terry78
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The Joker said:women who get breast implants who aren't doing it because they're famous or porn stars usually have low self esteem. So getting breast implants doesnt make you more likely to commit suicide, but people who commit suicide are more likely to get breast implants. Saying it the other way around is like saying "people who play violent video games are more likely to kill people" instead of "people who are more likely to kill people sometimes play violent video games"
britrogue said:I have naturally big boobs. But you know what, I'd do anything to have small boobs. Reason being, it's all anyone ever sees.
My best friend got herself a new boyfriend, and told me she didn't want him to meet me because all he would see would be blonde hair and big boobs and want me and not her. It made me feel really bad about myself.
So they're not as great as they're made out to be.
britrogue said:Yeah, and how many people have a high opinion of her? I'm better than that thank you very much.
kainedamo said:This was what I was trying to say with my cosmetic surgery thread awhile ago.
Women that get breast implants when there is nothing wrong with their breasts have low self esteem. They need counselling, NOT surgery.
It was crazy how like, 90% of the board were against me. But I was right. Plastic surgery is not the answer to complicated mental issues of low self confidence.
Wanting to have massive breasts is kind of similar to anorexia.
Why is one thing widely acceptable and the other seen as a mental disease?
britrogue said:I think that you are right. It DOES come down to low self esteem, and I know from experience that being there doesn't bring you that sort of confidence. Confidence is something that needs to be worked on, and it stems totally from being able to accept yourself for who you are. Everyone is special in their own way.
You almost sound like my sister. She'd sound exactly like you if she wasn't about 200lbs (and 5'3"). It's funny women with the big boobs never want them and the women without them do.britrogue said:I have naturally big boobs. But you know what, I'd do anything to have small boobs. Reason being, it's all anyone ever sees.
My best friend got herself a new boyfriend, and told me she didn't want him to meet me because all he would see would be blonde hair and big boobs and want me and not her. It made me feel really bad about myself.
So they're not as great as they're made out to be.
And sometimes it's easier to change what you don't like to build that self esteem. Not all the time, the "everyone is special in their own way" cliche is double edged.britrogue said:I think that you are right. It DOES come down to low self esteem, and I know from experience that being there doesn't bring you that sort of confidence. Confidence is something that needs to be worked on, and it stems totally from being able to accept yourself for who you are. Everyone is special in their own way.
lars573 said:And sometimes it's easier to change what you don't like to build that self esteem. Not all the time, the "everyone is special in their own way" cliche is double edged.
britrogue said:I have naturally big boobs. But you know what, I'd do anything to have small boobs. Reason being, it's all anyone ever sees.
My best friend got herself a new boyfriend, and told me she didn't want him to meet me because all he would see would be blonde hair and big boobs and want me and not her. It made me feel really bad about myself.
So they're not as great as they're made out to be.
You...mean, it isn't a natural side effect of saline solution leaking in to the blood stream via sub-dermal f***-balloons?...........to have suicidal thoughts?The Joker said:women who get breast implants who aren't doing it because they're famous or porn stars usually have low self esteem. So getting breast implants doesnt make you more likely to commit suicide, but people who commit suicide are more likely to get breast implants. Saying it the other way around is like saying "people who play violent video games are more likely to kill people" instead of "people who are more likely to kill people sometimes play violent video games"
The Joker said:women who get breast implants who aren't doing it because they're famous or porn stars usually have low self esteem. So getting breast implants doesnt make you more likely to commit suicide, but people who commit suicide are more likely to get breast implants. Saying it the other way around is like saying "people who play violent video games are more likely to kill people" instead of "people who are more likely to kill people sometimes play violent video games"