Yeah, that doesn't make any sense. People are loners for a reason, and this isn't covered in the film. He's not a loner at home- he has a relationship with Ben and May. He doesn't have anything to be awkward about. And he clearly wants to reach out- thus why he defends the kid that Flash is tormenting- the basketball thing is in response to Flash's messing up the girl's photo. Peter engages in extra-curricular things like taking photos for the debate team and other things. He's not a loner.
How about the fact that he's an orphan? That he lives with his aunt and uncle? That he probably doesn't have as much money as his classmates? Or, again, the fact that he's
socially awkward. Watch his interaction with the girl who wants pictures of her boyfriend's car. He has no idea how to handle himself around girls, or really anyone.
The fact that they don't show her with any friends. No friends are with her at her father's funeral supporting her. She mentions teachers being there, but no friends.
"Everyone was there. Everyone but you." She makes a point of saying that
even Flash came, suggesting that people who aren't that close to her came out to support her. Or should we have thrown in a scene of Gwen laughing it up with her friends, just to help you believe she has any?
Yeah, actually I could. If she shows the kind of concern that Gwen is showing. If she stares into your eyes as Gwen was doing, if she clearly has the "I dig you" expression on her face- if she lets Peter slide on the Oscorp breach as she does, then yeah you'd have to be comatose not to tell.
Well, good for you, but I guarantee that's
not the case for most guys that age - especially guys like Peter Parker. I think you're being unrealistic about Peter's social prowess.
Nope. There's a second encounter between Peter and Gwen when he puts seeing her off and it has nothing to do with Ben. Then- based on Gwen's reaction to Ben's death, she'd clearly be the perfect person to be with as he mourned. It's not like they were going to go dancing or something. They could've just gone somewhere to talk.
When? As far as I remember (and I could be wrong), the only time he sees her after Ben's death is when she hugs him. The next time they meet is when she invites him to dinner.
So do the vampires in the idiotic Twilight films. Yet they're kinda dangerous.
Really? What should she do? Bring him into OsCorp, run a full body scan, check his vitals? He looks human, he acts human, and Spider-Man (from the videos) does, too. There's no reason for her to jump right to the, "Ah! You're a monster!" conclusion.
I think you didn't see the movie at all. MJ doesn't know he's Spider-Man and says that she- to her own surprise- was thinking of Peter and NOT Spider-Man even though Spider-Man is the guy who saves her life.
Yes,
to her own surprise. As in, for the entire length of the movie, Spider-Man was the man she pined after. It was only when her life was in jeopardy that she thought of Peter Parker. Even up to the hospital scene, she's concerned with what
Spider-Man thinks of her. It's only when Peter offers his own opinion that she realizes he's a viable candidate.
Uh.. Right. And his admitting to being this guy with weird and dangerous abilities would definitely change the dynamics of their relationship. A guy simply on steroids can turn from Mr. Nice Guy to a viscious killer. Curt Connors turns from Gwen's mentor to the creature that murders her father. How can Gwen be sure at that point that Peter isn't dangerous?
Because
at that point, no one has seen the Lizard yet. (If you're referring to the revelation on the rooftop.) Again, you must have a
really hard time trusting people if your first conclusion is always, "He might be dangerous." She's known Peter (presumably) for a long time. Finding out he has superpowers isn't going to instantly destroy that trust.