Originally Posted by The Joker
Again that's all down to personal perception. In both Returns and TDK there is no direct references to Bruce's parents.
With Batman Forever it is made clear he's haunted and emotionally scarred by it to the point where he goes to see a psychiatrist to deal with it.
But in B89, I thought it was extremely clear. He goes to the site were his parents were shot, and puts roses on the ground. He has flashbacks about them, after he made the Jack/Joker connection, and at the very end of the movie, when he's fighting Joker, he says, "you killed my parents. I made you, you made me first".
I can't say the same about Returns, other than what has already been said about Cobblepot.