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Old 07-30-2010, 07:13 PM   #26
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That's very small of you. You were hurt so you hurt back, really? Spreading rumors that are no doubt lies, what does that do but make a bad situation worse and make you seem all the less civilized. As a man you should behave like a gentleman, with dignity, dragging someone's name through the gutter is not that.
She broke up with me over petty reasons. I was also 20 and stupid at the time.

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Old 07-30-2010, 07:48 PM   #27
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Yikes. Ugly stories here. Thoughts to all of you!

Makes me glad I'm horrible at getting girls

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Old 07-30-2010, 09:25 PM   #28
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That chick was a rare case. Usually I just ignore the girls that either I dumped or they dumped me.

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Old 07-30-2010, 09:34 PM   #29
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Wow, these are pretty bad.... D:

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Old 07-30-2010, 09:41 PM   #30
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I'm not usually like that when I break up with someone. She ended up sleeping with one of my so called friends on my birthday of all days. When I found out and confronted her about it she broke up with me because I wasn't emotionally involved enough. It was either a dead opossum on her porch or spread rumors about her everywhere. I was pissed so I picked the nuclear option.


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Old 07-30-2010, 10:42 PM   #31
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Wait till you go through loosing a wife, that's a whole other level of messed up. Won't talk about that on a public forum though.

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Old 07-31-2010, 12:43 PM   #32
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Very interesting thread. Sadly I can relate to some of the stories that people posted in here because quite a bit of it has happened to me.

I'm not depressed or angry, however, this story involves a girl that I felt in my mind that I had a strong connection with. I met her at Applebees, worked my charm on her, and we started talking at that point and went out on our first date to see Fast and The Furious(The recent one with Paul Walker and Vin Diesel). She's a huge fan of cars and we got extremely close on the date.

Needless to say we dated for awhile and I really, really did feel something for her and I was hoping she felt the same for me. I began to notice she was talking about this guy all the time and for a while I let it slide, but the more she talked about him the angrier I became.

So I flat out asked her because she talked about him too much for him to be "just a friend". I asked her "Are you dating this guy?" She got pretty upset and said it was none of my business, however, she got upset because a co-worker of mine asked me if I wanted to join her and other co-workers for dinner at a japanese restaurant. I just figured "whatever" honestly and went on about my life.

But it turned out she was dating him and had an off and on relationship with him as well. I was hurt really bad and held so much anger, bitterness, and sadness that I was about to give up on relationships. Of course I'm a lot older now, more confident, and I just flat out don't care anymore when it comes to relationships and one will happen when it does.

Fast forward to June 25th and she hadn't talked to me for MONTHS. On June 25th she sends me a text saying "MICHAEL JACKSON DIED!" and my response "It takes Michael Jackson dying for you to talk to me now?"

Guess she didn't like that too much and I never heard from her again. And I can honestly say it's for the best. I don't need a girl/woman who is so "plagued" by abusive relationships that she takes it out on me.

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Well my wife and I separated as of Tuesday.

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Old 07-31-2010, 08:43 PM   #34
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That's very small of you. You were hurt so you hurt back, really? Spreading rumors that are no doubt lies, what does that do but make a bad situation worse and make you seem all the less civilized. As a man you should behave like a gentleman, with dignity, dragging someone's name through the gutter is not that.

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Old 07-31-2010, 09:19 PM   #35
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Have been through Family Court...

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Old 07-31-2010, 09:31 PM   #36
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These stories are horrible.

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Old 08-01-2010, 04:29 PM   #37
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Most relationships fail, Otherwise people would go through 20 divorces. Part of that failure involves someone cheating on the other. It's not that rare, although it suks....

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Old 08-01-2010, 04:37 PM   #38
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We're over it and we're close friends now, but my ex took me to a jewelry store to show me the $1,000 engagement ring he was going to give me for my birthday and then dumped me a month before it saying he felt "numb" about the relationship.

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I'm not usually like that when I break up with someone. She ended up sleeping with one of my so called friends on my birthday of all days. When I found out and confronted her about it she broke up with me because I wasn't emotionally involved enough. It was either a dead opossum on her porch or spread rumors about her everywhere. I was pissed so I picked the nuclear option.
yeah, its easy for everyone here to berate you for your reaction, but when you're young and your heart has been broken in such an awful way, its easy to blinded by the anger.

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Old 08-01-2010, 07:03 PM   #40
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In my case we were going out for 4 years, the sex was great because she was on some pill thingy so no hoodie for me

She was also 2 years older than me and had 2 kids, we met at the same McDonald's we were working at so you can imagine her English was down to "how may I help you today?", not to be stuck up since I"m hispanic myself but born in the U.S. and she was from El Salvador.

But I never introduced her to my parents I guess because I was ashamed of her that why I couldn't find a girl worthy of me plus she kept nagging me about living on my own when I couldn't afford it.

Then in our last year together she threatens me that no sex until I find a place of my own (I was living with my parents but paying rent, car, utilities) so we just ended up not seeing each other.

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Old 08-01-2010, 07:16 PM   #41
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huh, kinda weird I just watched (500) Days of Summer.
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Old 08-01-2010, 08:03 PM   #42
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I was seeing a girl for awhile, I got sick, pretty much bedridden for 2 weeks, couldn't really do anything at all, pretty much the day Im better, she calls my roommates cellphone, tells him to tell me she's seeing someone else and hasn't talked to me since.

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Old 08-01-2010, 09:24 PM   #43
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yeah, its easy for everyone here to berate you for your reaction, but when you're young and your heart has been broken in such an awful way, its easy to blinded by the anger.
Thank you. I was in a bad state of mind when I decided to do that. The chick came back to town about 2 years ago because everyone forgot about it.

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Old 08-02-2010, 02:59 PM   #44
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Well my wife and I separated as of Tuesday.
I'm sorry to hear that.

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Old 08-02-2010, 03:49 PM   #45
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No worries, I'll live. Thanks.

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Old 08-06-2010, 09:35 PM   #46
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There are exceptions to every rule. I don't think I would classify your circumstance as a common one. In addition, death has a way of creating rifts where there might otherwise be none. I don't think you should continue living under the idea that what happened to you once could happen again. That seems like a decent recipe for unnecessary depression. Of course there is no way to guarantee that a relationship will go the distance, unknown variables being what they are. However, I operate under the assumption there is no point to my existence if I do not take risks every now and again. I guess I am adventurous in that way.
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Wow this thread is a blast from the past! I need to give you guys an update later because so much has happened since my original post.

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Old 04-07-2013, 01:50 PM   #48
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These stories are terrible!

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Old 04-08-2013, 06:22 PM   #49
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I had two bad break -ups. One guy was obsessed and then after ending things he became borderline stalker, the kind that if he can't have you then no one else can. Second one was the guy was to clingy and wanted me like a bird in a cage, after I ended it, he couldn't let go tried everything he could to get me back.

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Old 04-12-2013, 11:31 PM   #50
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I'm 26 years old, never had a relationship, never had sex (even though I've had opportunities with chicks that I just wasn't attracted to at all...not that kind of guy), I have severe social anxiety and depression so I rarely make conversation with people and I've pretty much given up on life in general. I just don't relate to most people let alone girls. But keep the miserable, bitter stories coming. They make me feel slightly normal and sprinkle some morbid happiness into my perception.

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