Is Going to a Strip Club Cheating?

[The Spawn]

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[chaseter]

Nah...unless you go to the champagne room.

 

[Morg]

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Not married so nope

 

[Prison Mike]

I think it depends on the situation.

 

[Manic]

Nah...unless you go to the champagne room.

No matter what a stripper tells you, there is NO SEX in the champagne room. None. Oh, there's CHAMPAGNE in the champagne room. But you don't want champagne. You want sex.




I can't believe I can actually quote the beginning of that bit.

 

[MadVillainy]

Do you feel like your doing something really wrong to your girl? Would you bring it up in conversation? Would you hesitate to tell her? Would you feel bad? Would she get mad?....then count it as cheating

 

[Ghostvirus]

Not if your girlfriend is working, then you are just visiting her.

 

[Addendum]

Watching a movie or TV show where a woman strips isn't considered cheating. So why do some consider a strip club cheating?

 

[chaseter]

No matter what a stripper tells you, there is NO SEX in the champagne room. None. Oh, there's CHAMPAGNE in the champagne room. But you don't want champagne. You want sex.




I can't believe I can actually quote the beginning of that bit.

HIGH FIVE!!!t:

 

[KALEL114]

A movie or TV show can't grind on your junk. Plus, you go to strip club solely to watch naked women. It's about intent. If a movie or TV show has nudity it's ok, because your intent was to watch the movie or TV show it's self. It's incidental.

 

[Logan's Runt]

It's up to you in your relationship. Cheating has to be defined by the couple for themselves- should be done early and clearly if you want the easiest ride. If my husband or I went to a strip club, got a lap dance, etc, wouldn't be cheating in our terms. If you think she'd be mad and so you feel like you couldn't tell her you were going, you shouldn't be doing it until you've discussed it clearly.

 

[Manic]

A movie or TV show can't grind on your junk. Plus, you go to strip club solely to watch naked women. It's about intent. If a movie or TV show has nudity it's ok, because your intent was to watch the movie or TV show it's self. It's incidental.

Unless you're watching porn or Showgirls.

 

[KALEL114]

It's up to you in your relationship. Cheating has to be defined by the couple for themselves- should be done early and clearly if you want the easiest ride. If my husband or I went to a strip club, got a lap dance, etc, wouldn't be cheating in our terms. If you think she'd be mad and so you feel like you couldn't tell her you were going, you shouldn't be doing it until you've discussed it clearly.

Very true. I have had friends whose wives/girlfriends would go together all the time. It's a case by case situation. In my case, my wife expressed she didn't like me going so I don't. Not that big of deal to me.

 

[Heretic]

Or Cocoon

 

[KALEL114]

Unless you're watching porn or Showgirls.

That's a different conversation all together. Some women don't mind, some do.

 

[Addendum]

watching naked women isn't cheating.

 

[Logan's Runt]

Going to watch naked women at an establishment and keeping it from your s.o./spouse can be. Sex isn't the end-all definition of cheating. Cheating/lying/keeping things from a s.o. all gets fuzzy and mixed together. Some couples define cheating as gaining sexual pleasure/entertainment from any source other than each other. Going to watch naked chicks for kicks is a form of passive sexual pleasure. Watching a movie that has unexpected nudity/sexuality is different because you're not at the movie to gain sexual entertainment. There is not much other reason to go to a strip club.

 

[Addendum]

If it's a **** club, then I can see that being cheating. That's how I consider it.

 

[Logan's Runt]

Well yes, that would be your definition. Unfortunately relationships involve two people with varying opinions.

 

[SuperFerret]

I'd say it depends on the situation and people involved.

 

[Addendum]

Unfortunately relationships involve two people with varying opinions.

Which is why I fail to see their value

 

[Metamorpho1977]

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Matthew 5:28 (The Message)

27-28"You know the next commandment pretty well, too: 'Don't go to bed with another's spouse.' But don't think you've preserved your virtue simply by staying out of bed. Your heart can be corrupted by lust even quicker than your body. Those leering looks you think nobody notices—they also corrupt.

 

[bunk]

It's only cheating if you're doing something your doing something you wouldn't want your mate doing.

 

[Logan's Runt]

Which is why I fail to see their value

Then you're saving everyone a lot of time by staying out of them.

 

[Addendum]

Exactly. I'd rather waste my time with something I enjoy