So been dating a girl for around the last 6 months but obviously not saw each other in person since March. We had 3 full dates before lockdown but kept in touch after and spoke pretty much everyday.
Things were going well until about 2 weeks ago when she mentioned the L word and how she was falling that way for me. I just didn't feel the same but tried see if things would change over another week or 2. They didn't and I tried to end it with her but she wasn't taking it in a good way. I tried to keep in touch to help and answer questions, etc, and then lost my patience Sunday night when I was drunk and we got into a bit of a fight. I didn't swear or anything at her, but I said some quite cutting things and immediately apologised when I woke up the next day. We then ended things permanently last night. And it was quite amicable all things considered.
But it's one of the hardest things I have ever gone through. Making someone cry and be so upset, and knowing I am the reason for it is killing me. I know I did the right thing as I couldn't have her falling in love with me when I didn't feel the same, but I just feel like an awful person right now.
In the past I have always been the dumpee rather than the dumper. But experiencing doing it has been horrific and something I never want to go through again.
All I want to do is message her and check she is okay, but I know that won't help her move on. I couldn't be one of those people who do these things regularly that's for sure.
Not asking for advice or anything, just forewarning people on here like me who have never had to do it before. Prepare yourself if you do.