Re: anyone wondered why.....
Um...no I haven't been wondering why at all.
Here's what I consider "having it all.":
1.) A sense of independence.
2.) Respect and Emotional Support
3.) A Job, any job that I'm happy doing regardless of what it is.
4.) People, like family and a boyfriend (Possibly future husband.) who genuinely love me and in the case of BF in love with me.
5.) My Cat(s)
Notice how Riches, Attention and Fame are not listed there.