on the subject of therapy, another option to consider is hypnosis - either through a hypnotherapist or self hypnosis. It doesn't work for everyone, but it's something to consider trying if nothing else seems to be working. Your mind has to be open to the suggestions and you have to want to make the change, though. If you want to go the self hypnosis route, this lady offers a wide variety of programs that you can get on mp3 or cd. Self Hypnosis | Download Hypnosis Videos & MP3 Audio It could help and may be worth giving it a shot.