no, he asks Selina for information and to take him to Bane, the only "help" he actually asks from her is to blow up a barricade, he wants her to come back and help but doesn't out right ask her, he's forward about it but doesn't force her, he basically leaves it up to her if she wants to help.
As for Gordon and Blake he basically orders Gordon around who only stood up for himself once in all 3 films and that was in The Dark Knight...and he still ended up taking orders like stooge, as for Blake, he never asks anything from, Blake just does things on his own and they meet up so Bats orders him around too.
Thats not a team player, thats a "do as I say or I'll walk away" type