My brother wants to move in with me

[Boom]

He's eighteen years old. My parents still enforce a 1 o'clock curfew for him. He's not allowed to stay out all night. He wants to go out with his friends a drink. Typical eighteen-year-old stuff.

He's convinced that since he's 18, he should be treated as an adult, and be able to make his own decisions. Since my parents won't let him, he wants to move in with me.

My brother and I have a good relationship, so I really don't know what to tell him. I'm not going to let him, but I think I should at least try and explain how things really work.

Thoughts?

 

[November Rain]

tell him to bite the biscuit and stay at home

 

[jaguarr]

Tell him you value your own privacy and space and that having him there would infringe upon that.

jag

 

[November Rain]

nah, jag. that's too soft. He obviously wants to exploit his sibling. make it blatant and blunt

 

[Boom]

Where it stands, I'm simply going to tell him to get a job and get an apartment. If he thinks it's bad having a 1 o'clock curfew, just wait for the countless weekends where he won't be able to go out because he has to work. Or the money that goes toward taxes and payments instead of alcohol.

 

[jaguarr]

nah, jag. that's too soft. He obviously wants to exploit his sibling. make it blatant and blunt

Alright, then tell him he's a punk-ass little b1tch who'll cramp your style, Boom, and that after living with him for 18 years you think that was enough and he can just f**k off and live in the gutter for all you care.

How's that?

jag

 

[November Rain]

how come he's not at college/uni?

 

[November Rain]

Alright, then tell him he's a punk-ass little b1tch who'll cramp your style, Boom, and that after living with him for 18 years you think that was enough and he can just f**k off and live in the gutter for all you care.

How's that?

jag

older bro, is that you?

 

[Boom]

how come he's not at college/uni?

He commutes to the University of Cincinnati.

 

[Equint77]

when i was 18 I moved out... had barely any money.... a ****ty one room apartment.. with no oven....

but I had freedom..... although I had no money and friends at the time.

 

[Boom]

when i was 18 I moved out... had barely any money.... a ****ty one room apartment.. with no oven....

but I had freedom..... although I had no money and friends at the time.

Did people respect your authoritah ?

 

[Equint77]

Did people respect your authoritah ?

i had no one to answer to....... hell I was living off cheese and my only source of heating food was my lamp...

but the fact that I could do whatever I wanted and never answer to anyone was worth the misery that first year.

 

[November Rain]

He commutes to the University of Cincinnati.

un.......lucky.....

 

[DV8]

I think telling him to get an apartment/job on his own is good . . . he'll have to mature just like we all do . . . that, or tell him to wait til he's at least 21 and on his own before you go moving in w/ each other . . .

 

[Darthphere]

He's eighteen years old. My parents still enforce a 1 o'clock curfew for him. He's not allowed to stay out all night. He wants to go out with his friends a drink. Typical eighteen-year-old stuff.

He's convinced that since he's 18, he should be treated as an adult, and be able to make his own decisions. Since my parents won't let him, he wants to move in with me.

My brother and I have a good relationship, so I really don't know what to tell him. I'm not going to let him, but I think I should at least try and explain how things really work.

Thoughts?

If youre willing, go for it, but I suggest if he doesnt already you tell him to get a job and help with bills.

 

[Boom]

He's never had a job in his life.

 

[blind_fury]

If he wants to get away from home he should join the military like a real man.

 

[jaguarr]

If he wants to get away from home he should join the military like a real man.

So when are you enlisting, G.I. Joe?

jag

 

[blind_fury]

I already served in the military!

 

[Boom]

Aren't you sixteen ?

 

[blind_fury]

Actually I'm 12, but they let me join early cause my penis was so big.

 

[Boom]

Actually I'm 12, but they let me join early cause my penis was so big.

It always comes back to penises with you .

 

[Darthphere]

He's never had a job in his life.

Then no, trust me, it will become a problem if youre paying for everything and hes sitting around eating your food, watching your tv, playing your video games.

 

[Boom]

Then no, trust me, it will become a problem if youre paying for everything and hes sitting around eating your food, watching your tv, playing your video games.

Trying to hit on my fiance .

 

[blind_fury]

It always comes back to penises with you .

That's what you get for challenging my manhood!