she's ready, your not...

[GoldenAgeHero]

so i have a friend of mine who has a girlfriend who wants to get married shes 19 and he's 23. he says he does'nt feel mature or stable enough to want to get married yet, but she keeps bringing up the issue. She also keeps bring up her friends who are like 18 and 19 who are also getting married in 2009. He feels like he's getting pressured but at the sametime does'nt want to lose his girlfriend. do you guys think he should just wise up and marry her?


have any of you been in this situation before?

 

[Abaddon]

why would this "friend" need to wise up?

 

[NewYorkSpider]

Is the girl hot?

 

[Ben Urich]

If he isn't ready, he should share his concerns with her in a calm, mature fashion. If she can't handle holding off for a while then she wasn't worth marrying anyway.

 

[Mr Sparkle]

LOL, I thought GA had made a thread about ED.

 

[Tyrinus]

She's too young to understand what a marriage takes, they'll just end up divorced shortly. People rush into marriage without thinking far too often.

 

[Ben Urich]

LOL, I thought GA had made a thread about ED.

Maybe he needs a girlshapedlovedrug?

 

[Duende Verde]

LOL, I thought GA had made a thread about ED.

 

[Ben Urich]

Duende Verde with impeccable timing, as always.

 

[Duende Verde]

Duende Verde with impeccable timing, as always.

I try my best.

Forgot to mention, the title of the thread sounds like a bad Borat impersonation.

[borat]This suit is black not[/borat]

 

[\S/JcDc\S/]

 

[ScottyBBadd]

so i have a friend of mine who has a girlfriend who wants to get married shes 19 and he's 23. he says he does'nt feel mature or stable enough to want to get married yet, but she keeps bringing up the issue. She also keeps bring up her friends who are like 18 and 19 who are also getting married in 2009. He feels like he's getting pressured but at the sametime does'nt want to lose his girlfriend. do you guys think he should just wise up and marry her?


have any of you been in this situation before?

No, not really.

 

[heypapajinx]

god i hate to tell you this, but i have a LOT of friends who married at 18, 19, 20.... you know what?
they're all divorced now.
and some have kids now with an ex-wife/husband they used to really care about and be friends with, but now can't stand.
you can't comprehend "forever" at that age.
cynical maybe, but true.
tell your friend to wait.
and if they still want to get married when she turns 21 and knows what it is to "be free" and go out clubbing and mingle THEN they might make it.

 

[Assassin]

How many kids do you have again jinxie?

 

[heypapajinx]

How many kids do you have again jinxie?

none.
i can't have children.

 

[M@ssEffect]

If she cant understand how the hombre feels then she doesnt need to be with him. Love is about compensation. And if she does not love him enough to wait for him, then tell the ***** to eat a dick and gets ta steppin'

 

[heypapajinx]

then tell the ***** to eat a dick and gets ta steppin'

hmmm... well, even if she WOULD wait for him, i think after potty talk like that she may not be so inclined to.

 

[M@ssEffect]

Hush. You love it when I talk dirty.

 

[heypapajinx]

Hush. You love it when I talk dirty.

uhhhmm.. i think you have me confused with your mother.
OHHHHHH!!!

you need some iccce for that burrrn baby!?

 

[M@ssEffect]

My mother is a crack head who suffers from compulsive lying. I havent seen the ***** in over 20 years.

I wouldnt know what she loves.


But I know what every female loves. And thats me.

 

[heypapajinx]

My mother is a crack head who suffers from compulsive lying. I havent seen the ***** in over 20 years.

I wouldnt know what she loves.


But I know what every female loves. And thats me.

you haven't seen her in over 20 years?
so there's a possibility that you don't even know what she looks like now?
then maybe you HAVE talked dirty to her and just didn't know it WAS her!!
DUN DUN DUNNNNNN!
and the plot thickens.

 

[M@ssEffect]

i know what she looks like. I tried to put a hit out on her.

 

[Hades]

i know what she looks like. I tried to put a hit out on her.

Lol, I thought I had problems

 

[Super_Child]

She most likely isn't ready either. She is 19 and probably just in love with the idea of having a wedding day. No way can she be mature enough for a marraige yet.

 

[heypapajinx]

i know what she looks like. I tried to put a hit out on her.

hmmm.
i'll do it for $750 and a bag full of white castle burgers.

Lol, I thought I had problems

don't kid yourself darlin.
you do.