I think my wife is cheating on me...

[Poeman]

I've never talked about this before, but I really need the boards advice on what could be a crucial decision. I’ve suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me.

The usual signs… Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up.
My wife has been going out with the girls a lot recently although when I ask their names she always says, “Just some friends from work, you don’t know them.”

I always stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the drive. Although I can hear a car driving off, as if she has gotten out of the car round the corner. Why? Maybe she wasn’t in a taxi?

I picked up her cell phone the other day to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and accused me of checking up on her.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife I think deep down I just didn’t want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to really check on her.

I decided I was going to park my motorcycle next to the garage and then hide behind it so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It was at that moment, crouching behind my bike , that I noticed that the valve covers on my engine seemed to be leaking a little oil.

Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it back to the dealer?

[Ronny Shade]

KILL IT

[Bubonic]

Ditch the *****.
Oh, and nice segue.

[Crook]

Saw this in a "funny pics" thread from a newspaper clipping. Plagiarizer.

[November Rain]

Spoiler!!! Click to Read!:

not knowing will eat you up.


go down the private eye route or do it on the cheap and get one of your mates to tag her one night.

also check her phone while she's sleeping.

if you have no evidence, never tell her, ask her about your suspicions and move forward.

if you do, confront her intelligently, and wait for her to admit it so you can reach some revelation.

keep rational throughout and don't feel bad that it's happened or betrayed. Cheating is a sympton of poor communication in a relationship so use this time to truly understand what has happened to your relationship and how it can be salvaged or resolved without it getting nasty.

good luck and god bless.

oh my, i just got owned

[The Guard]

Find a bike repair message board. Ask the valve question there. .

I would first ask why you think she'd have reason to cheat. As someone else said, cheating has to do with communication and so forth. Have their been communications issues between the two of you?

All the "games" in investigating this are fun, but in the end, what you really want to know is whether she's cheating on you, and whether you're going to be able to stay with this person.

Why don't you just air your concerns and ask her?

If she can't just deny it, and gets defensive or angry over something like that, especially when you clearly have good reason to wonder, maybe it's not someone you should be with anyway.

[Ugfugly]

lol shows how many people just read thread titles

[Ronny Shade]

I think we're all missing the real question here:

What's up with those valve covers?

[Alex The Great]

**** her Until her Pelvis Collapses!

It's a Win-Win

[JayCaz]

You should be able to fix it yourself, no problemo.

[Nirvana]

Originally Posted by November Rain

Spoiler!!! Click to Read!:

not knowing will eat you up.


go down the private eye route or do it on the cheap and get one of your mates to tag her one night.

also check her phone while she's sleeping.

if you have no evidence, never tell her, ask her about your suspicions and move forward.

if you do, confront her intelligently, and wait for her to admit it so you can reach some revelation.

keep rational throughout and don't feel bad that it's happened or betrayed. Cheating is a sympton of poor communication in a relationship so use this time to truly understand what has happened to your relationship and how it can be salvaged or resolved without it getting nasty.

good luck and god bless.

oh my, i just got owned

This is the best thing to do.

[JayCaz]

Originally Posted by November Rain

Spoiler!!! Click to Read!:

not knowing will eat you up.


go down the private eye route or do it on the cheap and get one of your mates to tag her one night.

also check her phone while she's sleeping.

if you have no evidence, never tell her, ask her about your suspicions and move forward.

if you do, confront her intelligently, and wait for her to admit it so you can reach some revelation.

keep rational throughout and don't feel bad that it's happened or betrayed. Cheating is a sympton of poor communication in a relationship so use this time to truly understand what has happened to your relationship and how it can be salvaged or resolved without it getting nasty.

good luck and god bless.

oh my, i just got owned

how did you edit your post without the lil tagline saying last edited by......

[November Rain]

Originally Posted by JayCaz

how did you edit your post without the lil tagline saying last edited by......

if you get in within the same minute you posted it, you can pretty much do anything...

[Poeman]

Originally Posted by November Rain

Spoiler!!! Click to Read!:

not knowing will eat you up.


go down the private eye route or do it on the cheap and get one of your mates to tag her one night.

also check her phone while she's sleeping.

if you have no evidence, never tell her, ask her about your suspicions and move forward.

if you do, confront her intelligently, and wait for her to admit it so you can reach some revelation.

keep rational throughout and don't feel bad that it's happened or betrayed. Cheating is a sympton of poor communication in a relationship so use this time to truly understand what has happened to your relationship and how it can be salvaged or resolved without it getting nasty.

good luck and god bless.

oh my, i just got owned

lmao this was glorious!

[JayCaz]

I reckon your thread title should have been something along the lines of
I have a really serious dilemma, I'm so depressed, then told your story, then asked the question.

Just my two cents

[Silk Spectre]

I'm confused...

[Franklin Richards]

Maybe some Bond-O?

[Silverstein]

What lol....This topic is confusing and evil.

[black_dust]

I would just buy a new bike

[Eggyman]

I've had that sent to my work's email once. I was nearly at the end when I realised.

[Silverstein]

Who do you think cheats more: Guys or girls? I think girls are more likely to cheat and in more harsh ways.

I've been bleeping some guy for three weeks now. Yeah, you know how we hate a date two weeks ago and I said I loved you more than anyone on this planet. Well, apparently not sexually. Cause I been bleeping some guy.

Seriously, watch "Cheaters" or listen to your friends....Girls cheat WAY more I think, though I'd like to hear other people's opinions.

[Ring Deacon]

I would go back to the dealership and raise hell with the guy that sold you that bike. Whether you can fix it yourself or not isn't the point. You spent your hard earned money on that bike. Take it back and demand a not just a new bike but an upgrade from what you have now.

Oh and do the same thing with your wife, drop her off at her parent's house and get yourself a better model.

[Mee]

Originally Posted by Alex The Great

**** her Until her Pelvis Collapses!

How will that fix the valves?

[The Battousai]

The time stamp for the original post is pure win (if you're on the west coast, that is )

[roxette]

is your wife hot?