I think the problem is more that I can't relate
to Rachel, because I'm a different kind of person.
At the end of Begins, she seemed to view it the way I did, which I liked, but then she backed down from it - and that's where I can't follow her anymore.
But in the end, it led to bolstering Harvey's development and Bruce's torment, so it worked out. I just wish it were done less abrasively.
Regarding your quote, "You can't ask me to wait for that", that always struck me as abrupt considering what she said at the end of Begins. Starkly contradictory. Kinda poisoned the water for the rest of her part in the movie.