I See Fat People ... They Make Me Cry Inside.

[Eggyman]

I was just on my lunch break in the heart of Manchester, sipping on a coke and toying with my salad. It's a place I go to some afternoons when no one else is leaving the office. It’s a nice place to sit on your own and think about nothing. Sometimes I have a beer.

Today I was just looking round, and then I noticed a fat guy, sat right in front of me with the biggest bucket of fu**ing chicken I’ve ever seen. I dislike fat people, not because they disgust me, but because they make me feel sad. This guy, he’s sat there with BBQ sauce spilled down his left tit, only just missing his fingers as he monsters another limb of the chicken, his eyes almost closed by the fat on his face.

I can’t stop looking. He looks so sad. His slit-closed eyes seem to long for something they aren’t getting. Is he twisted into thinking that the empty feeling in his stomach is hunger when really it’s sadness from lack of love (self or third party)? That’s what I always imagine when I see fat people eat. They always look so sad because the filth they’re ramming down their throats isn’t doing a damned thing for that empty feeling that makes them cry at nights.

So I walk back to the office and make this post, unable to get the fat guy and his sad features out of my head. I wonder if he’s finished his bucket or if he’s gone back for seconds…? Will he find love soon and not need to eat everything? Do you know any fat people that would make me feel sad? Are you one? Do these fat people make you sad? I know it’s their own faults in most cases, but I still can’t help wanting to blubber sometimes when I see how unhappy their gluttony leaves them.

Look for love, fat people. You can do it. :heart:

/nomnomnom

 

[knowsbleed]

I could honestly say that if I weren't blessed with a decent metabolism, that I would be amongst the obese in society today. I love eating just pure, unhealthy (oxyMORON) garbage. I'm sure my arteries are screaming to breathe at times. I don't know how much of the chub population are the way they are due to this "empty" feeling inside that Eggzy describes or how much just completely lack any and all willpower to resist the urge to nomnom 24/7. BUT... I can relate. I loooove eating, I could just eat and eat. I watch eating competitions and would love to be there stuffing my vagina eater with obscene amounts of pure, unhealthy (oxyMORON) garbage. I would L.O.V.E. it.

I can relate tubby lubbys, fattyboombalattys... I can re-late.

 

[knowsbleed]

edit: I'm that much of a glutton that I posted twice... but I purged myself so this one doesn't count.

 

[Ugfugly]

I really believe that some day we'll find out that there are genetic traits that make obesity more likely for some people. Maybe then people won't be so quick to judge

 

[Eggyman]

Thanks, Knowsy. I know that some are just greedy bastards. Like you. But some are crying for love. They don't get *****; they get chicken. They don't get hugs; they get heart attacks.

And they make me cry.

 

[Eggyman]

I really believe that some day we'll find out that there are genetic traits that make obesity more likely for some people. Maybe then people won't be so quick to judge

I'm not judging, honest. I feel bad for them. It makes me sad to see them trapped beneath all that chub. They guy I saw at dinner was massive. If he were albino he woulda looked like stay-puft, seriously. I'm not here to make fun. I want to discuss the issues of the obese because of how they make me feel.

Are you defensive because of your weight, or do you have someone close to you who eats and can't stop? I'm being serious with a spin... but don't feel defensive, I'm not attacking. This honestly bothers me.

 

[knowsbleed]

Now I'm hungry.

 

[Eggyman]

That means you want a hug.

 

[TheFuture]

I know what you mean Eggyman. As a formerly fat person I can confirm everything you are saying. You feel like **** before you gorge, and you feel like **** after you gorge. You're so big that it has got to the stage where you are too ****ing embarassed to hit the gym or pound the streets.

This is going to sound a little sad but I don't care, as I said it's in the past. I used to get constantly abused on the street and I couldn't wait to run home to order some **** junk food in order to comfort myself. As you said Eggyman, food was a replacement for love in my eyes.

Agh if I wasn't such a bad public speaker, I reckon I could motivate a lot of people with my inspirational story.

 

[knowsbleed]

Hmm, I think sleeping with random women was my way of gorging. Like you, TheFuture, I felt like **** before I gorged and I felt like **** after I gorged. I can re-late. Then I met my wife and I stopped gorging.

 

[TheFuture]

Hmm, I think sleeping with random women was my way of gorging. Like you, TheFuture, I felt like **** before I gorged and I felt like **** after I gorged. I can re-late. Then I met my wife and I stopped gorging.

Ha but at least you could get the wimmens. Seriously though I know what you mean, I've heard a fair few stories like your own.

I don't think anyone special came into my life that instigated me losing the weight. I think it was more like looking in the mirror one night and saying "FFS you are 19 years of age and look at you."

I feel sorry mostly for kids that are overweight because their parents are being irresponsible, and it won't be until these kids become adults and see their friends having the time of their lives will they realise how much of a messed up situation they are in.

 

[Eggyman]

I know what you mean Eggyman. As a formerly fat person I can confirm everything you are saying. You feel like **** before you gorge, and you feel like **** after you gorge. You're so big that it has got to the stage where you are too ****ing embarassed to hit the gym or pound the streets.

This is going to sound a little sad but I don't care, as I said it's in the past. I used to get constantly abused on the street and I couldn't wait to run home to order some **** junk food in order to comfort myself. As you said Eggyman, food was a replacement for love in my eyes.

Agh if I wasn't such a bad public speaker, I reckon I could motivate a lot of people with my inspirational story.

Thanks for the words man. I knew I had to be right about something one day

I'm glad it's all worked out for you.

I repeat, I am not taking the piss and coating it with good intentions. It honestly does upset me when I see these fat people looking so sad. It's like, one time, I was eating a burger and noticed a fat man looking at it the way Knowsbleed looks at Bamfer. He wanted it, and I knew it. The sadness in his eyes nearly made me cry for real. I thought, 'You poor thing. This won't make it better. You want to eat it, but I think some love would fill you up much more.' t:

That was a lil tongue in cheek, but you get the idea. He wanted it. Completely put me off my burger. It felt like sleeping with someone's wife while they're handcuffed in a chair being forced to watch. I wish I could help them. I might hug the next fat person I see, apart from the girl who works on the switchboard. She's ****ing horrible.

 

[TheFuture]

Thanks for the words man. I knew I had to be right about something one day

I'm glad it's all worked out for you.

I repeat, I am not taking the piss and coating it with good intentions. It honestly does upset me when I see these fat people looking so sad. It's like, one time, I was eating a burger and noticed a fat man looking at it the way Knowsbleed looks at Bamfer. He wanted it, and I knew it. The sadness in his eyes nearly made me cry for real. I thought, 'You poor thing. This won't make it better. You want to eat it, but I think some love would fill you up much more.' t:

That was a lil tongue in cheek, but you get the idea. He wanted it. Completely put me off my burger. It felt like sleeping with someone's wife while they're handcuffed in a chair being forced to watch. I wish I could help them. I might hug the next fat person I see, apart from the girl who works on the switchboard. She's ****ing horrible.

Well I was never that bad, I never stared people out of it who were eating.

Ah but you know she's only horrible because she's unhappy inside Eggy. However I wouldn't tell her that, she might give you a smack.

 

[Eggyman]

Well I was never that bad, I never stared people out of it who were eating.

Ah but you know she's only horrible because she's unhappy inside Eggy. However I wouldn't tell her that, she might give you a smack.

Or cover me in BBQ sauce and digest me.

 

[TheFuture]

Or cover me in BBQ sauce and digest me.

Ah you think highly of yourself Eggy. t: Good enough to eat eh?

 

[knowsbleed]

Everybody needs love Eggy. I mean, I've never been with someone who I couldn't pick up, but I'm sure your strapliness is more than enough to woo even the widest wench.

 

[BillyZaned]

I really believe that some day we'll find out that there are genetic traits that make obesity more likely for some people. Maybe then people won't be so quick to judge

your point being what??? seriously.. only in this soceity, must we be tolerant for people that don't deserve it....

if you born bigger, it's sad, but there are things you can do to keep yourself healthy...

the guy this that was brought up in the header... sure, he might have been born with some bad genetics... but no one is forcing him to eat a bucket of bbq chicken?? These people are a cancer to this society and exactly why healtcare has sky rocketed out of control. They are why I pay over 100 a week for health insurance i don't even use because I'm healthy....

 

[TheFuture]

the guy this that was brought up in the header... sure, he might have been born with some bad genetics... but no one is forcing him to eat a bucket of bbq chicken?? These people are a cancer to this society and exactly why healtcare has sky rocketed out of control. They are why I pay over 100 a week for health insurance i don't even use because I'm healthy....

Would you treat smokers with the same disdain?

 

[BillyZaned]

Would you treat smokers with the same disdain?

not as much... because smoking doesn't cause health problems right away, or even 10 years from starting... are they unhealthy.. yes... but it's not like smoking at the age of 30 is going to be the same as being obese at the age of 30....

they both are bad.... but I'm sick of this crap with fat people.... I'm not saying they have to be skinny, because I know that's not possible for some people... but why do people who eat gallons of ice cream, fatty foods, need sympathy... they are doing it to themselves... and it's not like heathly foods aren't available... it's not like they can't go out and "walk"... it's not like they can't work out, even in their own homes...

 

[TheFuture]

not as much... because smoking doesn't cause health problems right away, or even 10 years from starting... are they unhealthy.. yes... but it's not like smoking at the age of 30 is going to be the same as being obese at the age of 30....

they both are bad.... but I'm sick of this crap with fat people.... I'm not saying they have to be skinny, because I know that's not possible for some people... but why do people who eat gallons of ice cream, fatty foods, need sympathy... they are doing it to themselves... and it's not like heathly foods aren't available... it's not like they can't go out and "walk"... it's not like they can't work out, even in their own homes...

I see what you are saying. It didn't take me long to say "hold on, I'm in a real bad situation and I need to action." I said that to myself at 16 stone. What I will never understand is these people you see in documentaries who are 40 stone, even 70 stone. How the hell did they let themselves get so bad? You'd think they would have said to themselves at 20 stone "I need to sort myself out." It boggles the mind really.

 

[Eggyman]

O lol. One of my threads has caused actual discussion. This is the day I leave the hype for good

 

[BillyZaned]

I see what you are saying. It didn't take me long to say "hold on, I'm in a real bad situation and I need to action." I said that to myself at 16 stone. What I will never understand is these people you see in documentaries who are 40 stone, even 70 stone. How the hell did they let themselves get so bad? You'd think they would have said to themselves at 20 stone "I need to sort myself out." It boggles the mind really.

you see TV shows, where you get these 800lb people... and they make them seem like a tragic person... its BS... they are the ones who don't get out of bed, they are the one's eating a dozen fried eggs for breakfast...

if someone has really fat parents... and they are born bigger, and even the first 14 years in life, their parents feed them a really unhealthy diet... your telling me, that they can't change? They can't look in the mirror, and say "i need to exercise, and eat better"...

 

[BillyZaned]

O lol. One of my threads has caused actual discussion. This is the day I leave the hype for good

there ya go..

no, this subhect strikes cord because I come from a very fat family. Every relative is fat, besides me, and my siblings, and my mother... my dad, my uncles, aunts, cousins... they are all huge fat asses.

and for the record, most of the fat people come from my mom's side, but she eats healthy and works out every day, so it never hit her..

I was born a very chubby baby, and was chunky... BUT, my mom saw that happening, and changed my diet at a young age, and instead of TV and video games being my hobbies, I was put in athletics like baseball and football... I know am a work out aholic, and do a physical job 3 days a week (work 4 days in an office)... and IMO, you are only born with one body, treat it right... it's not like you would by a sports car, and not change it's oil, or rotate it's tires... why treat your body any worse...

 

[Eggyman]

there ya go..

no, this subhect strikes cord because I come from a very fat family. Every relative is fat, besides me, and my siblings, and my mother... my dad, my uncles, aunts, cousins... they are all huge fat asses.

and for the record, most of the fat people come from my mom's side, but she eats healthy and works out every day, so it never hit her..

I was born a very chubby baby, and was chunky... BUT, my mom saw that happening, and changed my diet at a young age, and instead of TV and video games being my hobbies, I was put in athletics like baseball and football... I know am a work out aholic, and do a physical job 3 days a week (work 4 days in an office)... and IMO, you are only born with one body, treat it right... it's not like you would by a sports car, and not change it's oil, or rotate it's tires... why treat your body any worse...

Do all of your family want love or are they just naturally fat? Serious question.

 

[TheFuture]

O lol. One of my threads has caused actual discussion. This is the day I leave the hype for good

Ha it's only because I'm in my element on this topic mate. t:

you see TV shows, where you get these 800lb people... and they make them seem like a tragic person... its BS... they are the ones who don't get out of bed, they are the one's eating a dozen fried eggs for breakfast...

I saw one a few months ago on the British Channel 4. It was about this American guy the same age as me (21 at the time). In some ways I really felt for him because he spoke of missing out on his childhood and teenage years. He missed out on the fun his friends were having and I could relate to that.

In other ways he frustrated me so much. Even when he was given the gastric band operation he fell back into his old ways. It was so hard to watch this guy humiliating himself on TV, having a hissy fit at his mother (who was unbelievably weak in dealing with her son) while not being able to get out of the bed.

if someone has really fat parents... and they are born bigger, and even the first 14 years in life, their parents feed them a really unhealthy diet... your telling me, that they can't change? They can't look in the mirror, and say "i need to exercise, and eat better"...

You see this is the thing. I was born to overweight parents and they indulged me a bit too much. I was fat all my life but only started to take notice of myself when I started to become my adult, while my mates were enjoying themselves and getting the girls I was the saddo. So I feel really sorry for these kids, they will only realise they are in a horrible situation once they begin to grow up mentally speaking.