The Lord of the Advice: The Two Towering Relationships thread

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[SuperSoldier985]

Still forever alone...

 

[WillardNation]

So what's the new title gonna be?

 

[Anubis]

Lord of the Advice: The Two boners.

 

[WillardNation]

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Lord of the Advice: The Two boners.

So this is the gay relationship advice thread now?

 

[Anita18]

So this is the gay relationship advice thread now?

I'm not complaining.

 

[Anubis]

It's either that or the Two Losers.

The Two Lovers would be sappy as hell.

No, Two Boners works. Cuz crossing swords just......fits.

 

[Erzengel]

Lord of the Advice: The Two Towering Relationships? The Two Towering Boners?

I'm not sure if "boners" is too PG-13 for this site.

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

I kind of like "The Two Lovers"

 

[Lobo]

The Two Sexes
The Two Genders (more pg)

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

Lord of the Relationships: The Two Genders.

 

[SpaceWay2009]

Question: If there was a girl you like, but she has like 4 other guys trying to pursue her, would you waste your time, knowing that there might be a chance that you won't be the one she chooses?

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

Question: If there was a girl you like, but she has like 4 other guys trying to pursue her, would you waste your time, knowing that there might be a chance that you won't be the one she chooses?

Sure. Why not? It's not like she's property. All is fair in love and war after all. In reality she's always choosing because you honestly can't know what her options are.

 

[SpaceWay2009]

lol Good answer, Prime. But still, wouldn't you still be kind of worried/sad that you won't be the guy she wants to be with, even though she claims she likes you, but she's just undecided.

 

[Erzengel]

No.

1. I have healthy self esteem.

2. If that was girl was that flighty to begin with, it's no big loss.

 

[SpaceWay2009]

No.

1. I have healthy self esteem.

2. If that was girl was that flighty to begin with, it's no big loss.

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

lol Good answer, Prime. But still, wouldn't you still be kind of worried/sad that you won't be the guy she wants to be with, even though she claims she likes you, but she's just undecided.

No, not at all. I'm rejected all the time without even realizing it. You don't lose anything by being rejected, not even necessarily the chance at that changing, as long as that person isn't dead and you're not a necrophiliac. Twelve no's and a yes, still a yes. Then the other side is if she does reject you and that's it then you're basically where you're at now. Insecure people often confuse failure with like losing points in a video game. Sonic loses his rings, now at zero and if one more monkey turds on him he dies. So in economic terms trying is a good gamble. So you have nothing to worry about. If you lose you lose nothing. Things remain relatively the same. If not then you "get" a girl and the other four guys likely just start pursuing other chicks. So, like I say, I don't see what their is to worry about. She could even go with one of those four then decide not and go with you just because you showed interest before. So again, just seems like no biggie to me.

 

[SpaceWay2009]

No, not at all. I'm rejected all the time without even realizing it. You don't lose anything by being rejected, not even necessarily the chance at that changing, as long as that person isn't dead and you're not a necrophiliac. Twelve no's and a yes, still a yes. Then the other side is if she does reject you and that's it then you're basically where you're at now. Insecure people often confuse failure with like losing points in a video game. Sonic loses his rings, now at zero and if one more monkey turds on him he dies. So in economic terms trying is a good gamble. So you have nothing to worry about. If you lose you lose nothing. Things remain relatively the same. If not then you "get" a girl and the other four guys likely just start pursuing other chicks. So, like I say, I don't see what their is to worry about. She could even go with one of those four then decide not and go with you just because you showed interest before. So again, just seems like no biggie to me.

I see with what you're saying. However, about that last statement you made. Would you personally say yes if she did do that? So she chose the other guy over you, but then ultimately decide to come back to you. Would you say yes, even though it'll seem like you're the second option or "rebound/back-up" guy?

 

[amazingfantasy15]

I see with what you're saying. However, about that last statement you made. Would you personally say yes if she did do that? So she chose the other guy over you, but then ultimately decide to come back to you. Would you say yes, even though it'll seem like you're the second option or "rebound/back-up" guy?

Well the key thing would be that she ended it, that means she realized he wasn't the right guy. Dating is ultimately interviewing for a job, people will get interviewed because they look good on paper, but they won't always be suitable for the job so more interviews with other candidates may be required

 

[SpaceWay2009]

Haha great analogy, AmazingFantasy15.

 

[Anita18]

Well the key thing would be that she ended it, that means she realized he wasn't the right guy. Dating is ultimately interviewing for a job, people will get interviewed because they look good on paper, but they won't always be suitable for the job so more interviews with other candidates may be required

In my first relationship, I constantly worried since I wasn't his "first choice." It's really stupid.

So the other guy dresses better, but he's a jerk in private. Any sane woman wouldn't want to stay with him. And then you wouldn't be her "second choice," just "new first choice." At least until you turn out to be a jerk in private or if you don't jive personality-wise.

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

I see with what you're saying. However, about that last statement you made. Would you personally say yes if she did do that? So she chose the other guy over you, but then ultimately decide to come back to you. Would you say yes, even though it'll seem like you're the second option or "rebound/back-up" guy?

You're typically someone's sloppy seconds whether you know the guy or not. I'm not looking for virgins, sexually inactive people AND it's not like I'm any different. So yeah I'd probably say yes.

 

[Anita18]

You're typically someone's sloppy seconds whether you know the guy or not. I'm not looking for virgins, sexually inactive people AND it's not like I'm any different. So yeah I'd probably say yes.

Well, let's face it, every girl's first choice IS Johnny Depp.