EMO whinge...myspace gal problems. ANOTHER one...

[arachnid-guy]

Typical boy meets gal on myspace.

I'll try to condense this...

It started simply enough...added her myspace (won't provide her myspace) and found out that she lived locally (10 mins down the road)...and got to know her basically. Thought she was very attractive and v. cool personality.

Neways, we got talking.....and organised to meet up- swapped phone numbers and all was going well...but she 'had to take the earlier train' (we organised to meet up before her school started..). Neways...started to talk again...and then she told me one time (bout a week ago) that the only reason she came online was to talk to me. (Doesn't mean anything by it? posssibly)...and then she and her friend rang me up this monday went and started to chat to me.

Suffice to say, i've been talkign to her on the phone for a fair bit. But i'm afraid i may have scuppered it.

Tonight, I sort of came across (in hindsight) as leering and pushy. I spoke to her bout stuff....pushed an answer...tried to ring her....then when i came online just now, she went directly off. I'm a bastard. I'll give her some space (won't talk to her for the weekend). Sorry if i'm not explaining myself that well....I'm pissed coz we're not even going out and i'm like this. Get a grip. Pathetic.

What should I do?

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

whoa whoa WHOA.....nice shootin', Tex.

 

[JokerNick]

Typical boy meets gal on myspace.

I'll try to condense this...

It started simply enough...added her myspace (won't provide her myspace) and found out that she lived locally (10 mins down the road)...and got to know her basically. Thought she was very attractive and v. cool personality.

Neways, we got talking.....and organised to meet up- swapped phone numbers and all was going well...but she 'had to take the earlier train' (we organised to meet up before her school started..). Neways...started to talk again...and then she told me one time (bout a week ago) that the only reason she came online was to talk to me. (Doesn't mean anything by it? posssibly)...and then she and her friend rang me up this monday went and started to chat to me.

Suffice to say, i've been talkign to her on the phone for a fair bit. But i'm afraid i may have scuppered it.

Tonight, I sort of came across (in hindsight) as leering and pushy. I spoke to her bout stuff....pushed an answer...tried to ring her....then when i came online just now, she went directly off. I'm a bastard. I'll give her some space (won't talk to her for the weekend). Sorry if i'm not explaining myself that well....I'm pissed coz we're not even going out and i'm like this. Get a grip. Pathetic.

What should I do?

nah dude, it's understandable.... just give her some space for a few days, then ring her.... she how she acts towards you, if she seems put off, appologize for your harsh behavor and ask if you can just start off anew....

 

[AndThePickles]

I can't really give advice because I don't know what you specifically did wrong. But you must really be upset to make 3 threads about it

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

I spoke to her bout stuff....pushed an answer..

Need more specificity there, champ.

 

[arachnid-guy]

ahh righto....sorry....

uh...didn't mean three!

 

[tzarinna]

I'm a bit confused as well Pickles.

 

[arachnid-guy]

Need more specificity there, champ.

Well basically, she was glum and I pushed her to tell me. No, i mean I REALLY pushed her. Maybe im overreacting.

 

[Helghast]

lol.

"Will you give me head?"

"Uh... uh... erm..."

"WILL YOU GIVE ME HEAD?!?!"

"Maybe."

"Kay."

 

[Morg]

I can't really give advice because I don't know what you specifically did wrong. But you must really be upset to make 3 threads about it

I only see one thread *whistles*

 

[arachnid-guy]

I can't really give advice because I don't know what you specifically did wrong. But you must really be upset to make 3 threads about it

Well, I pushed an answer out of her. Forced when she didnt want to answer.

 

[JokerNick]

Well basically, she was glum and I pushed her to tell me. No, i mean I REALLY pushed her. Maybe im overreacting.

well dictate how the convo went

 

[arachnid-guy]

lol.

"Will you give me head?"

"Uh... uh... erm..."

"WILL YOU GIVE ME HEAD?!?!"

"Maybe."

"Kay."

Heh...it wasn't QUITE like that.

 

[Helghast]

Heh...it wasn't QUITE like that.

I like how you made "QUITE" in giganto size, as if trying to tell me to subtract it from the sentence.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

Well, I pushed an answer out of her. Forced when she didnt want to answer.

Why are you a pushy ass**** with girls?
I hardly think she'd find that attractive.

 

[AndThePickles]

I only see one thread *whistles*

Of course, because you deleted the other two you punk.

 

[JokerNick]

Heh...it wasn't QUITE like that.

can I sniff your thong?

No

let me rephrase that, CAN I SNIFF YOUR THONG!!!

ahhh, help!

LISTEN *****, LET ME SNIFF YOUR UNDIES AND LICK THEM OR ELSE I WILL CUT YOUR SPLEAN OUT!!!

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

God I miss that song, "Thong th-thong thong thong".
Effing genius.

"let.me.see.that THONG..."

evocative, man.

 

[Ben Urich]

Give her a few days to calm down. Generally, girls need some time to cool off, so to speak. Make it clear to her that you know what you did wrong and that you are sorry.
Things won't be better immediately, but that would be a step in the right direction.

 

[Morg]

Of course, because you deleted the other two you punk.

That's Mr Punk to you

 

[AndThePickles]

God I miss that song, "Thong th-thong thong thong".
Effing genius.

"let.me.see.that THONG..."

evocative, man.

"baby move your butt, butt, butt"

 

[arachnid-guy]

She was pissed bout sometihng, I could tell.

And well I asked her what was wrong. She said it doesn't matter...

Then I started to say stuff like 'you cant keep all your feelings locked up'...'tell me'.

She obv. didnt want to tell em...but I started to pressure her again saying 'I'm your mate (the truth is- i want to date her) you can tell me'.

I then went offline- compski crashed.

Then i started to text her...lada, lada lada.....same crap.

Asked if she wanted to talk...she said 'no'.

Rung her anyways....she rejected call.

Went back on MSN, thereafter. As soon as I came online, she went off.

And here i am. Depressed over nothing probs.

I'll give it til monday.

 

[AndThePickles]

Seriously, I wouldn't stress about it. She obviously doesn't want to be bothered, and you seem to have annoyed her a bit, so just leave her alone for a while. Don't be the one to approach her next, let her contact you first.

 

[Helghast]

She was pissed bout sometihng, I could tell.

And well I asked her what was wrong. She said it doesn't matter...

Then I started to say stuff like 'you cant keep all your feelings locked up'...'tell me'.

She obv. didnt want to tell em...but I started to pressure her again saying 'I'm your mate (the truth is- i want to date her) you can tell me'.

I then went offline- compski crashed.

Then i started to text her...lada, lada lada.....same crap.

Asked if she wanted to talk...she said 'no'.

Rung her anyways....she rejected call.

Went back on MSN, thereafter. As soon as I came online, she went off.

And here i am. Depressed over nothing probs.

Dood. Drilling someone for an answer is hard enough when you know the person, nevermind just meeting them. Crazy nukkih.

 

[Equint77]

between JAL and Lee's threads... I'm exhausted on giving advice.... i'm not even getting money for this..

I'll save my advice for Sunday... when I do work.

Carry on.