If your girlfriend was in the acting business...

[FaT_tONle]

(or boyfriend and ya stupid thread but w/e)... would you be cool if she had to do some hard core love scenes with another dude on set... I mean not porn or anything... I think most people would never date or marry a person who is or has been in that sort of business... I am just curious to know... and lets say this relationships hasn't been going on for ten years... lets say you have been together for a year or less (so you aren't 100 percent used to this person) and he/she had to do some love scenes frequently on a show or film... I'm sure most people wouldn't have a problem with it... but then again... big time actors/actresses break up 90% of the time when they marry within their own profession... share your thoughts and be honest...

 

[Crooklyn]

I wouldn't be all happy-go-lucky, but if I thought that girl was worth it and I really trusted her...sure, go ahead.

Just as long as there's no penetration, I'm cool.

 

[black_dust]

Something like a film they wouldnt really be going at it for long.

*thrust*

CUT!!!
Action

*kISS*
CUT!!!
thats a wrap people


So it wouldnt really bother me, if it puts food on the table

 

[FaT_tONle]

Ya figured... I just brought it up b/c... say you were Diane Lane's wife and you were watching Unfaithful... you gotto admit you have to be a little ticked off watching this Frenchman seduce over and over and over again...

 

[FaT_tONle]

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[Capt Throbberson]

Ya figured... I just brought it up b/c... say you were Diane Lane's wife and you were watching Unfaithful... you gotto admit you have to be a little ticked off watching this Frenchman seduce over and over and over again...

 

[The Amazing Lee]

A job is a job. If I was married to a garbage woman, I wouldn't feel turned on by the fact that she caresses rubbish.

 

[ang_hulk]

en-o

 

[PhotoJones]

i wouldn't mind. in fact, i'd ask if i could be there. not because i'm insecure, but because i've always been curious on how they film sex scenes. i've always wondered what they do (if anything) to ensure the guy does not get...excited. i figured they just "strapped" him down, if you know what i mean...

 

[nosebleed.]

i wouldn't mind. in fact, i'd ask if i could be there. not because i'm insecure, but because i've always been curious on how they film sex scenes. i've always wondered what they do (if anything) to ensure the guy does not get...excited. i figured they just "strapped" him down, if you know what i mean...

ditto...I've always wondered how a guy would be able to control himself down there. I mean, if an actor doesn't get an erection from physically rubbing on a woman (even if its just for acting) then what is he?

a) a really damned good actor
b) gay
c) not attracted to his co-star
d) imagining he is being stalked by JAL

 

[Machx72]

Look at it this way, her kissing the dude is her job, which she's getting paid for.

I'm into theatre myself, and one of the other actresses I knew wrote a one-act musical she and her boyfriend featured in.

At the end of it, she was supposed to kiss another guy. Neither of them had a problem with it- it's just their jobs.

I wouldn't worry about it, honestly... Unless they "practice" that outside of theatre, of course, haha.

 

[The Apatow Crew]

ditto...I've always wondered how a guy would be able to control himself down there. I mean, if an actor doesn't get an erection from physically rubbing on a woman (even if its just for acting) then what is he?

a) a really damned good actor
b) gay
c) not attracted to his co-star
d) imagining he is being stalked by JAL

I knew it was gonna be only a matter of time before someone mention me and my "stalking ways"

 

[Motown Marvel]

I mean not porn or anything... I think most people would never date or marry a person who is or has been in that sort of business...

psh, speak for yourself. porn stars need love too, you know.

ditto...I've always wondered how a guy would be able to control himself down there. I mean, if an actor doesn't get an erection from physically rubbing on a woman (even if its just for acting) then what is he?

a) a really damned good actor
b) gay
c) not attracted to his co-star
d) imagining he is being stalked by JAL

e) rubbed one off in his dressing room just before shooting the scene as to greatly lower his chances of getting and erection.

 

[Kritish]

I feel bad for the actors, getting a ***** will make it so awkward for them.

 

[heypapajinx]

I feel bad for the actors, getting a ***** will make it so awkward for them.

or would it?
eh?
ehhh??

and sure, i mean, i would have to be okay with it.
and plus, you'd be known all over the world as the guy who gets to go hom and REALLY put it to her.
that's hot!

 

[Lex Luthor]

Well if we trusted one another, sure.

 

[Asgard]

That's a tough question.

There's a lot of trust issues that would have to be worked out between the both of us.

I know it would only be acting with no real feelings between her and the other actor, and that at the end of the day it's just two people doing a job, but just thinking about seeing another man being intimate with my SO is pretty unnerving and it'd probably be difficult not to feel some jealousy. Assuming they'd be filming a very explicit scene with nudity and doing everything except actual intercourse or cunnilingus/*****io, my girlfriend or any woman for that matter, would most likely be aroused by the intimacy involved. Not hard to see why most men would feel the same way I would.

Yeah, pretty tough question man...

In any case, as long as she agreed to blow me afterwards, it'd be all good.

 

[heypapajinx]

In any case, as long as she agreed to blow me afterwards, it'd be all good.

yes.
that is CLEARLY what she should agree to do.
"look honey, i'm not really comfortable with the whole idea of you having to suck face with some random guy all day every day whether you want to or not, but it would really ease MY conscience if you promise to give me a b.j. afterwards, just to really make me feel secure about this relationship."

i would ****ing laugh in your face and spit in your eye if i were your girlfriend and you told me something like that!t:

 

[Catman]

Both in high school and college I dated a few actresses here and there. Part of you is a bit uncomfortable and the other understands. So, you just can't let insecurities or whatever get in the way.

Something like a film they wouldnt really be going at it for long.

*thrust*

CUT!!!
Action

*kISS*
CUT!!!
thats a wrap people

Doesn't really work out that way. To begin with, it takes time to set up the camera, lights, etc. Secondly, sometimes you have to do a few takes to get it right. So, they could both be laying in bed for a few hours.

Ya figured... I just brought it up b/c... say you were Diane Lane's wife and you were watching Unfaithful... you gotto admit you have to be a little ticked off watching this Frenchman seduce over and over and over again...

Part of you won't like it but another understands.

i've always wondered what they do (if anything) to ensure the guy does not get...excited

The guy always gets excited. It just depends on the sex scene. If they are in bed and under the sheets they just put a pillow in-between them. If the scene takes place over the sheets or just outside the bedroom and you see the guys ass in the shot they put like one of those baseball cups on the guys ding dong.

 

[Asgard]

i would ****ing laugh in your face and spit in your eye if i were your girlfriend and you told me something like that!

Please, if you ever had the pleasure of experiencing my superb and quite frankly BEAUTIFUL penis, especially when aroused, the only thing you'd be spitting on is your hand.


Seriously though, I would think that if it was a woman in this situation, she'd probably be just as likely to have her SO agree to similar terms as well, right?


My hypothetical was meant to be taken lightly, but if you really think about it, wouldnt sex with your SO be appropriate/appreciated after filming a sex scene? It'd go a long way to ease any jealousy that might come about especially if the sex scene would be her/his first, as well as any arousal that they may have felt filming the scene.

 

[heypapajinx]

Please, if you ever had the pleasure of experiencing my superb and quite frankly BEAUTIFUL penis, especially when aroused, the only thing you'd be spitting on is your hand.


Seriously though, I would think that if it was a woman in this situation, she'd probably be just as likely to have her SO agree to similar terms as well, right?

haha.
trust me... NO penis is "beautiful".
and i wouldn't care, not if he was bringing home some bacon AND not putting HIS penis in anyone else.
now if he called me someone ELSES name during coitus, i might just have to throw all his **** out on the lawn and burn it, but you know, you've got to give trust to get trust.

 

[Catman]

trust me... NO penis is "beautiful".

First time I hear a woman say that.

 

[heypapajinx]

First time I hear a woman say that.

are you joking?
you MUST be joking.

 

[Hades]

Every penis is like a beautifull unique snowflake

 

[heypapajinx]

Every penis is like a beautifull unique snowflake

you always make me feel so warm and fuzzy inside Hades.