This is inspired by a discussion in the "my wife is cheating on me" joke thread that is up at the first page here at the time that I am writing this and starting it off with a giant mindf**k of a story...
So early this year, I meet this girl through mutual friends who work in b-horror films. She had done a lot of print modeling as well as some featured spots on One Tree Hill and dated allegedly dated Jared Leto, etc (even had a paparazzi picture of the two of them), etc. She lived in LA and I lived 2 miles outside of NYC at the time but we spoke all the time and got to spend large chunks of time together.
Everything went great - seemingly perfect. She did have a kid (a 4 year old boy) but she made no attempt to hide him from me nor did she use him as "leverage" to win my heart just for the sake of getting a dad for her son. She was very upfront about the relationship she had with her ex (the son's father) who was in the military/Iraq, etc...things get better and better and we get engaged...we get a family plan phoneline, etc etc etc etc...
Soon she returned to LA and had a long-delayed custody hearing. Her and her mom had filed some time ago and apparently the hearings were finally set to take place. She had the hearing and was granted full custody (as far as I knew).
A few days before her next trip to NYC things got weird. For instance, whenever she would recount a story about her life, etc that she had told me before, things started getting strange. Her story wouldn't match up with the previous way she had told it. Lots of holes show up, etc etc etc. inconsistencies, some things being COMPLETELY different, she'd get mad over meaningless things and questions...you name it.
She goes back to California - and from then on out - she's almost impossible to get in touch with, loses her phone a lot - all kinds of things.
I'll cut to the chase now. In October I lose my apartment and come to Texas to stay with some of my family for awhile, and save money to move to Long Beach.
Upon arrival in Texas - I am told she has a "Secret" phone number. I am given the number and I call it...sure enough the voicemail is hers. She denies it of course and even CHANGES the voicemail greeting and tells me to call it again, saying I'm insane....and then she blames me for all sorts of random odd things that have nothing to do with us - and then ends our engagement and breaks up with me.
Soon I learn she's in a "serious" relationship but had been cheating on me for about two months...a 20 year old (she is 27...I am 31)...
BUT WAIT...!!
...it turns out she IS STILL MARRIED TO HER SON'S DAD...gahhh...
...then a lot of little things turned out to be false...the pap pics with jared leto were FAKE and actually of his assistant (who looked similar hence the easy photoshop job), none of her print ad work she had done (versace, etc) was real...etc etc...and she'd told these stories to EVERYONE
...and now for the big ones...
The apartment she had when we met WAS HER AND HER HUSBAND'S APARTMENT - he was deployed in Iraq it seems - and she had been having affair after affair since he had been gone - then when she got with me - we got serious of course - then her husband went home and found out and filed divorce...
...and lastly...the name myself and most people knew her by...IS NOT EVEN HER NAME...
...so...as I said in the other thread...this is/was a total Dateline NBC scenario...I can't BELIEVE that something like this actually happened to me...
...so now...share your stories
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So early this year, I meet this girl through mutual friends who work in b-horror films. She had done a lot of print modeling as well as some featured spots on One Tree Hill and dated allegedly dated Jared Leto, etc (even had a paparazzi picture of the two of them), etc. She lived in LA and I lived 2 miles outside of NYC at the time but we spoke all the time and got to spend large chunks of time together.
Everything went great - seemingly perfect. She did have a kid (a 4 year old boy) but she made no attempt to hide him from me nor did she use him as "leverage" to win my heart just for the sake of getting a dad for her son. She was very upfront about the relationship she had with her ex (the son's father) who was in the military/Iraq, etc...things get better and better and we get engaged...we get a family plan phoneline, etc etc etc etc...
Soon she returned to LA and had a long-delayed custody hearing. Her and her mom had filed some time ago and apparently the hearings were finally set to take place. She had the hearing and was granted full custody (as far as I knew).
A few days before her next trip to NYC things got weird. For instance, whenever she would recount a story about her life, etc that she had told me before, things started getting strange. Her story wouldn't match up with the previous way she had told it. Lots of holes show up, etc etc etc. inconsistencies, some things being COMPLETELY different, she'd get mad over meaningless things and questions...you name it.
She goes back to California - and from then on out - she's almost impossible to get in touch with, loses her phone a lot - all kinds of things.
I'll cut to the chase now. In October I lose my apartment and come to Texas to stay with some of my family for awhile, and save money to move to Long Beach.
Upon arrival in Texas - I am told she has a "Secret" phone number. I am given the number and I call it...sure enough the voicemail is hers. She denies it of course and even CHANGES the voicemail greeting and tells me to call it again, saying I'm insane....and then she blames me for all sorts of random odd things that have nothing to do with us - and then ends our engagement and breaks up with me.
Soon I learn she's in a "serious" relationship but had been cheating on me for about two months...a 20 year old (she is 27...I am 31)...
BUT WAIT...!!
...it turns out she IS STILL MARRIED TO HER SON'S DAD...gahhh...
...then a lot of little things turned out to be false...the pap pics with jared leto were FAKE and actually of his assistant (who looked similar hence the easy photoshop job), none of her print ad work she had done (versace, etc) was real...etc etc...and she'd told these stories to EVERYONE
...and now for the big ones...
The apartment she had when we met WAS HER AND HER HUSBAND'S APARTMENT - he was deployed in Iraq it seems - and she had been having affair after affair since he had been gone - then when she got with me - we got serious of course - then her husband went home and found out and filed divorce...
...and lastly...the name myself and most people knew her by...IS NOT EVEN HER NAME...
...so...as I said in the other thread...this is/was a total Dateline NBC scenario...I can't BELIEVE that something like this actually happened to me...
...so now...share your stories
t:
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And you were going to get married?
