G7: Now With Group Therapy!

[Captain_BluTac]

Originally Posted by spideyboy_1111

1) those people are morons

2) eh.. that's debatable. because there's people who have self-image issues and think they're fat (which is actually much more of a majority) and then there's A-holes who think everyone is fat. Most gay men are not the latter.

and again, it all goes back to self-estime.

You know I don't normally point out spelling mistakes, but you've done it a few times now and its driving me a little crazy. The word's esteem not 'estime'.

[Endeavor]

Originally Posted by Majik1387

Anyone coming to gay days in Orlando?

I might go if my friends promise me they wont go to that bear parade thing at Magic Kingdom.

[spideyboy_1111]

if anyone is interested in learning about the men who shaped the world today as well as the gay community. This site's a pretty intriguing read.

http://gayinfluence.blogspot.com/

some of the info (especially on old hollywood in which i love love love reading about, can be a bit provocatively written, so read at your own digress.) But everything is incredibly interesting. Especially about the Titanic Memorial in DC.

[Marx]

Originally Posted by The Original Bamfer

Yep, I don't have that problem because there are no openly-gay/bi guys in this small town that's ridiculously conservative. I'm pretty sure gay men are a close second on the list of "Most Hunted Game in Pennsylvania" after deer.

I'm sorry to hear that. As you know, I live in "John Boehner-land". It's one of, if not the most, conservative areas in Ohio. I hardly ever see any gay people. Now that I have a job in central Ohio, I see quite a few daily. It's been an interesting change. I guess the whole point of this response is just to say that "I can relate".

Originally Posted by Captain_BluTac

You know I don't normally point out spelling mistakes, but you've done it a few times now and its driving me a little crazy. The word's esteem not 'estime'.

...no one likes a spelling nazi.

Spoiler!!! Click to Read!:

[Captain_BluTac]

Originally Posted by Marx

...no one likes a spelling nazi.

Spoiler!!! Click to Read!:

I know, I know. I hated myself even as I was doing it, but I just couldn't not.

Y'all know I wouldn't do it if I didn't love my Hype gays so much. Any other thread I'd just roll my eyes and move on, but I'm comfortable enough around you guys to show my more annoying traits. That's my excuse anyway.

[Scarlettess]

Hey guys, I know I havn't been in this forum a while, 1 cause ive been hecticly busy with uni and 2 I guess figuring out stuff. Anyway i'm just sobering up from a night out (yes i'm drunk) after being t-total for almost a year, eh, holiday in tenerife, what can u do? Lol but anyway I came out to my sister early on tonight and she's so cool about it i'm a bit bewildered by the whole thing tbh. I literally can't believe how cool it she is, but it's a MASSIVE relief to actually come out to someone in the family. Her friend Katie whoe i've met a few times before but never really talked to if that makes sense is on the holiday with us but she's made me feel so comfortable its unbelievable, like really. It's hard to believe I was so scared of coming out to my sister , and yet she's taken so cooly. Thats probs not even a word but you know what I mean. Lol. Oh and I am Never getting drunk again. Haha.

[Pink Ranger]

That's a very big step Scar, and congratulations and best wishes.

[Pfeiffer-Pfan]

From what I've seen brothers and sisters usually take it well for whatever reason... it's friends and parents that are the stuggle.

But congratulations. I'm very happy it worked out so well.

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As an update on the guy I meet last week. I was out with him again last night. He was txting me all week, but I somehow managed to keep the conversation completely in the friendzone... I never txted him, I never feigned interest in him and as awful as it sounds, the ball is completely in my court.

I just have this feeling that he is sooooo needy.

Last night my friends and his work collegues came over and told me how much he liked me and hadn't shut up about me all week. (). So I played nice and talked to him as a friend. But you know what he said by the end of the night...?

''The last person I was kinda involved with told me I was too needy!''

Bingo! I saw it a mile away (and why would you even tell somebody who you like that?)... and as a result, I'm dodging a bullet. The next time I see him, hes getting the 'friend' talk.

I feel bad, but its better than leading him on to nowhere.

[The_Raganork]

"When you are lonely then you will know. When someone needs you, you love them so."

[Pfeiffer-Pfan]

Yeah... I get it. Life's a *****.

What would you have me do? Force myself to like this guy?

If my friendship ain't enough, then thats not really my fault.

[The_Raganork]

Originally Posted by Raganork8

"When you are lonely then you will know. When someone needs you, you love them so."

Originally Posted by Pfeiffer-Pfan

Yeah... I get it. Life's a *****.

What would you have me do? Force myself to like this guy?

If my friendship ain't enough, then thats not really my fault.

I just realized the reference I made in my last post is probably older than everyone in the room.

VIDEO-CLick to Watch!:

[Pink Ranger]

Originally Posted by Raganork8

I just realized the reference I made in my last post is probably older than everyone in the room.

VIDEO-CLick to Watch!:

Lol, don't feel bad, I was listening to the Oliver! soundtrack myself a few days ago.

[The_Raganork]

I don't feel as much as loner/outsider/leper anymore

[Pink Ranger]

Originally Posted by Raganork8

I don't feel as much as loner/outsider/leper anymore

Now somebody forward this message to the Prussian Consulate in Siam, posthaste!!

[The_Raganork]

I'm not going back there! Not Again!

[The Original Bamfer]

'Spent the weekend with a good friend. We have spent the last four weekends together... and a few nights in between. I think I just realized that "friends" might not be the most appropriate term.

[Schlosser85]

Friends with benefits?

[Majik1387]

Originally Posted by The Original Bamfer

'Spent the weekend with a good friend. We have spent the last four weekends together... and a few nights in between. I think I just realized that "friends" might not be the most appropriate term.

Skank.

[The Original Bamfer]

Well, that's all I thought we were. But I definitely care about him. And as I left today, he told me that I make him happier than he's ever been. So, maybe I just was unconsciously closed off to the idea of a relationship... until I realized he wanted one. Then, I realized, today, that I do too. It's strange and bizarre. It usually starts out by me actually having feelings for the person and them not knowing, not the other way around. I'm pleasantly surprised... at him and myself.

[Marx]

Originally Posted by Scarlettess

Hey guys, I know I havn't been in this forum a while, 1 cause ive been hecticly busy with uni and 2 I guess figuring out stuff. Anyway i'm just sobering up from a night out (yes i'm drunk) after being t-total for almost a year, eh, holiday in tenerife, what can u do? Lol but anyway I came out to my sister early on tonight and she's so cool about it i'm a bit bewildered by the whole thing tbh. I literally can't believe how cool it she is, but it's a MASSIVE relief to actually come out to someone in the family. Her friend Katie whoe i've met a few times before but never really talked to if that makes sense is on the holiday with us but she's made me feel so comfortable its unbelievable, like really. It's hard to believe I was so scared of coming out to my sister , and yet she's taken so cooly. Thats probs not even a word but you know what I mean. Lol. Oh and I am Never getting drunk again. Haha.

Originally Posted by The Original Bamfer

Well, that's all I thought we were. But I definitely care about him. And as I left today, he told me that I make him happier than he's ever been. So, maybe I just was unconsciously closed off to the idea of a relationship... until I realized he wanted one. Then, I realized, today, that I do too. It's strange and bizarre. It usually starts out by me actually having feelings for the person and them not knowing, not the other way around. I'm pleasantly surprised... at him and myself.

Congratulations and best wishes to you both!

[The Original Bamfer]

Thanks, Marxo.

[spideyboy_1111]

Originally Posted by The Original Bamfer

Well, that's all I thought we were. But I definitely care about him. And as I left today, he told me that I make him happier than he's ever been. So, maybe I just was unconsciously closed off to the idea of a relationship... until I realized he wanted one. Then, I realized, today, that I do too. It's strange and bizarre. It usually starts out by me actually having feelings for the person and them not knowing, not the other way around. I'm pleasantly surprised... at him and myself.

That's awesome. Congrats!!!

[Scarlettess]

I can't quote posts but thanks to everyone for congrats and wishes.

The funny thing is, how many times I pictured it in my head, and NONE of them were like that.
Me an my sister, we're not really that close, 6 yrs aparts meant we never really saw much of each other, or even got on, guess this holiday is kinda making up for all that lost time. Lol

She did make a joke about not coming out to my parents before the wedding though. ( which I never dreamed of doing anyway.) :funny;

[Marx]

I still dread coming out to my father...but I know I have to do it.

[JP]

Originally Posted by The Original Bamfer

Well, that's all I thought we were. But I definitely care about him. And as I left today, he told me that I make him happier than he's ever been. So, maybe I just was unconsciously closed off to the idea of a relationship... until I realized he wanted one. Then, I realized, today, that I do too. It's strange and bizarre. It usually starts out by me actually having feelings for the person and them not knowing, not the other way around. I'm pleasantly surprised... at him and myself.

Same for me, until I met the the guy who is currently ruining my life at the moment. He went after me first, which is just strange and bizarre. But I eventually caved, which was a big mistake because now I'm in love with him and he's doing everything he can to run away.

It's literally '(500) Days of Summer' to a T. With me being Tom and him being Summer.