'll fall for me like an anvil. I mean, the other day she told me "have a nice day"! :wow:
Thoughts?

[Ghostvirus]

So, I'm thinking of trying the Harry Osborn wink on the hot bank teller..

http://forums.superherohype.com/image.php?u=34624&dateline=1184302351


She'll fall for me like an anvil. I mean, the other day she told me "have a nice day"! :wow:
Thoughts?

How about pulling a Jason Mraz instead? Just walk up to her, & give her a note that says Give Me What I Want. With a heart drawn on the bottom. Then you are in like flynn.:o

[terry78]

All you need to know...go up to a girl. Say hi. If she says hi, that means you can stick it in. Game over. :o

[amazingfantasy15]

I kind of agree. Except for the last sentence. Don't really know how to take that.

Anyway I made this thread so a whole bunch of peeps can come in here, & mix it up. So far that has failed.

The problem is whenever someone has girl problems like yours they make their own thread about it.

As for your problem, the longer you wait the better the chance she'll be going out with someone once you get around to asking her. One of these days you're getting your prescription refilled she's gonna tell you about this great guy she's recently started seeing (if she isn't seeing anyone now).

[Ghostvirus]

The problem is whenever someone has girl problems like yours they make their own thread about it.

As for your problem, the longer you wait the better the chance she'll be going out with someone once you get around to asking her. One of these days you're getting your prescription refilled she's gonna tell you about this great guy she's recently started seeing (if she isn't seeing anyone now).

The difference is. I didn't make this thread specifically for me. I made for everybody who has relationship probs. I just suddenly became the only one with one.

As for the second paragraph. I agree. I am working on it. If I fail...I fail.

[amazingfantasy15]

The difference is. I didn't make this thread specifically for me. I made for everybody who has relationship probs. I just suddenly became the only one with one.

As for the second paragraph. I agree. I am working on it. If I fail...I fail.

Actually you're failing now by not acting.

[Erzengel]

That is why you failed. :csad:

http://blogs.starwars.com/static/img/image-selector/full/original-trilogy/episode-v/13.jpg

[Ghostvirus]

She is on vacation people! If I show up at her house. That isn't going to accomplish anything. Except awkwardness, creepiness, mace, miranda rights, & a restraining order.

I don't want any of those things.

[Erzengel]

Wait you know where she lives but not her last name?

[Ghostvirus]

Wait you know where she lives but not her last name?

No. It was just a hypothethical.

[Lord Valumart]

She is on vacation people! If I show up at her house. That isn't going to accomplish anything. Except awkwardness, creepiness, mace, miranda rights, & a restraining order.

I don't want any of those things.

everyone wants a restraining order...it's on my before 30 list:up:

[Ghostvirus]

everyone wants a restraining order...it's on my before 30 list:up:

Me, & a friend weren't allowed back in to a restaraunt because a waitress was creeped out. Does that count? There were no actual papers filed.

[Lord Valumart]

Me, & a friend weren't allowed back in to a restaraunt because a waitress was creeped out. Does that count? There were no actual papers filed.

nah...you need to have the papers filed

[Ghostvirus]

Great something else to work on!:cmad:

[tzarinna]

When is she going to be back at work, the anticipation is killing me?

[Ghostvirus]

Yeah right...I don't know. She just said 2 weeks, so she could very well be there when I come back in. I don't know. My mind goes a little blank when I talk to her, so I don't think...

[tzarinna]

Damn, 2 weeks!?
I wonder if that's paid.

[incubat]

When is she going to be back at work, the anticipation is killing me?

damn it...now I'm curious too....you just turned this into a soap opera:csad:

[Ghostvirus]

Well today is hopefully the day I at the very least find out if she is married. Hopefully she is back from her vacation. Anyway for all those that give a crap. Wish me luck!

[Erzengel]

Ask her out or for her phone number, don't ask if she's married. :huh:

[Ghostvirus]

Ask her out or for her phone number, don't ask if she's married. :huh:

baby steps man. Plus she is going through a rough time right now. I don't think she needs some dude hitting her up.

[Erzengel]

It may do wonders for her ego.

[terry78]

baby steps man. Plus she is going through a rough time right now. I don't think she needs some dude hitting her up.

That's the perfect time to do it? Didn't they teach you anything when you went to manhood school?! :cmad:

[Ghostvirus]

It may do wonders for her ego.

Or she may get offended at the fact that she has told me all this personal stuff, & I am just like "Thats so sad. Anyway you wanna catch a dinner, & a movie some time."

Just sayin it could go either way.

That's the perfect time to do it? Didn't they teach you anything when you went to manhood school?! :cmad:

I can't tell if you are joking, or not. Please be joking.:dry:

[terry78]

^Only partly. If you don't step up though at some point, someone else will swoop in, rebound guy or not. I learned that early on in school if you keep waffling when it comes to girls, some other dude will attempt to step in, regardless if he wants a serious relationship or just a quick ****.

[Ghostvirus]

I know...I know.:csad:

Anyway heading out now.

[Erzengel]

Or she may get offended at the fact that she has told me all this personal stuff, & I am just like "Thats so sad. Anyway you wanna catch a dinner, & a movie some time."

Just sayin it could go either way.
Well after she's telling all the personal stuff, you could give her your number and say, hey if you ever need to talk....

[incubat]

*waits to see what happens*

[amazingfantasy15]

*waits to see what happens*

Yeah, it's been 4 hours since he said he was leaving, what happened?

[Erzengel]

He strangled her. :(

[incubat]

please don't let him be another GR87

[amazingfantasy15]

He strangled her. :(

Well, that's a different approach.

[DV8]

dude's never gonna hit it . . . man, if he's not even confident to ask for her # after all these months, he'll freeze up if he ever gets her to go out w/ him . . .

man, take that pussy off the pedestal! why can't fools just watch 40 year old virgin and learn :confused:

the ironic thing about getting the ladies is that if you're not confident; they're not attracted to you, really . . . you're instant friend-zone fodder . . . you could be the fattest, ugliest mofo alive, and if you have that confidence (not cockiness), you are getting laid . . .

but most meeger-type dudes are lacking that confidence because they're SCARED they'll get shot down; thus lowering they're confidence level . . . what a viscious circle it is . . .

[Ghostvirus]

Well....:ninja:

She wasn't there.:csad:
Tune back in on August 7th for the continueing sage of Carnages ascent out woosification.

Edit: I also take the city bus, so that is why it took me so long.

[kytrigger]

Well....:ninja:

She wasn't there.:csad:
Tune back in on August 7th for the continueing sage of Carnages ascent out woosification.

Edit: I also take the city bus, so that is why it took me so long.
BOOOOO...such a let down!

This thread builds up to a great point and then leaves everythign unanswered. This is just like Lost.



:oldrazz: :cwink:

[Soundwave]

Sounds like a long, drawn out comic book storyline. At least we don't have to pay 2.99 for the next chapter. : )

[terry78]

Sounds like a long, drawn out comic book storyline. At least we don't have to pay 2.99 for the next chapter. : )

Actually it sounds like a romance manga. I'm waiting for the page where he opens up to her, she's like, "ummm, I don't think so", and a single bead of giant sweat appears on his face.

[Ghostvirus]

BOOOOO...such a let down!

This thread builds up to a great point and then leaves everythign unanswered. This is just like Lost.



:oldrazz: :cwink:

You think it was a let down for you! She is my double shot of happiness every other week. I wade through the crap that is life looking forward to talking to her. Her not being there just means I have to wait another 2 weeks to talk to her.:csad:

I almost went Jack Nicholson in As Good As It Gets on the other pharmacist.

Sounds like a long, drawn out comic book storyline. At least we don't have to pay 2.99 for the next chapter. : )

Maybe you will.:ninja:



Actually it sounds like a romance manga. I'm waiting for the page where he opens up to her, she's like, "ummm, I don't think so", and a single bead of giant sweat appears on his face.

Don't say that.:csad:

I don't want her to say no.:csad:

[DV8]

if you don't mind me asking what kind of meds do you take where you have to go every two weeks?

[Ghostvirus]

if you don't mind me asking what kind of meds do you take where you have to go every two weeks?

It isn't meds. It is some medical supplies.

[DV8]

^oh . . . what kind? lol

[Ghostvirus]

^oh . . . what kind? lol

Gauze pads, & stuff. Why?

[incubat]

I have a question:
Don't take it the wrong way, I think that if you want this girl, or woman, you should go get her, that's cool, but have you dated anybody else since you met her?

just curious

[Ghostvirus]

I have a question:
Don't take it the wrong way, I think that if you want this girl, or woman, you should go get her, that's cool, but have you dated anybody else since you met her?

just curious

No...Why?

[incubat]

^because it's happened to me, wanting to ask someone out for too long and passing on other oppotunities in the meanwhile.

[Ghostvirus]

^because it's happened to me, wanting to ask someone out for too long and passing on other oppotunities in the meanwhile.

It's complicated, but I have passed on many, many, many opportunities. Even before this woman came along. I just have a fear of being happy I guess. I don't know. Anyway in lite of has happened in the NBA thread I am not going to post again until the 7th.

[incubat]

what happened in the NBA thread?

[Ghostvirus]

what happened in the NBA thread?

Okay.. One more post. I got into a little spat with one of the posters, & he attacked me about how I am to woosified to get the woman at the pharmacy, so I am just going to lay low. Until I try again.

[incubat]

oh, ok, well, that sucks...
anyway, I've got to go sleep, tomorrow's gonna be a long day, good luck man


...and since I just saw transformers, "no sacrifice, no victory" :)

[Symbiote Hulk]

Well, I'm gonna try it my own way first. THere's this girl that I work with. SHe's hot but a bit younger than me. Here's my plan I'm going to have 2 of my workin friends with me and I'm gonna say: "So (Insert Name), Can I ride you home? I mean give you I ride home?"

If she says "yes" then good, if she walks away then I say "I'll take that as a yes", if she says "no", then I'll say "But why?! I'm RICK JAMES *****!!!!"

Either way I'm either gonna laugh about it with my friends or end up with a hot chick :D

[Erzengel]

Well, I'm gonna try it my own way first. THere's this girl that I work with. SHe's hot but a bit younger than me. Here's my plan I'm going to have 2 of my workin friends with me and I'm gonna say: "So (Insert Name), Can I ride you home? I mean give you I ride home?"

If she says "yes" then good, if she walks away then I say "I'll take that as a yes", if she says "no", then I'll say "But why?! I'm RICK JAMES *****!!!!"

Either way I'm either gonna laugh about it with my friends or end up with a hot chick :D
Ugh.

Why don't you just be yourself and go up to her and ask for her number? :huh:

[POWdER-man]

Well, I'm gonna try it my own way first. THere's this girl that I work with. SHe's hot but a bit younger than me. Here's my plan I'm going to have 2 of my workin friends with me and I'm gonna say: "So (Insert Name), Can I ride you home? I mean give you I ride home?"

If she says "yes" then good, if she walks away then I say "I'll take that as a yes", if she says "no", then I'll say "But why?! I'm RICK JAMES *****!!!!"

Either way I'm either gonna laugh about it with my friends or end up with a hot chick :D

This should be required reading for a lot of members on here.....btw...good luck with that plan....:dry:

http://i64.photobucket.com/albums/h192/powderman_2222/datingfordummies.jpg

[nosebleed.]

Well, I'm gonna try it my own way first. THere's this girl that I work with. SHe's hot but a bit younger than me. Here's my plan I'm going to have 2 of my workin friends with me and I'm gonna say: "So (Insert Name), Can I ride you home? I mean give you I ride home?"

If she says "yes" then good, if she walks away then I say "I'll take that as a yes", if she says "no", then I'll say "But why?! I'm RICK JAMES *****!!!!"

Either way I'm either gonna laugh about it with my friends or end up with a hot chick :D

Ugh.

Why don't you just be yourself and go up to her and ask for her number? :huh:

His way sounds like a winner. Grab her ass if she walks away. :up:

[POWdER-man]

His way sounds like a winner. Grab her ass if she walks away. :up:

Nah....slap her ass.....and get registered as a sex offender....:up:

[Ghostrider87]

I guess we can start talking more about my situation.

[Erzengel]

I guess we can start talking more about my situation.
Before everyone starts jumping on the bandwagon, answer me this. Has Jill attempted to make contact with you?

[Ghostrider87]

Before everyone starts jumping on the bandwagon, answer me this. Has Jill attempted to make contact with you?


No.

[Erzengel]

No.
Then you have no situation.

[Mister J]

I guess we can start talking more about my situation.
Bless you. :hyper:

[Ghostrider87]

Yeah right...I don't know. She just said 2 weeks, so she could very well be there when I come back in. I don't know. My mind goes a little blank when I talk to her, so I don't think...

So what is the latest Maximum Carnage on your situation?

[Trainwreck2100]

I had this girl I wanted to bang, we have since split ways(she was an uber bihach), but now I want to bang her friend.

[Ghostrider87]

I'll just say it now I am pretty sure that Jill is going to call me back and I will be reuniting with her. Then I will be saying I told you so.

[Fran]

No she isn't.

[Erzengel]

I'll just say it now I am pretty sure that Jill is going to call me back and I will be reuniting with her. Then I will be saying I told you so.
How long has it been since she told you not to call her? 2 weeks? 3?

Don't you think if she really liked you, she would have called you already?

[POWdER-man]

I'll just say it now I am pretty sure that Jill is going to call me back and I will be reuniting with her. Then I will be saying I told you so.

http://i64.photobucket.com/albums/h192/powderman_2222/PETA20protest.jpg

[kytrigger]

You think it was a let down for you! She is my double shot of happiness every other week. I wade through the crap that is life looking forward to talking to her. Her not being there just means I have to wait another 2 weeks to talk to her.:csad:

No offense, but that sounds kinda creepy right there. Like one of those lines that sounds great in a romantic comedy, but just sounds stalker-ish in real life.

[Ghostrider87]

How long has it been since she told you not to call her? 2 weeks? 3?

Don't you think if she really liked you, she would have called you already?

It's been 17 months since she last called.

I think she is using the extra time to heal and inspite of that to heal from her last bad relationship. I still think she is going to call and that she does really like me.

[kytrigger]

It's been 17 months since she last called.

I think she is using the extra time to heal and inspite of that to heal from her last bad relationship. I still think she is going to call and that she does really like me.
edit: i just can't

[ShadowBoxing]

It's been 17 months since she last called.

I think she is using the extra time to heal and inspite of that to heal from her last bad relationship. I still think she is going to call and that she does really like me.
Dude....just Dude. It's been almost a year and a half. It takes you a week to move tops. I mean c'mon, it took my comic store two weeks after they "moved" for me to realize they were officially closed (long story), and I already had my subscriptions up and running at anothe store just in case. This has been seventeen months. I've never waited for a girl that long, not even if I saw her every day. Jesus Christ. You're beyond saving. She doesn't like you.

[Fran]

It's been 17 months since she last called.

I think she is using the extra time to heal and inspite of that to heal from her last bad relationship. I still think she is going to call and that she does really like me.

You are either:
1. Mentally challenged
2. A comedic genius. If so, come clean.

[kytrigger]

Dude....just Dude. It's been almost a year and a half. It takes you a week to move tops. I mean c'mon, it took my comic store two weeks after they "moved" for me to realize they were officially closed (long story), and I already had my subscriptions up and running at anothe store just in case. This has been seventeen months. I've never waited for a girl that long, not even if I saw her every day. Jesus Christ. You're beyond saving. She doesn't like you.
don't worry shadow, someday you will be reunited with your old comic store...

[POWdER-man]

It's been 17 months since she last called.

I think she is using the extra time to heal and inspite of that to heal from her last bad relationship. I still think she is going to call and that she does really like me.

You do realize that whole wars have been fought in a shorter time frame than that......

[nosebleed.]

It takes less time for a human being to be made...she's done with you man.

[Ghostrider87]

Dude....just Dude. It's been almost a year and a half. It takes you a week to move tops. I mean c'mon, it took my comic store two weeks after they "moved" for me to realize they were officially closed (long story), and I already had my subscriptions up and running at anothe store just in case. This has been seventeen months. I've never waited for a girl that long, not even if I saw her every day. Jesus Christ. You're beyond saving. She doesn't like you.

What evidence do you have to suggest that she doesn't like me? She gives me her phone number and the only time I saw her she didn't say anything bad to me. That's the difference you won't wait I will, and I will be rewared by getting a call from her and reuniting with her.

[kytrigger]

What evidence do you have to suggest that she doesn't like me? She gives me her phone number and the only time I saw her she didn't say anything bad to me. That's the difference you won't wait I will, and I will be rewared by getting a call from her and reuniting with her.
You're like the 3 blind mice in Fables. Just because she didn't say she didn't like doesn't mean she does like you. The evidence of this is that it has been 17 MONTHS since you last spoke to her.

[ShadowBoxing]

What evidence do you have to suggest that she doesn't like me?
She hasn't called you in seventeen months. That's generally a strong sign.
She gives me her phone number and the only time I saw her she didn't say anything bad to me. That's the difference you won't wait I will, and I will be rewared by getting a call from her and reuniting with her.Most people won't "say anything bad to you".

[nosebleed.]

What evidence do you have to suggest that she doesn't like me? She gives me her phone number and the only time I saw her she didn't say anything bad to me. That's the difference you won't wait I will, and I will be rewared by getting a call from her and reuniting with her.

Have you ever been nice to someone you didn't particularly like, just out of civility?

[Ghostrider87]

Have you ever been nice to someone you didn't particularly like, just out of civility?

No I can't recall a time like that.

[nosebleed.]

No I can't recall a time like that.

Soo...everytime someone has annoyed you, you have said to them, "You are annoying me...please go away"?

[kytrigger]

You are either:
1. Mentally challenged
2. A comedic genius. If so, come clean.
Don't think so. I've gotten PMs from him several months ago where he wa talking the same way. So it's either normal for him, or he is seriously committed to this act.

[Ghostvirus]

I guess we can start talking more about my situation.

What is your situation?

So what is the latest Maximum Carnage on your situation?

Read brotha...read.

No offense, but that sounds kinda creepy right there. Like one of those lines that sounds great in a romantic comedy, but just sounds stalker-ish in real life.


Hey, man you gotta find happiness where you can get it. What is wrong with enjoying another persons company?

[kytrigger]

What is your situation?



Read brotha...read.




Hey, man you gotta find happiness where you can get it. What is wrong with enjoying another persons company?s
no no no...my bad...I didn't mean being happy or anything, i meant the actual words you used to describe it sounded kinda off.

[Kritish]

You are either:
1. Mentally challenged
2. A comedic genius. If so, come clean.

No one's brilliant enough to keep a ruse like this. He really is this stupid. :o

[Ghostvirus]

no no no...my bad...I didn't mean being happy or anything, i meant the actual words you used to describe it sounded kinda off.

Well I wasn't aiming for creepy. I was aiming more on the end. That I just can't get her out of my mind. She is stuck there always in the back, front, side, whatever.

[Ghostrider87]

Don't think so. I've gotten PMs from him several months ago where he wa talking the same way. So it's either normal for him, or he is seriously committed to this act.\

What thread did you post in that I also posted in because your name doesn't sound familar at all? I also don't remember sending you pms.

[kytrigger]

\

What thread did you post in that I also posted in because your name doesn't sound familar at all? I also don't remember sending you pms.
it was just a few PMs a while back about matches for DC/MArvel when I was filling in for Hellstormer.

I said you match-up of Hal Jordan vs. Omega Red sucked and you PMed me about it.

you then Pmed me a couple more times suggesting further matches.

[Ghostrider87]

it was just a few PMs a while back about matches for DC/MArvel when I was filling in for Hellstormer.

I said you match-up of Hal Jordan vs. Omega Red sucked and you PMed me about it.

you then Pmed me a couple more times suggesting further matches.

Oh ok.

[Deep Thinkin'!]

Alright, how successful are long distance relationships?

[Fran]

My buddy and his GF live 90 miles from each other during school.

They've been together two+ years.

[Deep Thinkin'!]

still together?

[Fran]

Yeah. :huh:

[Master Chief]

Depends on the people involved. Some can deal with it, some can't. When you find two people together who can deal with it though, it's frikkin' magical. :ninja:

[Fran]

There's a girl in-town today that likes me a ton, and the same goes for me. I think it could work out.

Problem is, she lives in Houston.

[Master Chief]

Yeah, ones like that usually end pretty fast. It really helps if you had a strong relationship to begin with and the distance becomes a factor, but even those usually end up with parting ways, sometimes even mutually. lol, silly college.

[Deep Thinkin'!]

There's a girl in-town today that likes me a ton, and the same goes for me. I think it could work out.

Problem is, she lives in Houston.

go for it. :meow:

[Ghostrider87]

Soo...everytime someone has annoyed you, you have said to them, "You are annoying me...please go away"?

What is your situation?



Read brotha...read.




Hey, man you gotta find happiness where you can get it. What is wrong with enjoying another persons company?

Oh no I didn't say that every single time someone has annoyed me.

My situation is I met a extremly attractive woman and I am waiting for her to call back after she said she was moving. Most everybody says it's over but I refuse to believe that. I believe I will get a call from her and reunite with her.

Nothing is wrong just as long the other person enjoys it to.

[Ghostvirus]

Oh no I didn't say that every single time someone has annoyed me.

My situation is I met a extremly attractive woman and I am waiting for her to call back after she said she was moving. Most everybody says it's over but I refuse to believe that. I believe I will get a call from her and reunite with her.

Nothing is wrong just as long the other person enjoys it to.

& it has been 17 months? Why don't you try, & track her down. Then call her. If she seems creeped out. Then it was not meant to be.

[Deep Thinkin'!]

Oh no I didn't say that every single time someone has annoyed me.

My situation is I met a extremly attractive woman and I am waiting for her to call back after she said she was moving. Most everybody says it's over but I refuse to believe that. I believe I will get a call from her and reunite with her.

Nothing is wrong just as long the other person enjoys it to.

How far away is she moving from you and how long has it been since she's moved from her old location?

[WorthyStevens]

What evidence do you have to suggest that she doesn't like me? She gives me her phone number and the only time I saw her she didn't say anything bad to me. That's the difference you won't wait I will, and I will be rewared by getting a call from her and reuniting with her.

A girl I work with gave her phone # to some customer, in part because she felt sorry for him...

Dude, it's over. The Titanic has a better chance of coming back together than of her calling you back.

[Ghostrider87]

& it has been 17 months? Why don't you try, & track her down. Then call her. If she seems creeped out. Then it was not meant to be.

How far away is she moving from you and how long has it been since she's moved from her old location?

Yes it's been 17 months. It's not exactly easy to track somene down when you don't even know their last name. Well I would if I had her new phone number.

Other than moving out I don't where she moved. It's been 17 months since she moved out.

[Master Chief]

A girl I work with gave her phone # to some customer, in part because she felt sorry for him...

Dude, it's over. The Titanic has a better chance of coming back together than her calling you back.

She will call, someday. I'm assuming based on what I've read about their relationship.

[Deep Thinkin'!]

Yes it's been 17 months. It's not exactly easy to track somene downm when you don't even know their last name. Well I would if I had her new phone number.

Other than moving out I don't where she moved. It's been 17 months since she moved out.

Sorry man. She will remember you most likely, but 17 months is much too long. I apologize, but she will not be calling you for a very long time if at all.

[Ghostvirus]

Yes it's been 17 months. It's not exactly easy to track somene downm when you don't even know their last name. Well I would if I had her new phone number.

Other than moving out I don't where she moved. It's been 17 months since she moved out.

After seventeen months. I think you should at least move on. If she calls she calls, but you should really be out trolling for new ass. Seriously.

[Ghostrider87]

A girl I work with gave her phone # to some customer, in part because she felt sorry for him...

Dude, it's over. The Titanic has a better chance of coming back together than of her calling you back.

Sorry unless the Titanic is brought back to life to cause another tragedy by the Devil or from some other set of people it's going to stay sunk. No it's not over, and there is a better chance of her calling me back then the Titanic coming back up and together.

[Master Chief]

Actually, she was never planning to call. It's the old, "Oh I'm moving I'll call you." But I'm not really moving, and I don't want to call you routine. :(

[Addendum]

Reading about Hooters Pimp's non-existent "girl problems" just validates my being a bachelor, but there are many other things that do that.

I could never understand how anyone could be that naïve

[NewYorkSpider]

Sorry unless the Titanic is brought back to life to cause another tragedy by the Devil or from some other set of people it's going to stay sunk. No it's not over, and there is a better chance of her calling me back then the Titanic coming back up and together.

Y94iXX_CUsk

:huh:

[Ghostrider87]

Sorry man. She will remember you most likely, but 17 months is much too long. I apologize, but she will not be calling you for a very long time if at all.

There are a lot of things that seem to long but I don't think this is impossible. There is a more likely chance of me getting a call from her then the Devil Rays winning out the rest of the season and making the Playoffs this year.

[kainedamo]

There are a lot of things that seem to long but I don't this is impossible. There is a more likely chance of me getting a call from her then the Devil Rays winning out the rest of the season and making the Playoffs this year.

No one is this naive. No one.

Its been 17 months! This isn't healthy. Move on!

[Immortalfire]

I was at Six Flags yesterday, and this hot girl bumped into me while waiting to get on Superman: Ultimate Flight. She says "Whoa, sorry about that". She totally wanted me, right?

:hyper: