Does it matter how many sexual partners your girlfriend/boyfriend has had before you?

Golgo-13 · 12-19-2004, 11:26 AM

I have been married for 4 years now, and everythings cool. Sometimes i wonder though how many sexual partners my wife has had before she met me. I want to ask but i'm scarred if she tells me a really high number, it'll make me look at her differently.

What if the number is over 50..is that too much?

I've been with a lot of women well before i met my wife. Some i remember by name, some were one night stands, so i don't remember their names but the number is not over 100.

Is there a cut off number where your talking with a chick or a guy that you like, and you just have to say 'NO', because their sexually history book is way too thick?

Wiseman · 12-19-2004, 11:29 AM

I don't ask most girls I date how many guys they have been with. Once you're out of high school crap like that doesn't really matter. At least it shouldn't. Besides, chances are I've been with more girls then they've been with guys anyway so it'd be hypocritical of me to let someones past get in the way of our relationship

Dr.Fear · 12-19-2004, 11:31 AM

i think it does, thats why i like virgins more. anything more then 5 would just creep me out

Childlike Wild · 12-19-2004, 11:32 AM

Um, if a guy was a virgin I'd be tempted to forget him. Does that count?

Wiseman · 12-19-2004, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by TheDevilwithin

i think it does, thats why i like virgins more. anything more then 5 would just creep me out

Are you serious? Man, I would've missed out on some of the best sexual experiences of my life if I thought like that

THWIP* · 12-19-2004, 11:33 AM

IT DEPENDS ON HOW LONG YOU WANT TO LIVE.

Golgo-13 · 12-19-2004, 11:34 AM

But what if she said a number like 66, or something. What if everytime you walk down the street together some guy saids, "oh yeah i hit that too". Or like in the movie office "make sure you wear a rubber dude".

You have the right to know if your girl is/or used to be a nympho-partying maniac, don't you?

Dr.Fear · 12-19-2004, 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Wiseman

Are you serious? Man, I would've missed out on some of the best sexual experiences of my life if I thought like that

yeah im serious.

Dr.Fear · 12-19-2004, 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Erica Draven

Um, if a guy was a virgin I'd be tempted to forget him. Does that count?

what do umean forget him is he was a virgin?? you dont like guys who are virgins??

terry78 · 12-19-2004, 11:37 AM

I think girls don't want guys that are virgins, whereas guys want girls that are. The girls want a dude that has exp. where some of the guys want girls that don't, so we can "teach them some things", as it were.

Wiseman · 12-19-2004, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Gamma Fiend

But what if she said a number like 66, or something. What if everytime you walk down the street together some guy saids, "oh yeah i hit that too". Or like in the movie office "make sure you wear a rubber dude".

You have the right to know if your girl is/or used to be a nympho-partying maniac, don't you?

Oh, I can tell. I don't need a number. And that's fine, I usually know what I'm getting into with every relationship so it's not like it's a big shock to me. Besides, the girls that are the biggest whores also tend to be the ones that have low self-esteem so they'll let you have 3 somes with their best friends and forgive you if you accidentally have sex with their sister or cousin

Childlike Wild · 12-19-2004, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by TheDevilwithin

what do umean forget him is he was a virgin?? you dont like guys who are virgins??

I'd prefer experience.

Dr.Fear · 12-19-2004, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by terry78

I think girls don't want guys that are virgins, whereas guys want girls that are. The girls want a dude that has exp. where some of the guys want girls that don't, so we can "teach them some things", as it were.

im still a virgin, does that mean ill be alone??

danielisthor · 12-19-2004, 11:39 AM

Don't ask it man, if you don't like the answer, i get the feeling it will probably eat you alive. You ask that question and you don't like the answer, you might as well head down to a divorce lawyer before she does. Because it will probably ruin your marriage.

Golgo-13 · 12-19-2004, 11:40 AM

Most couples have unprotected sex, knowing your mates sexually history is a smart thing in this AIDS/STD infested world.

Venice · 12-19-2004, 11:44 AM

My friend has had like...25 partners, she's 19. She's definatly a mega****.

Wiseman · 12-19-2004, 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Venice

My friend has had like...25 partners, she's 19. She's definatly a mega****.

Can I have her number?

Venice · 12-19-2004, 11:46 AM

Sure, if you want gonorrhea.

Wiseman · 12-19-2004, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Venice

Sure, if you want gonorrhea.

Hmm. Freaky sex, gonorrhea, freaky sex, gonorrhea......ah f**k it, that's a risk I'm willing to take

Dr.Fear · 12-19-2004, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Wiseman

Hmm. Freaky sex, gonorrhea, freaky sex, gonorrhea......ah f**k it, that's a risk I'm willing to take

thats just sad

Wiseman · 12-19-2004, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by TheDevilwithin

thats just sad

It was a joke, get over it

TheSumOfGod · 12-19-2004, 12:12 PM

As long as they're all human, then there's no problem. But if you find out that your girlfriend once did a german shepherd, you might have to sit down with her and talk about it.

Wiseman · 12-19-2004, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSumOfGod

As long as they're all human, then there's no problem. But if you find out that your girlfriend once did a german shepherd, you might have to sit down with her and talk about it.

Why? That's kinky. I'd ask if she made a tape

danielisthor · 12-19-2004, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSumOfGod

As long as they're all human, then there's no problem. But if you find out that your girlfriend once did a german shepherd, you might have to sit down with her and talk about it.

i think some of you have missed the point that he is talking about his wife, not a girlfriend.

DarkKnightJRK · 12-19-2004, 02:04 PM

As long as she doesn't have any dieseses or anything, I probably wouldn't really mind how many partners she's had in the past.

12-19-2004, 11:26 AM	#1
Golgo-13 In ♥ w/ Hayley Atwell Join Date: May 2003 Location: Eating Cadburys Creme Eggs... Posts: 23,117	Does it matter how many sexual partners your girlfriend/boyfriend has had before you? I have been married for 4 years now, and everythings cool. Sometimes i wonder though how many sexual partners my wife has had before she met me. I want to ask but i'm scarred if she tells me a really high number, it'll make me look at her differently. What if the number is over 50..is that too much? I've been with a lot of women well before i met my wife. Some i remember by name, some were one night stands, so i don't remember their names but the number is not over 100. Is there a cut off number where your talking with a chick or a guy that you like, and you just have to say 'NO', because their sexually history book is way too thick? __________________ Theatricality and deception are powerful agents to the uninitiated... but we are initiated aren't we Bruce ? Members of the League of shadows..... "Men are born between a woman's legs and spend the rest of their lives trying to get back between them..........WHY? Because there's no place like home!"

12-19-2004, 11:29 AM	#2
Wiseman Banned User Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: In A-Rod's house Posts: 8,249	Re: Does it matter how many sexual partners your girlfriend/boyfriend has had before you? I don't ask most girls I date how many guys they have been with. Once you're out of high school crap like that doesn't really matter. At least it shouldn't. Besides, chances are I've been with more girls then they've been with guys anyway so it'd be hypocritical of me to let someones past get in the way of our relationship

12-19-2004, 11:31 AM	#3
Dr.Fear Banned User Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Fl Posts: 7,650	Re: Does it matter how many sexual partners your girlfriend/boyfriend has had before you? i think it does, thats why i like virgins more. anything more then 5 would just creep me out

12-19-2004, 11:32 AM	#4
Childlike Wild Side-Kick Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Menomonee Falls Posts: 10,885	Re: Does it matter how many sexual partners your girlfriend/boyfriend has had before you? Um, if a guy was a virgin I'd be tempted to forget him. Does that count? __________________ Oh no, honey... your arrogance is what makes you special. :inlove:

12-19-2004, 11:33 AM	#6
THWIP* Banned User Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: FROSTCRAG SPIRE, JUST EAST OF BRUMA Posts: 22,879	Re: Does it matter how many sexual partners your girlfriend/boyfriend has had before IT DEPENDS ON HOW LONG YOU WANT TO LIVE.

12-19-2004, 11:34 AM	#7
Golgo-13 In ♥ w/ Hayley Atwell Join Date: May 2003 Location: Eating Cadburys Creme Eggs... Posts: 23,117	Re: Does it matter how many sexual partners your girlfriend/boyfriend has had before you? But what if she said a number like 66, or something. What if everytime you walk down the street together some guy saids, "oh yeah i hit that too". Or like in the movie office "make sure you wear a rubber dude". You have the right to know if your girl is/or used to be a nympho-partying maniac, don't you? __________________ Theatricality and deception are powerful agents to the uninitiated... but we are initiated aren't we Bruce ? Members of the League of shadows..... "Men are born between a woman's legs and spend the rest of their lives trying to get back between them..........WHY? Because there's no place like home!"

12-19-2004, 11:37 AM	#10
terry78 I'm laughing internally Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Northwest Indiana Posts: 53,679	Re: Does it matter how many sexual partners your girlfriend/boyfriend has had before you? I think girls don't want guys that are virgins, whereas guys want girls that are. The girls want a dude that has exp. where some of the guys want girls that don't, so we can "teach them some things", as it were. __________________ It's better to be seen than viewed. ----------- Who the **** makes a movie and while planning it is like, "you know what this needs...is some Greg Kinnear."

12-19-2004, 11:39 AM	#14
danielisthor Side-Kick Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: -----[] Posts: 3,569	Re: Does it matter how many sexual partners your girlfriend/boyfriend has had before you? Don't ask it man, if you don't like the answer, i get the feeling it will probably eat you alive. You ask that question and you don't like the answer, you might as well head down to a divorce lawyer before she does. Because it will probably ruin your marriage. __________________ Holly Noelle Hanna born 12/14/2009 @5:32pm. 7lb 3oz 18 3/4" in length making me a very happy new daddy.

12-19-2004, 11:40 AM	#15
Golgo-13 In ♥ w/ Hayley Atwell Join Date: May 2003 Location: Eating Cadburys Creme Eggs... Posts: 23,117	Re: Does it matter how many sexual partners your girlfriend/boyfriend has had before you? Most couples have unprotected sex, knowing your mates sexually history is a smart thing in this AIDS/STD infested world. __________________ Theatricality and deception are powerful agents to the uninitiated... but we are initiated aren't we Bruce ? Members of the League of shadows..... "Men are born between a woman's legs and spend the rest of their lives trying to get back between them..........WHY? Because there's no place like home!"

12-19-2004, 11:44 AM	#16
Venice suck my left titty Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: upperclass Posts: 453	Re: Does it matter how many sexual partners your girlfriend/boyfriend has had before you? My friend has had like...25 partners, she's 19. She's definatly a mega****. __________________ Clean out Vivienne Westwood In my Galliano gown

12-19-2004, 11:46 AM	#18
Venice suck my left titty Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: upperclass Posts: 453	Re: Does it matter how many sexual partners your girlfriend/boyfriend has had before you? Sure, if you want gonorrhea. __________________ Clean out Vivienne Westwood In my Galliano gown

12-19-2004, 12:12 PM	#22
TheSumOfGod Banned User Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 10,934	Re: Does it matter how many sexual partners your girlfriend/boyfriend has had before you? As long as they're all human, then there's no problem. But if you find out that your girlfriend once did a german shepherd, you might have to sit down with her and talk about it.

12-19-2004, 02:04 PM	#25
DarkKnightJRK Side-Kick Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Arizona Posts: 12,254	Re: Does it matter how many sexual partners your girlfriend/boyfriend has had before you? As long as she doesn't have any dieseses or anything, I probably wouldn't really mind how many partners she's had in the past. __________________ DarkKnightJRK, an opinionated bastard since 1988. The Dark Knight in the "World of Heroes" DC RPG. The Wolverine in the "Heroes vs. Villians" Marvel RPG.

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