Second dates

Lunar_Wolf · 03-23-2007, 08:22 PM

I went on a date last night. It went good! I asked my date out for a second date today and she said she would love to go on a second date. The problem is with my previous dates in the past I never really thought what to do next, but now for some reason I'm so worked up about where to take her. We went to the movies on our first date, but where else could I take her? I was thinking dinner, but I thought thats too soon????? Then I thought bowling, but I want to take her somewhere nice. Then I thought picnic, but then I realized I live in Ireland and it's cold. This eliminates outside activities. Should I got for the Dinner date?

I don't know why I'm so nervous where to take her, I'm normally like meh where ever.

AndThePickles · 03-23-2007, 08:23 PM

Go for the dinner.

Crooklyn · 03-23-2007, 08:27 PM

This really depends if you're 'going for the lay', or 'going all the way'.

Lunar_Wolf · 03-23-2007, 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Crooklyn

This really depends if you're 'going for the lay', or 'going all the way'.

If the second date goes very good, it's then time to invite her over to my house.

Colossal Spoons · 03-23-2007, 08:44 PM

Such depth in here lol

AndThePickles · 03-23-2007, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Colossal Spoons

Such depth in here lol

I told him to take her to dinner thinking he wanted to start dating her for a while

Crooklyn · 03-23-2007, 08:58 PM

Goes to show who has a better sixth sense around these parts.

AndThePickles · 03-23-2007, 09:03 PM

I tried to think the best of Lunar Wolf because I don't know him

GoldenAgeHero · 03-23-2007, 11:23 PM

take her to where ever you want. i'll go some place fun, first, like the park or a fair.(or whatever is fun to do over there).then treat her to dinner last.

jimmy · 03-23-2007, 11:37 PM

Dinner.

Second dates usually make it or break it.

heypapajinx · 03-24-2007, 03:28 AM

OOOOOOooo!ooO!o
those are both great ideas!!!
you're a good date!
but dinner, i think.
it's a way to get to know eachother better.

BUT BOWLING IS REALLY SWEEEET!!!

The Spawn · 03-24-2007, 07:07 AM

Yeah, especially when you let them win...

Lunar_Wolf · 03-24-2007, 07:16 AM

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Originally Posted by heypapajinx

OOOOOOooo!ooO!o
those are both great ideas!!!
you're a good date!
but dinner, i think.
it's a way to get to know eachother better.

BUT BOWLING IS REALLY SWEEEET!!!

You just sparked an idea for me. Bowling followed by dinner. or dinner followed by bowling!!!

heypapajinx · 03-24-2007, 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by The Spawn

Yeah, especially when you let them win...

what if they wipe the lanes up with YOU!!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lunar_Wolf

You just sparked an idea for me. Bowling followed by dinner. or dinner followed by bowling!!!

THAT'S WHAT I'M TALKIN BOUT!!
if she doesn't get swept off her feet with THAT date!!
dump the high maintenance b*.
that is like the all time coolest date EVER!!!

kainedamo · 03-24-2007, 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Lunar_Wolf

I went on a date last night. It went good! I asked my date out for a second date today and she said she would love to go on a second date. The problem is with my previous dates in the past I never really thought what to do next, but now for some reason I'm so worked up about where to take her. We went to the movies on our first date, but where else could I take her? I was thinking dinner, but I thought thats too soon????? Then I thought bowling, but I want to take her somewhere nice. Then I thought picnic, but then I realized I live in Ireland and it's cold. This eliminates outside activities. Should I got for the Dinner date?

I don't know why I'm so nervous where to take her, I'm normally like meh where ever.

Oh cool! You live in Ireland! Whereabouts?

As for where to take her... just take her out to eat. Nowhere too fancy... just somewhere for lunch. Maybe something after the meal too. Does she like playing pool? Take her to a bar with a pool table. Just go somewhere like a bar where you can have a good chat.

Lunar_Wolf · 03-24-2007, 08:16 AM

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Originally Posted by kainedamo

Oh cool! You live in Ireland! Whereabouts?

As for where to take her... just take her out to eat. Nowhere too fancy... just somewhere for lunch. Maybe something after the meal too. Does she like playing pool? Take her to a bar with a pool table. Just go somewhere like a bar where you can have a good chat.

I live in limerick(stab city) What part do you live?
Yeah I was thinking someone where nice to eat but not too fancy.
Not sure if she is a fan of pool, but her friend said I should take her bowling.

kainedamo · 03-24-2007, 08:22 AM

I live in Belfast.

Yeah, bowling and then dinner (or dinner and then bowling) sounds like a good idea.

When the weather gets warm, take her out for picnics.

Lunar_Wolf · 03-24-2007, 08:28 AM

Yeah the weather is **** at the moment

Elijya · 03-24-2007, 08:34 AM

Hot air balloon ride

Kevin Roegele · 03-24-2007, 08:52 AM

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Originally Posted by jimmy rhoads

Dinner.

Second dates usually make it or break it.

Wise council. You'll be more relaxed in each other's company the second time.

black_dust · 03-24-2007, 09:18 AM

Bowling THEN dinner, not the other way around, you dont want to ge lobbing balls about after you have just eaten! i say go pizza hut!

Lord Valumart · 03-24-2007, 09:32 AM

take her to your pub and give her a game of pool

this will not only allow her to see you in action, but also allow her to down large ammounts of booze without it appearing to be forced....you can then walk her home, kiss her goodnight, and leave knowing that you could have shaged her but took the high ground cause you like her

Erzengel · 03-24-2007, 10:14 AM

Taking her to dinner on the 2nd date isn't too soon. I was never a fan of the movies on the first date anyways. You sit there for 2 hours with little to no conversation. Movies is good for maybe a 2nd or 3rd date but you really want to be able to talk to her.

And dinner doesn't have to be a $125.00 or whatever. Isn't there some theme restaurant there?

StrainedEyes · 03-24-2007, 10:49 AM

You could take her to eat.. then i dunno ASK her what she would like to do. Dating isn't all a big plan orchertrated by the guy to puppet the girl along till they have sex. She is a person who thinks and has ideas about what she likes to do.

tzarinna · 03-24-2007, 05:14 PM

I'll second that bowling then dinner.
I also agree with just going to a pub for dinner,maybe a place with a live band,but not one that will drown out your attempt at conversation.
You'll bond over bowling and look longingly into each other eyes over dinner. *sigh*

03-23-2007, 08:22 PM	#1
Lunar_Wolf WTF face Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Ireland :( Posts: 39,926	Second dates I went on a date last night. It went good! I asked my date out for a second date today and she said she would love to go on a second date. The problem is with my previous dates in the past I never really thought what to do next, but now for some reason I'm so worked up about where to take her. We went to the movies on our first date, but where else could I take her? I was thinking dinner, but I thought thats too soon????? Then I thought bowling, but I want to take her somewhere nice. Then I thought picnic, but then I realized I live in Ireland and it's cold. This eliminates outside activities. Should I got for the Dinner date? I don't know why I'm so nervous where to take her, I'm normally like meh where ever. __________________ My Movie Blog Movies Are Damn Good Toys Are Damn Good

03-23-2007, 08:23 PM	#2
AndThePickles Kiss the girl Join Date: May 2005 Location: under the sea Posts: 21,648	Re: Second dates Go for the dinner. __________________ *“Do not pity the dead, Harry. Pity the living, and, above all, those who live without love." ~Albus Dumbledore* ~FHM~

03-23-2007, 08:27 PM	#3
Crooklyn Banned User Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 4,081	Re: Second dates This really depends if you're 'going for the lay', or 'going all the way'.

03-23-2007, 08:44 PM	#5
Colossal Spoons :argh: Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: A bar on Oa Posts: 61,181	Re: Second dates Such depth in here lol __________________ Valar Morghulis, Valar Dohaeris

03-23-2007, 08:58 PM	#7
Crooklyn Banned User Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 4,081	Re: Second dates Goes to show who has a better sixth sense around these parts.

03-23-2007, 09:03 PM	#8
AndThePickles Kiss the girl Join Date: May 2005 Location: under the sea Posts: 21,648	Re: Second dates I tried to think the best of Lunar Wolf because I don't know him __________________ *“Do not pity the dead, Harry. Pity the living, and, above all, those who live without love." ~Albus Dumbledore* ~FHM~

03-23-2007, 11:23 PM	#9
GoldenAgeHero Banned User Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 12,344	Re: Second dates take her to where ever you want. i'll go some place fun, first, like the park or a fair.(or whatever is fun to do over there).then treat her to dinner last.

03-23-2007, 11:37 PM	#10
jimmy Banned User Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 9,666	Re: Second dates Dinner. Second dates usually make it or break it.

03-24-2007, 03:28 AM	#11
heypapajinx Side-Kick Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: home of chicken fried everything Posts: 3,912	Re: Second dates OOOOOOooo!ooO!o those are both great ideas!!! you're a good date! but dinner, i think. it's a way to get to know eachother better. BUT BOWLING IS REALLY SWEEEET!!! __________________ the Penguins are up to something down there "No Fate"

03-24-2007, 07:07 AM	#12
The Spawn Better Than You Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Hell Posts: 19,498	Re: Second dates Yeah, especially when you let them win... __________________ You all laugh at me because I'm different...I laugh because you're all the same

03-24-2007, 08:22 AM	#17
kainedamo Banned User Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Belfast Posts: 9,727	Re: Second dates I live in Belfast. Yeah, bowling and then dinner (or dinner and then bowling) sounds like a good idea. When the weather gets warm, take her out for picnics.

03-24-2007, 08:28 AM	#18
Lunar_Wolf WTF face Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Ireland :( Posts: 39,926	Re: Second dates Yeah the weather is **** at the moment __________________ My Movie Blog Movies Are Damn Good Toys Are Damn Good

03-24-2007, 08:34 AM	#19
Elijya Side-Kick Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: U.S.S. Enterprise NCC-1701-D Posts: 38,221	Re: Second dates Hot air balloon ride __________________ Could you please continue the petty bickering? I find it most intriguing. "I left in love, in laughter, and in truth and wherever truth, love and laughter abide, I am there in spirit." - Bill Hicks

03-24-2007, 09:18 AM	#21
black_dust FrEaK-A-ZoId!!! Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Stoke Uk Posts: 18,285	Re: Second dates Bowling THEN dinner, not the other way around, you dont want to ge lobbing balls about after you have just eaten! i say go pizza hut!

03-24-2007, 09:32 AM	#22
Lord Valumart Hype's Dr - It's Canon Join Date: May 2004 Location: you know the voice in your head, he's my flat mate Posts: 37,070	Re: Second dates take her to your pub and give her a game of pool this will not only allow her to see you in action, but also allow her to down large ammounts of booze without it appearing to be forced....you can then walk her home, kiss her goodnight, and leave knowing that you could have shaged her but took the high ground cause you like her __________________ sigh .... what a prick

03-24-2007, 10:14 AM	#23
Erzengel \|-o-\| (-o-) \|-o-\| Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: New Jersey Posts: 58,773	Re: Second dates Taking her to dinner on the 2nd date isn't too soon. I was never a fan of the movies on the first date anyways. You sit there for 2 hours with little to no conversation. Movies is good for maybe a 2nd or 3rd date but you really want to be able to talk to her. And dinner doesn't have to be a $125.00 or whatever. Isn't there some theme restaurant there? __________________ What SHH Class Are You?

03-24-2007, 10:49 AM	#24
StrainedEyes All the way up it! Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: WA Posts: 15,068	Re: Second dates You could take her to eat.. then i dunno ASK her what she would like to do. Dating isn't all a big plan orchertrated by the guy to puppet the girl along till they have sex. She is a person who thinks and has ideas about what she likes to do. __________________ Top of the world, all that's around you is beneath me Me learnin' from your mistakes is the only way you can teach me. Last edited by StrainedEyes; 03-24-2007 at 10:52 AM.

03-24-2007, 05:14 PM	#25
tzarinna С новым годом! Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Россия Posts: 22,822	Re: Second dates I'll second that bowling then dinner. I also agree with just going to a pub for dinner,maybe a place with a live band,but not one that will drown out your attempt at conversation. You'll bond over bowling and look longingly into each other eyes over dinner. sigh __________________ ...возможно счастье что-то мы можем только последовать, и возможно фактически мы можем никогда не иметь его, независимо от того, какой.. Наиболее хорошо мюзикл!!!!!!! Весна будя Слушайте Мое собрание DVD

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