Close. It's more like they have their own lives and even when our schedules line up, "something" comes up and they cancel. I'm probably overreacting but it still hurts. We did date night for Captain Marvel. Everything seemed fine, but once we were gone, back to the same routine. Part of the problem is, too deal with her trauma and subsequent PTSD, she picked up disassociative disorder. She goes into her own world to hide from everything that could possibly trigger her. Including me. She has a therapist and I sit in on her sessions on occasion.