X Knight
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You've got to take care of things one step at a time. Diet is paramount. Second is your sleep patterns. This is something I want you to try also - meditation. I'm willing to bet right now part of the anxiety is because there's a bunch of chatter you can't control, probably related to your job. You have to learn to clear the chatter from your mind. Even if you don't have much chatter mediation will help you develop the skill of remaining calm in situations that are likely to cause an anxiety attack. Mindfulness, being present in the moment, acknowledging what you're feeling and learning how to respond to said situation in a healthy way. There's plenty of youtube videos that cover this, too many to recommend. But I suggest trying to do mediation for at least 20-30 mins each day. Like exercise the more you learn to be mindful of what you're feeling at a given time, the better equipped you'll be to respond to the situation in a way that isn't distressing.
Also, get yourself a hobby. You need to have some type of activity that is as far away from work as you can possible get. Said activity will help release dopamine into your system, making you feel better. If you're the creative type I can recommend some activities online you can do. I'm not saying any of this to be harsh or anything, I've gone through this type of thing before and know the way out of it. So do yourself a favour, start making these changes now. And most importantly - be kind to yourself. Try and look at the positives that you've got going for yourself. Remember what your goals and values are and what qualities you bring to the world. Commit now and you'll eventually get out of that job you hate. You can do it dude.
very well said.
also, finding and cultivating a hobby could also help you discover where your true interests and passions lie. which could also possibly lead to a career change.