Lonely people

[Master Chief]

Aight, not me. I enjoy being alone. I prefer being alone. I'm like that. I get to go my own pace, there's no waiting for or being waited on and all the other benefits to flying solo and whatnot.

But k I don't get what the deal is with people who need to be around other people. People who need to tell others about the random insignificant details of their life, and who need to ask questions they already know the answers to so there can be a conversation. I don't get it. Fabricated friendships because I don't have the heart to do anything but nod.

Grant me some insight into these minds please kThX.

 

[The Spawn]

I was just having a cigarette conversation about this like 3 hours ago.

 

[AndThePickles]

I'm often by myself, and sometimes it's very enjoyable. I need my alone time, but I also prefer to be around people for the majority of the time. However, it isn't just people, period, it's people that I actually enjoy being around.

 

[Master Chief]

lOL see, same here. And don't you back off when someone doesn't really want to be around you? Like, hint dropping and s**t. This flies over heads. It's f**ked. FML.

I was just having a cigarette conversation about this like 3 hours ago.

mOTherfUUuU lOL

I just can't understand. It's like parasitism. Except. Human to human.

 

[LastSunrise1981]

I used to get lonely quite a bit and it would bother me to no end. Now I've started bodybuilding training and the loneliness goes away. In all honesty, it's pretty fun being by myself and having my own space, saving my money, and being away from drama in general.

Growing up I could have fun with two friends, whereas people I know need to have a gaggle of masses in order to have fun.

 

[PyroChamber]

I've pretty much being alone for years now, since 11 actually. It use to bother me a lot, still does sometimes, but then I think about it and wonder "do I really want to deal with all the b.s. that comes with dealing with people?"

 

[Knightsaber Priss]

You know, I was happy being alone for a very long time until I was shown over a decade ago how hard life is when you don't have anyone to support you and believe in who you are.

 

[SoulManX]

This is for all the lonely people
Thinking that life has passed them by
Dont give up until you drink from the silver cup
And ride that highway in the sky

This is for all the single people
Thinking that love has left them dry
Dont give up until you drink from the silver cup
You never know until you try

Well, Im on my way
Yes, Im back to stay
Well, Im on my way back home (hit it)

This is for all the lonely people
Thinking that life has passed them by
Dont give up until you drink from the silver cup
And never take you down or never give you up
You never know until you try

 

[Sentinel X]

Aight, not me. I enjoy being alone. I prefer being alone. I'm like that. I get to go my own pace, there's no waiting for or being waited on and all the other benefits to flying solo and whatnot.

But k I don't get what the deal is with people who need to be around other people. People who need to tell others about the random insignificant details of their life, and who need to ask questions they already know the answers to so there can be a conversation. I don't get it. Fabricated friendships because I don't have the heart to do anything but nod.

Grant me some insight into these minds please kThX.

Its just as abnormal as people who need to be alone all the time.

I think that it good to have a social balance....you shouldn't be too dependent on relationships but you shouldn't avoid them at all cost either. A happy medium between both extremes is always best imo

 

[Immortalfire]

Alone time can be a good thing..but too much of it will start to bother me.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

I've pretty much being alone for years now, since 11 actually. It use to bother me a lot, still does sometimes, but then I think about it and wonder "do I really want to deal with all the b.s. that comes with dealing with people?"

Oh brother. It's really not that hard to find people to hang out with that don't cause drama.

 

[Ahura Mazda]

I don't mind being alone but I rarely am anymore.

 

[CFE]

I'd enjoy being around people more if people by in large weren't so horrendously stupid...too bad the people I deal with out there aren't more like you guys.

 

[Knightsaber Priss]

I find people tend to do really stupid things when flocking in large groups because they're always trying to fit in with the crowd. I find people are more honestly themselves in smaller, more trust worthy numbers.

 

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I find people tend to do really stupid things when flocking in large groups because they're always trying to fit in with the crowd. I find people are more honestly themselves in smaller, more trust worthy numbers.

agreed. and it's worse when they're (really) young. my classmates are all 18-22 years old.. ugh

 

[Knightsaber Priss]

agreed. and it's worse when they're (really) young. my classmates are all 18-22 years old.. ugh

The sad thing is I've found this to be true of people my own age (36) as well, like they know they're heading towards the Over the Hill zone and they're desperate to reassure themselves they're still cool.

 

[November Rain]

if you can't be comfortable on your own, then you can't really be yourself with others.

saying this, many people consider isolation as a period of self-detrimental psycho-analysis. I suppose it sends us back to those periods of when we were alone as children and either felt vulnerable or were punished.

I think thats the reason most people associate being alone as a bad thing.

 

[The Spawn]

Yes.

 

[Master Chief]

KkKkKkKKKk I just realized I was being Ryan from The Office my bad nm cool deal.

 

[amazingfantasy15]

Aight, not me. I enjoy being alone. I prefer being alone. I'm like that. I get to go my own pace, there's no waiting for or being waited on and all the other benefits to flying solo and whatnot.

But k I don't get what the deal is with people who need to be around other people. People who need to tell others about the random insignificant details of their life, and who need to ask questions they already know the answers to so there can be a conversation. I don't get it. Fabricated friendships because I don't have the heart to do anything but nod.

Grant me some insight into these minds please kThX.

I do have one friend like this. It's nice at times, but can by annoying sometimes with him just talking to talk or have some conversation flowing. Although it is nice on road trips since it helps the trip go faster.

I personally like a nice balance of alone time and time with friends/family. Haven't had nearly enough alone time this week though, looking forward to spending a nice night at home by myself tonight.

 

[PyroChamber]

Oh brother. It's really not that hard to find people to hang out with that don't cause drama.

Eh, I don't go out looking for people to hang out with, that's just lame.

 

[AndThePickles]

Eh, I don't go out looking for people to hang out with, that's just lame.

More lame than being alone and not hanging out with people?

 

[Eggyman]

Eh, I don't go out looking for people to hang out with, that's just lame.

Yeh, it's better to stay at home and wait for them to knock on your door.

 

[PyroChamber]

More lame than being alone and not hanging out with people?

Yeh, it's better to stay at home and wait for them to knock on your door.

You just don't get it. I don't go out looking for people because I don't want to be around anyone, people think that you have to have friends to be happy in life or you have to have someone to care about you; well I say "**** that!".

 

[Eggyman]

You just don't get it. I don't go out looking for people because I don't want to be around anyone, people think that you have to have friends to be happy in life or you have to have someone to care about you; well I say "**** that!".

What's the point of saying it if there's no one there to hear you?