If you want to PM me your profile, I can give you a few pointers. Obviously I don't stand for all women (and Erz suggests I've got atypical tastes), but at least it's
a woman's POV, right?
I've also got an overly attuned "lizard brain" thanks to paranoid parents. Any bit of creep that I sense in a message or even during chat, off to the trash bin!
In a month or two (if I keep weightlifting), I could probably carry my husband out of a house fire.
He's not a very intimidating guy.
I never put any of those things in my profile. Creeps don't know they're creeps, or they don't care. Easy enough to delete them or block them online.
A lot of people don't photograph well. I probably come off a lot more intimidating in real life than I do in photographs. That, plus being a girl on an online dating site in itself, probably accounts for 99% of the reason why I get more attention online than I do offline.