Bullies and bossy ppl.

[Golgo-13]

Ever been bullied? I sure everyone has at one point, whether it's at school or your job. Funny thing is i've had pp, try to bully, or intimidate me only after i left high school. Never had i encountered bullying in school.

I used to have boss that whenever he wanted me to work weekends, he would get right up in my face and try to do the 'stare down' with me that you see boxers or MMA fighters doing right before a fight. Yeah, he was an idiot. As if that was soppose to make me change my plans and come in on the weekend.

I've had randomn incidences like ppl cutting in front of me in line, knowingly etc,etc, and they're all forms of intimidation as they were all bigger than me, or were female and somehow were under the impression that rules don't aply to them.

Funny thing is, when you confront them, they tends to crumble/crack down quicker than other's you confront, almost as though they've never had to deal with someone standing up to them their whole lives. Strange.

 

[Sentinel X]

Yeah Ive been bullied before in middle school, typical stuff...but it was verbal bullying. In high school I grew up and I wont take **** like that from people anymore.

I remember going to an amusement park and a whole bunch of ghetto people, like 12 of them, were just like "Excuse me, move outta da way!" and they cut like 70 people ...I wish part of the ride fell on their heads, I hate people like that

 

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

I've been bullied. Yes. But not as much as I've watched other people being bullied. I've had the good fortune of defending a lot of people who were subjected to hazing, and general harshness from the "cool" boys.
They hated me... these beautiful people on the school yard, with large-breasted girlfriends, and sports-scholarships who thought bossing around autistic kids was a blast. Broke a guy's hand once... felt good. He thought it was funny to stomp on the lunch of a mentally-traumatized kid who had recently lost his father.

By the time I was in college, these same people suddenly wanted to be friends with me. As if all those years of repressed hatred finally manifested into love.

I asked them (politely) to shove their friendship up their respectable behinds, and leave me the hell alone. Of course, by then, I had become popular myself, and the ladies liked me better than them. So... to hell with bullies.

A snapshot of my psyche. Explains a lot why I joined a superhero forum.

 

[uchiha_itachi]

i have bin. once when i was like 13 this group of idiots who picked on me, they were in and older year all sat round me picked on me for like 15mins of this bus journey, but i just was lookin out of the window and the main one one was like turn around, so i got up span around sat down and looked out of the window again lol . then when all of them got off the bus part from one of them, this other boy who was like 18 or 19, sort of a vinnie jones type guy said to the one bully who was left" oh your not picking on him now are you!?!" i could tell tht guy who was left was scared lol tht made up for tht lol

 

[ServantofAllah]

the way to not get bullied in school, is to beat the **** out whoever tries to start something, that way you'll get respect.

 

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

the way to not get bullied in school, is to beat the **** out whoever tries to start something, that way you'll get respect.

I expected a much more peaceful solution from someone who has the username "ServantofAllah". But, oh well...

 

[ServantofAllah]

In the quran it basically says if someone hits you, you have either the right to forgive them or them back, guess which one i chose?


btw im much more peaceful now than i used to be.

 

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

In the quran it basically says if someone hits you, you have either the right to forgive them or them back, guess which one i chose?
btw im much more peaceful now than i used to be.

That's a comfort.

 

[ServantofAllah]

hey im just a normal guy, with temper issues.

 

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

hey im just a normal guy, with temper issues.

Anger management comes to mind. Taken any classes yet?

 

[ServantofAllah]

Nah dont need them, besides i NEVER hit anyone unless they hit me first.

 

[skorponok]

I don't get it now but middle school and 90% of high school...yeah...

 

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

Nah dont need them, besides i NEVER hit anyone unless they hit me first.

So it's like a self-defence tact..... you know what? Back to bullying...
Have any stories of being bullied?

 

[skorponok]

Funny thing is, when you confront them, they tends to crumble/crack down quicker than other's you confront, almost as though they've never had to deal with someone standing up to them their whole lives. Strange.

Very true...that's because a lot of it on their behalf is a CHARADE ...

 

[ServantofAllah]

So it's like a self-defence tact..... you know what? Back to bullying...
Have any stories of being bullied?

not really bullied just random fights, although i can remember i was ganged up on once cause i beat up some kid, and his older brother came and like 15 other people.lol

i beat the **** out of his bro, but i broke a arm, cause they all jumped in.

 

[uchiha_itachi]

why did u beat the kid uP?

 

[terry78]

I'm waiting for someone to say they were the bully.

I'm a short dude, so yes, I have been the object of intimidation in school and in the regular world. You can't help but have that "angry short man syndrome" if people are just trying to purposely piss you off because they think you won't do ****. I've gotten into it because of random things, I was in the advanced classes, I don't drink, just whatever gives them an excuse.

 

[ServantofAllah]

he was being racist.

 

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

I'm waiting for someone to say they were the bully.

I'm a short dude, so yes, I have been the object of intimidation in school and in the regular world. You can't help but have that "angry short man syndrome" if people are just trying to purposely piss you off because they think you won't do ****. I've gotten into it because of random things, I was in the advanced classes, I don't drink, just whatever gives them an excuse.

I can relate to that. It's disgraceful, really. But the sad fact remains: It's part of our society now.

 

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

he was being racist.

Racism is one of the oldest excuses to hurt each other. People have been using this to provoke each other for generations. I don't think it'll ever stop.

 

[ServantofAllah]

most of the short friends i have are friggin strong,seriously.

 

[terry78]

most of the short friends i have are friggin strong,seriously.

Yeah, I'm not a scrawny dude, but height is still what most people look at regardless. Wolverine being the exception.

 

[ServantofAllah]

Racism is one of the oldest excuses to hurt each other. People have been using this to provoke each other for generations. I don't think it'll ever stop.

Yeah, he totally deserved it tho.

 

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

Yeah, he totally deserved it tho.

If you say so.

 

[SoulManX]

I was always good at talking my way out of getting my head stomp in by jocks.