pity dates/dances, or other

[GoldenAgeHero]

i remember back when i was in the 6th grade we went to our prom/dance. and i ended up dancing with a girl named amber. she really did'nt want to, but she said yes anyway. im guessing it was just out of pity and did'nt want to hurt my feelings and what not. Felt weird cause i knew she did'nt want to, i felt bad.


anyways have any of you guys do something for someone out of pity?

 

[Kevin]

I'm conviced My last girlfriend only went out with me out of pity. Everytime I asked her what was it about me that she like, it was always "I don't know." ... WTH? Also, a few girlfriends I know went out witrh me out of convicence(sp?).

6th grade, I'll call her Kerry. Anyway, when we were in 3rd grade, my friend mike and Kerry went out. I was going out with Camilia (I know, we were mad young, *shrug*) Anyway, when Me and Kerry got to 6th grade, we found out Mike and Camilia had something going on in 3rd grade. Long story short, we were BF and GF because we got screwed over. we never even kissed.

God, I have more stories that's even worst.

 

[JStorm]

Define pity.

I take it upon myself not include others who are not included, not out of pity, but respect.

Soceity says "awh... that's nice." I say, screw Martha Stewart; I say let the chips fall where they may; I say let's evolve...

 

[kytrigger]

I'm conviced My last girlfriend only went out with me out of pity. Everytime I asked her what was it about me that she like, it was always "I don't know." ... WTH? Also, a few girlfriends I know went out witrh me out of convicence(sp?).

no offense, but whenever I have had a gf, or anyone for that matter, ask me that "I don't know" is what I would say if I felt like being polite. Some people just hate being asked that just because it sounds like the person is just begging for some sort of a compliment.

6th grade, I'll call her Kerry. Anyway, when we were in 3rd grade, my friend mike and Kerry went out. I was going out with Camilia (I know, we were mad young, *shrug*) Anyway, when Me and Kerry got to 6th grade, we found out Mike and Camilia had something going on in 3rd grade. Long story short, we were BF and GF because we got screwed over. we never even kissed.

that's not pity...that's revenge t:

 

[Majik1387]

I'm conviced My last girlfriend only went out with me out of pity. Everytime I asked her what was it about me that she like, it was always "I don't know." ... WTH? Also, a few girlfriends I know went out witrh me out of convicence(sp?).

I'm guessing this is before you realized you were gay or before you were out?

6th grade, I'll call her Kerry. Anyway, when we were in 3rd grade, my friend mike and Kerry went out. I was going out with Camilia (I know, we were mad young, *shrug*) Anyway, when Me and Kerry got to 6th grade, we found out Mike and Camilia had something going on in 3rd grade. Long story short, we were BF and GF because we got screwed over. we never even kissed.

God, I have more stories that's even worst.

What do couples do in the 3rd grade?

 

[Kevin]

You don't wanna know.

 

[Majik1387]

You don't wanna know.

I wouldn't ask if I didn't.

 

[JStorm]

Now that I think about it, "pity the fool."

 

[Kevin]

no offense, but whenever I have had a gf, or anyone for that matter, ask me that "I don't know" is what I would say if I felt like being polite. Some people just hate being asked that just because it sounds like the person is just begging for some sort of a compliment.

that's not pity...that's revenge t:

No, you must not know me well. I don't look for compliments. I wanted to know why me. I know what I got going for me and what I don't. All I ever did was hurt her, so I wanted to know why I was still in her life.

And it wasn't much revenge when mike didn't care, camilia moved years before, and Kerry never liked me. She never even told anyone we were together, was ashamed of me. Then made fun of me once she broke up with me.

 

[Kevin]

I wouldn't ask if I didn't.

Let's just say camilia bent a certain part of me, and it really hurt.

 

[Majik1387]

Let's just say camilia bent a certain part of me, and it really hurt.

Is that when you realized you were gay?

 

[Kevin]

Is that when you realized you were gay?

NO, I realized I liked guys way before that. That's one story I'm not getting into.

 

[WeaponZ2]

Back in the seventh grade the "IT" girl asked me to dance...I can only assume it was out of pity.

 

[Majik1387]

NO, I realized I liked guys way before that. That's one story I'm not getting into.

lol understood.

 

[Kevin]

Back in the seventh grade the "IT" girl asked me to dance...I can only assume it was out of pity.

Maybe you were really hot?

 

[mightiest_mortal]

Its bad when you use simpathy to get dances and such.. but when you can get girls to sleep with you, just by making them feel sorry for you, it becomes an art form

Long story short, we were BF and GF because we got screwed over. we never even kissed.

hows it even classed as going out if you dont even kiss?

 

[Kevin]

Its bad when you use simpathy to get dances and such.. but when you can get girls to sleep with you, just by making them feel sorry for you, it becomes an art form


hows it even classed as going out if you dont even kiss?

That's the sad part. It was just the front so we would be with someone, but not do anything. She didn't wanna play along, but it was her ****ing idea!

 

[WeaponZ2]

Maybe you were really hot?

No. This girl was gifted and looked like a young Brittney Spears...Girls like that don't become intrested in me...ok so really I don't know what kind of girls do become intrested in me...but I doubt she was the kind.

 

[Kevin]

It's sad when people don't give themselves credit.

 

[mightiest_mortal]

No. This girl was gifted and looked like a young Brittney Spears...Girls like that don't become intrested in me...ok so really I don't know what kind of girls do become intrested in me...but I doubt she was the kind.

Did you pretend you had a girlfriend and/or act like a wanker and hit someone?
those will always work in your favour

 

[WeaponZ2]

It's sad when people don't give themselves credit.

Hey if I could prove that she asked me to dance out of real intrest then trust me, I'd be bragging to no end.

 

[Hyper Venom]

I'll never understand the whole pity date thing. If a hot girl talks to you when most other hot girls don't, why waste your time wondering why? Just be happy the hot girl is interested in you.

 

[vibeke_T]

i need pity

 

[Kevin]

I rather be alone and bitter than lied to and felt sorry for.

 

[vibeke_T]

i dont even get that luxury and I AM ALONE...no one knows how it feels man.