Anita18
DANCE FOR ME, FUNNY MAN!
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Back in March. We were checking out a community garden as we usually do when we go to the coast, and he set the ring box down on a rock when I had skipped ahead, and told me I needed to come back and "check this out." Now, I knew the proposal was going to happen that weekend (he was living upstate at the time) but I was still surprised enough for my first thought to be, "Hey, someone left their ring here!"I haven't been keeping up with this thread recently? He's your fiance now? Congratuations. When did that happen and how? Maybe you've already told the story of your proposal on here, but I haven't heard it.
You met him online, right? How did you find the long distance relationship to begin with? Was that something that made you hesitant? Or perhaps you didn't consider it that long distance?
I would think it could be a problem, especially if you're deciding to meet up for the first time and a person is a 2-3 hours drive away. You don't want to overdo it, but you can't just mee t up for only an hour or less if, say, it takes you 2-3 hours to get to a person. Wouldn't you want to make more of a day of it, but then you know you can't plan it that way, because what if you don't get on in person?
How do others feel about having to travel to meet someone online who is a few hours away?

When we met, we lived about an hour away. That's not tooooo far, but then we weren't seeing each other multiple times a week. Plus, to get anywhere in Los Angeles it takes an hour anyway so it isn't really a big deal here.
He moved back upstate after a few dates and I figured I would never hear from him again. We didn't see each other during that time (nor did we keep in touch really), but then he moved back down for a job and we started seeing each other again. I like to joke I really had nothing better to do so I might as well keep dating him.
And he still lived an hour out of the way, but he'd drive two hours to the coast from where he was every weekend anyway, so I considered myself enroute.
Probably depends on where you are. In Los Angeles a few hours is what many people call their daily commute. 






