Advice and Relationships Again: A Hypester's Tale

[Schlosser85]

Surely I can't be the only one wanting pictures of Dreadstar in his flared women's jeans.

[hopefuldreamer]

Originally Posted by Nell2ThaIzzay

Lol well considering the smart car story, I feel he also "creates" opportunities for sex lol.

And thanks! Like I said, not sure where it's headed, if anywhere, things have slowed a little bit, but she's been coming to visit me at work, and drunk texting me to come see her (unfortunately no booty call, her sober friend was there looking out for her). Just everytime I've tried to set up a "real" date one or the other of us has been busy. Hoping for the best, but not closing other doors

Not trying hard enough!

I don't understand how any request for a date can end without knowing if the person is or isn't interested in dating you.

You ask a girl on a date. She says she's busy that night. So you say 'What about next week'. If she then says she's also busy then you say 'Well what nights are good for you?'

If at that point she is still not responding in a positive way, she's not interested. Simple.

What did you actually say when you tried to ask her out?

And are you not worried that her drunk texting you in a non booty call way might be an indicator of you already being in the dreaded friend zone?

[Optimus_Prime_]

Originally Posted by Nell2ThaIzzay

True

And I have had chances, I just passed them up, either on purpose or by accident. But they've been there.

And for what its worth, im working on a new one now. There's a new girl I've been talking to a little bit. Don't know where its headed, we haven't been on a "date" yet, but we have been seeing each other and talking, so we'll see

Unlike Dreadstar, I would bet 'attractive' is one of your standards.

[hopefuldreamer]

Originally Posted by Pfeiffer-Pfan

Plus lets be honest... those ''getting the action'' don't feel the need to talk about it so intensely.

I had sex last night. Just like a bunch of other people... it's no big deal.

Beat your chest elsewhere.

Originally Posted by Schlosser85

Surely I can't be the only one wanting pictures of Dreadstar in his flared women's jeans.

Make it happen!!!!!

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Originally Posted by hopefuldreamer

Not trying hard enough!

I don't understand how any request for a date can end without knowing if the person is or isn't interested in dating you.

You ask a girl on a date. She says she's busy that night. So you say 'What about next week'. If she then says she's also busy then you say 'Well what nights are good for you?'

If at that point she is still not responding in a positive way, she's not interested. Simple.

What did you actually say when you tried to ask her out?

And are you not worried that her drunk texting you in a non booty call way might be an indicator of you already being in the dreaded friend zone?

I very well may be friend zoned, and if I am, then on to the next one.

But as far as when I ask her out, I did ask her out to grab some drinks after work one night. This was last weekend. She was busy, and I was busy this weekend, but I told her that I was free this next weekend for us to make plans, and she agreed.

I may be friend zoned, sure, and if so, then I have other options as well.

[Pfeiffer-Pfan]

Ohh the Friendzone...

It's just as hard no matter what side your on. I'm currently trying to keep someone in that zone without hurting their feelings.

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

honestly if I am friend zoned by this girl, I won't have any hard feelings. I don't really have feelings of any kind for this girl. She's hot, and she is fun to be around, and that's about as far as it goes. I'm interested. I feel like she might be as well, but she might not be. I won't know unless I try. I told her I wanted to get drinks with her next weekend. She agreed. So now is the follow through.

[hopefuldreamer]

Definitely rests on that one night. Can't judge anything until then

I hate the friend zone. I used to end up in it with every guy I met. I think that's why I am a uncontrollable flirt when i'm drinking a meet a guy It's like a defense mechanism.

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

She has just been impossible to read. We've gone out before, and nothing ever came of it. Then we just kinda started talking again out of nowhere, and she was making a big deal about wanting to see me, and coming to me work to see me, and then that night that she drunk dialed me to go see her. But then it wasn't a booty call. But she really wanted to see me and started getting impatient when I was with friends. So I really don't know lol. Nobody that I've talked to knows what to make of her, they all just say give it a shot cuz she seems like she might be.

[Pfeiffer-Pfan]

Yep... seems like all you can do is hope for the best.

But don't get your hopes up too much. Shes sounds like she gets bored easily.

[The Guard]

It's just as hard no matter what side your on. I'm currently trying to keep someone in that zone without hurting their feelings

How are you going about that?

[Anita18]

Originally Posted by Erzengel

So he wants a:

Down to Earth Girl
Who wants sex with him
Who is half his age
Non materialistic

Edit: Doesn't mind him and his panties.

Hey, some girls like that. Note in this vid how all the chicks are with this guy dancing in drag right away:

VIDEO-CLick to Watch!:

Also, you forgot, "Has no other purpose or fulfillment in life other than being a warm hole." I think many non-sugar-daddy women have a problem with that one in particular....

My aunt is a very high-maintenance, materialistic woman. She's been married to my uncle for 30 years, because he makes a ton of dough and is just as materialistic as she is. It works out.

Originally Posted by WillardNation

I feel like Dreadstar is trying to be the next Jinouga or something with the craziness of the posts but just taking it in a different direction.

But unlike a lot of other posters, I find the crazy posters entertaining and welcome them. Carry on.

Wait...who doesn't find them entertaining and want to welcome them?

[Erzengel]

Originally Posted by Nell2ThaIzzay

She has just been impossible to read. We've gone out before, and nothing ever came of it. Then we just kinda started talking again out of nowhere, and she was making a big deal about wanting to see me, and coming to me work to see me, and then that night that she drunk dialed me to go see her. But then it wasn't a booty call. But she really wanted to see me and started getting impatient when I was with friends. So I really don't know lol. Nobody that I've talked to knows what to make of her, they all just say give it a shot cuz she seems like she might be.

Yeah I'd give her a shot but I wouldn't wait around. However, I'd try and be a little aggressive and not try and wait for some "perfect" opportunity.

[The Boy Scout]

Originally Posted by Dreadstar

Why would I want to break up with her? Its summer, time to get me some! Plus look at all I am learning from this woman! LOL Next woman, all I have to ask is: favourite restaurants, how many shoes do you own, how big is your wardrobe, how much lingerie do you own and I will be able to determine if she is a Hoity toity or a normal female.

Originally Posted by Dreadstar

Its a forum, people talk about stuff. NEWSFLASH: Is a RELATIONSHIP THREAD! HOLY HANNAH DUDE, GET A LIFE!!!!!!! You dont like it, dont read it!

Your just jealous that I am getting all the action and you are left out in the cold reading this forum!

You can't be real.

[Optimus_Prime_]

Originally Posted by Dreadstar

it does not matter whether or not you care! Its a forum. 99% of the crap on here NO one cares about

I am more secure in my masculinity than more guys, so much so that I can wear panties and still be a man! When I said "get into it" I meant get into the fact that its a free country and I am NOT breaking any laws. people that think this (which is so minor its not even funny) is weird do not understand what weird really is.

Yes, I was going on like she was the love of my life, now as I get to know more about her, I can expand my understanding of her characteristics. High Maintenance is not a good characteristic to have.

No brah It's just weird. No hate. It's just kinda weird. More than kinda. There's nothing edgy or cool about lightly dipping your toe into gay territory. Either go full tilt or don't bother telling me.

[LibidoLoca]

This thread is like a trainwreck I don't want to see it, but I can't look away.

[Optimus_Prime_]

Originally Posted by Nell2ThaIzzay

honestly if I am friend zoned by this girl, I won't have any hard feelings. I don't really have feelings of any kind for this girl. She's hot, and she is fun to be around, and that's about as far as it goes. I'm interested. I feel like she might be as well, but she might not be. I won't know unless I try. I told her I wanted to get drinks with her next weekend. She agreed. So now is the follow through.

Don't tell her you're a virgin unless she asks. I'd make a move but don't be disappointed if you fall short. Just get something.

[Sloth7d]

Originally Posted by LibidoLoca

This thread is like a trainwreck I don't want to see it, but I can't look away.

Makes you wonder, are you looking into the thread, or is the thread looking into you?

[Lasirius]

Originally Posted by Dreadstar

it does not matter whether or not you care! Its a forum. 99% of the crap on here NO one cares about

I am more secure in my masculinity than more guys, so much so that I can wear panties and still be a man! When I said "get into it" I meant get into the fact that its a free country and I am NOT breaking any laws. people that think this (which is so minor its not even funny) is weird do not understand what weird really is.

Yes, I was going on like she was the love of my life, now as I get to know more about her, I can expand my understanding of her characteristics. High Maintenance is not a good characteristic to have.

It's really, really hard to believe you're in your 50s. I'd say 15 maximum but I don't want to offend any teenagers.

[ComicChick]

Originally Posted by WillardNation

I feel like Dreadstar is trying to be the next Jinouga or something with the craziness of the posts but just taking it in a different direction.

But unlike a lot of other posters, I find the crazy posters entertaining and welcome them. Carry on.

why aren't we hooking those two up? they'd be perfect

[SuperSoldier985]

After many many many months of trying, I finally hooked up with someone via match.com...

She seems like a female version of myself, which is a little strange, but I think our first date went extremely well. Bowling and a Korean dinner can go a long way...

[Anita18]

Originally Posted by SuperSoldier985

After many many many months of trying, I finally hooked up with someone via match.com...

She seems like a female version of myself, which is a little strange, but I think our first date went extremely well. Bowling and a Korean dinner can go a long way...

Yay!

Yeah, online dating doesn't always pan out right away. I'm a chick (ie, I'm supposed to get first pick on dating sites) and it took me a couple years to find my fiance. To be fair, I wasn't trying ALL that hard but still...

[WillardNation]

So me and the girl I've posted about decided to go ahead and commit to being in an actual relationship despite the distance. We talked about and have both said that we're all each other can think about and legitimately want to be together. This is seriously the first girl I've ever felt this way about so I'm not going to let her go just because of 1500 miles. We've both said we'll make it work.

We'll see how it goes....

[Anita18]

Haha, and I spent a night out with my former coworker and it was quite...interesting. I'd always been a little as to why she always got into trouble with men (relationships and otherwise, um, unsavory interactions too) when she's the same size as I am (ie, nobody bothers me when I'm physically as nonthreatening as she is), and I think I've figured it out.

When she's feeling awkward and uncomfortable, she gets REALLY flirty. Turns into a complete little girl. Since I'd always seen her at work where she's a badass and a professed introvert (even directing a phonecall to ME, the stutterer, because she couldn't take the social interaction), I'd never seen this side of her and it was downright fascinating.

When she wandered off, she found herself in a pub and texted me saying that she was staying for a while cause two guys bought her a beer. And then later she invited a bunch of members from a random band to have dinner with us. I was like, W. T. F. Luckily the band never did show up to dinner, but dude! You bet your ass I'm not inviting a bunch of random guys to have dinner with me!

So um, a lesson to CC and other girls wishing they got more attention from guys. It's okay to feel really awkward and uncomfortable, as long as you turn out really flirty as a result.

[Anita18]

Originally Posted by WillardNation

So me and the girl I've posted about decided to go ahead and commit to being in an actual relationship despite the distance. We talked about and have both said that we're all each other can think about and legitimately want to be together. This is seriously the first girl I've ever felt this way about so I'm not going to let her go just because of 1500 miles. We've both said we'll make it work.

We'll see how it goes....