So let me see if I understand this.
A person spends their life living out the teachings that are in the new testament (following the golden rule, love one another as yourself, living out the fruits of the spirit, being charitable, helping others in need) but they either don't say prayers at all, or they direct their prayers to a deity other than the christian one. Boom! off to hell when they die.
Then there's another person who has spent their entire life as a criminal and didn't even consider going to church or some bloke named jesus, and has passed through the ranks of criminal behavior, beginning with a stolen a pack of baseball cards from the corner store when they were 5, to playing hooky from school, to armed robbery, to becoming an adult and then graduating to arson, rape, and then murder and then becoming a serial killer on death row. Then some minister comes in the day before they die, speaks to them about christianity and the criminal decides to believe in jesus. They then go to heaven.
Sure, that makes sense.
Here's an interesting quote:
Religion...has certain ideas at the heart of it which we call sacred or holy or whatever. That's an idea we're so familiar with, whether we subscribe to it or not, that it's kind of odd to think what it actually means, because really what it means is 'Here is an idea or a notion that you're not allowed to say anything bad about; you're just not. Why not? — because you're not!' If somebody votes for a party that you don't agree with, you're free to argue about it as much as you like; everybody will have an argument but nobody feels aggrieved by it. If somebody thinks taxes should go up or down you are free to have an argument about it, but on the other hand if somebody says 'I mustn't move a light switch on a Saturday', you say, 'Fine, I respect that'. The odd thing is, even as I am saying that I am thinking 'Is there an Orthodox Jew here who is going to be offended by the fact that I just said that?' but I wouldn't have thought 'Maybe there's somebody from the left wing or somebody from the right wing or somebody who subscribes to this view or the other in economics' when I was making the other points. I just think 'Fine, we have different opinions'. But, the moment I say something that has something to do with somebody's (I'm going to stick my neck out here and say irrational) beliefs, then we all become terribly protective and terribly defensive and say 'No, we don't attack that; that's an irrational belief but no, we respect it'. - Douglas Adams