Speaking From The Heart

[Taiwarriorz21]

Why do women keep things hidden inside and don't talk about them, until the worst time? I dont know why they just cant vocalize themselves so issues won't come up. Just speak from you heart and let me know how you truly feel...that's what I say. I say I'll give you sometime and we'll talk about it later on...And later on never comes...Things shouldn't be put away, but dealt with so things dont get worst...It eats me up inside daily not being able to pour out my heart to her, but I'm not going to go out of my way to do it anymore, if tried enough...Oh well I guess screw it!

 

[Abaddon]

it's not a woman thing, it's a people thing.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

This thread strikes me as incredibly odd since Guys usually are attached with the stigma of not talking about their feelings and bottling them up inside until they come out at inopportune moments (I would have some *ahem* "personal experience" with this). Women, on the other hand, I find have no problem "vocalizing themselves". In fact they are usually the ones who want to have open and frank discussions about their feelings (our feelings) when I couldn't give a rats ass at the moment because...well...I don't want too.

So honestly I don't know what women you're hanging around.

 

[NewYorkSpider]

As i got halfway through reading that, I couldn't help but notice Abaddon's avatar.

 

[PWN3R]

My little lady lump?

 

[ShadowBoxing]

it's not a woman thing, it's a people thing.

I would have to agree with this. It's also a perspective thing. Feelings just seem to come out at the worst possible moments because we are only going to have emotional outbursts during moments of stress.

 

[Taiwarriorz21]

I would have to agree with this. It's also a perspective thing. Feelings just seem to come out at the worst possible moments because we are only going to have emotional outbursts during moments of stress.

yep. i've been patience with her, but I have about 4 other girls that want to hook up with me...I really dont want any of them but her. The 4 girls are mighty good-looking but my heart goes out to her only. Time can only tell us if we were always "meant to be".

 

[Erzengel]

Dude, on the off chance you are being on the up and up about this.

There are 3 important parts of a relationship, communication, honesty and intimacy. If this broad, isn't being the first 2 and you have repeatedly tried then you have to do what makes you happy and move on.

 

[SoulManX]

Dude, on the off chance you are being on the up and up about this.

There are 3 important parts of a relationship, communication, honesty and intimacy. If this broad, isn't being the first 2 and you have repeatedly tried then you have to do what makes you happy and move on.

Aye he's right

 

[Kyalesyin]

I don't have a problem with vocalising exactly how I feel. Sadly, it either tends to offend people, upset people, or earn me a punch.

Mayhap Tai she just doesn't want to hurt your loser feelings because she can't bear the thought of an almost grown man crying.

 

[AllThingsComic]

I "think" what he's trying to get at is, when you know something is wrong with your lady, you know for sure, but when you ask she says oh nothing. It's like oh come on, I think I know you well enough to tell that something is wrong. Don't insult my intelligence.

 

[SoulManX]

I don't have a problem with vocalising exactly how I feel. Sadly, it either tends to offend people, upset people, or earn me a punch.

Mayhap Tai she just doesn't want to hurt your loser feelings because she can't bear the thought of an almost grown man crying.

Nice way to rub salt into the wound

 

[Kyalesyin]

I "think" what he's trying to get at is, when you know something is wrong with your lady, you know for sure, but when you ask she says oh nothing. It's like oh come on, I think I know you well enough to tell that something is wrong. Don't insult my intelligence.

I have never had that problem, with myself or my wife. We have something to say, we both say it there and then, smash a few plates, throw a few things, and then talk about it like adults.

I don't understand why people don't do that more often.

 

[Kyalesyin]

Nice way to rub salt into the wound

Thanks. I try.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

I "think" what he's trying to get at is, when you know something is wrong with your lady, you know for sure, but when you ask she says oh nothing. It's like oh come on, I think I know you well enough to tell that something is wrong. Don't insult my intelligence.

I always find the opposite, that people like to talk about themselves.

 

[Halcohol]

I have never had that problem, with myself or my wife. We have something to say, we both say it there and then, smash a few plates, throw a few things, and then talk about it like adults.

I don't understand why people don't do that more often.

Plates are expensive.

 

[AllThingsComic]

I have never had that problem, with myself or my wife. We have something to say, we both say it there and then, smash a few plates, throw a few things, and then talk about it like adults.

I don't understand why people don't do that more often.

I completely agree, but unfortunately, your situation is more often not the norm, if it were the world would be a better place! lol

 

[Kyalesyin]

Plates are expensive.

12p each in Wilkos
5p each in my local charity shop
£3 for a set at asda.

What, you think we ever smash the good ones?

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

Taiwarrior
Speaking from the Heart












lol

 

[Erzengel]

Now I know that Tai has a heart....cause it's breaking.

 

[jaguarr]

Taiwarrior
Speaking from the Heart

That sounds like one of those new-agey book readings at Borders.

jag

 

[Mee]

Daggum women!

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

That sounds like one of those new-agey book readings at Borders.

I know.
It's a self help book about how men can cope with how they just want to talk things out and share their emotions but darn women just clam up and bottle everything.

X 1,538

 

[Kyalesyin]

To be fair, I think most of us can guess at the kind of advice Tai would be giving his women...

*clears the floor for a better Tai impersonater*

 

[Erzengel]

Tai doesn't need this sh't.....he's got 4 girls on the side waiting to hook up with him.