I cannot sympathize with DeVito Penguin at all. Nothing but a poon hound who never had any idea of what a "plan" is. He wanted to fit in yet really made no attempt to I don't know not dress like an egg in onesie, brush his teeth, perhaps learn some basic, half-way, decent social skills. No, instead I need to refer to my dick as an umbrella and talk about filling women's voids.
I can symphatize with Zod a bit, as he was designed to protect Krypton and his people. He was not raised on Earth with its people, so why should he care what happens to it. He didn't come off as wanting to outright kill the people of Earth for the hell of it. It was really his last resort in order to secure his own people.
Harry Osborn in ASM2 got a ****** deal. My dad crapped on me, the business I got crapped on me for doing the right thing more or less and then turns out my best friend who lied to me about being able to save me and lied to me about being Spider-Man but who was open and honest about it with a girl he's been seeing for a year when I've known him since we were kids and we were best friends. Yeah, rotten deal there.