just got back and this is my opinion......
It was a blast! The negative criticism surrounding this movie is borderline laughable and largely is unfounded. Is it as good as Iron Man 1? In a short answer, yes. Is it better? No, they are about equal.
This movie had it's flaws, sure. But they are so minor and forgiveable in my opinion that it shouldn't ever warrant this movie being ranked alongside SM3/Superman Returns. The biggest flaws were Vanko's fight scenes being short, the plot slowing down in some places, and the lack of an epic score on part with TDK/Spiderman.
Now, the good.
Tony Stark/Downey--just terrific, once again. Every scene he is in makes this movie great. Those slow scenes I was telling you about? He makes them interesting and fun. Some may complain about the lack of Iron Man, but in all reality---Stark is the more interesting side of the coin. His snarky lines made this the best comedy, so far, of the year.
James Rhodes/Cheadle--some questioned if he was going to do well in this role. Yes, he is excellent and better then Howard. To put it simply, he was a bad ass in this flick. If Stark is James Bond, then War Machine is Rambo. Held his own on screen with Stark and put him in his place at times. Also, busted out some funny lines. His battle scenes sealed the deal for me.
Senator Stern/Shandling--a somewhat forgotten member of the cast. Every scene he was in was comedy gold. The ending of this movie wasn't as iconic as TDK, but it was a hell of alot more fun. Stern, being forced to award Stark/Rhodey medals (ala Leia at the end of Episode IV) was brilliant.
Happy/Favreau---another somewhat forgotten piece of this movie. He does more in this movie and has great chemistry with Stark. Some of his scenes were rather hilarious. He even got a nice fight scene, which was suprisingly good!
Vanko/Rourke---wasn't used fully to potential, but a rather enjoyable villain. He looked in control in every scene and his fights were pretty cool. Very short, as noted, but very sweet too.
Hammer/Rockwell---probally the zaniest character in the movie. Loved him in this movie. Sure, not a menacing villian but he was fun and his scenes were always great. Hope he comes back as a slimier rival of Stark. Came close to stealing the show.
Pepper/Black Widow--pretty much what you got in the last movie with Pepper. Good, stable character. Black Widow is what you expected from the trailers. Eye Candy. Her fight scene, longer and cooler then expected, was a highlight.
Sci-Fi---one of the draws to this franchise is the sci-fi element. Stark builds a particle accelerator in his basement, creates his own element, has futuristic toys, weapons that are pretty badass, and amazing computer systems. Loved the robot theme and the military-industrial complex undertones.
Stark Expo--excellent setting for this movie. Just beautiful, crisp, and enjoyable. Loved the throwbacks to the real World's Fair. I really enjoyed the music, which was similar to " theres a great big beautiful tommorow" at the Carosel of Progress at Tommorowland/Disney. Love that part of the park, therefore the Stark Expo was up my alley.
The Battles---Stark v Vanko on the racetrack was short, but cool. Stark v Rhodey with fists was unique and fun. Stark/Rhodey v drones/Vanko was badass. Black Widow/Happy vs goons was also suprisingly cool. I figured we saw everything in the trailers.
Others--liked SLJ as Fury in this. Same goes with Coulsen. Both put Stark in his rightful place. Thor after credit scene was epic, despite already seeing it on Youtube. Racetrack fight was a great setting. Opening part of the movie was perfect, aside from a Wolverine-esque Vanko scream. The military aspect, once again, was pretty interesting. Glad Starks robot assistant is back. Black Widow looks good!
9.5/10!