Originally Posted by Kal-El.9859
customarily nothing...the man buys the ring for the woman. She doesn't HAVE to return it unless he asks for it. If I bought an engagement ring for a woman and we called things off I wouldn't expect her to return the ring to me, I bought it for her and it's hers to keep
According to “Emily Post” (etiquette expert) the ring should usually
However, some do make it conditional based on who
calls off the wedding.