uh...yea

[Snipershot]

i am still very good friends with my most recent ex. i still love her, but she loves me like a brother, nothing more. i am a bit upset about it, and it has been like this for a few months....

 

[Snipershot]

anybody have any real ideas, no flaming?

 

[Mee]

Not much you can do. Be there for her, wait it out, don't blow it.


If all else fails there's always suicide.

 

[mightiest_mortal]

ummm sounds like youve probably just gotta try to learn to move on. Might be best to distance yourself from her for a while, even if you want to be good friends, just to give you a bit of time away from her.

 

[Strange]

How close is she to her brother, maybe there is still and in for you.

 

[Snipershot]

ummm sounds like youve probably just gotta try to learn to move on. Might be best to distance yourself from her for a while, even if you want to be good friends, just to give you a bit of time away from her.

well, moving on has been quite a bit harder then i had hoped, and i want to try and distance myself, i just dont know how long i will b able to hold out

 

[Snipershot]

How close is she to her brother, maybe there is still and in for you.

my bro is 11

 

[Badger]

Move on, start dating someone else. If she still has feeling for you, you'll be able to tell. If she doesn't, well you've moved on.

 

[Hades]

Kill her. Place her head on a pike in front of your house.

A warning for all future girlfriends not to dump you, or treat yo wit disrapect

 

[Snipershot]

Kill her. Place her head on a pike in front of your house.

A warning for all future girlfriends not to dump you, or treat yo wit disrapect

thank you for completely disregardeing my request of no stupid or non-serious answers

 

[Hades]

thank you for completely disregardeing my request of no stupid or non-serious answers

Oh, but I am serious young one.

I am.

 

[Snipershot]

and thats sad

 

[tzarinna]

It's only been a few months it's all so close and dear to your heart. It takes some time. Eventually you'll be able to move on,there's a healing process and it's different for everyone.

 

[Snipershot]

k, thats good. but i know its BAD to tell myself this, but i dont wanna get over her. i love her

 

[FRUITY]

If you're not ready to get yourself out there yet, I suggest try and keep yourself occupied with activities or work. Whatever helps you keep your mind off from it. It takes time to move on like Tza said.

 

[tzarinna]

That's good that you hold no ill will towards her,this may change. I have no idea how old you are. Been there and done that,a few too many times.

 

[Snipershot]

im 15

 

[heypapajinx]

the only way to really get over someone is to have sex with someone else... and the sex has to be good. better than it was with the other person, otherwise it doesn't work

 

[Strange]

the only way to really get over someone is to have sex with someone else... and the sex has to be good. better than it was with the other person, otherwise it doesn't work

If you have enough bad sex eventually you will forget all about the good sex.

 

[FRUITY]

You'll get over her. Someone will come along and your heart will shift places.

 

[tzarinna]

Aww,15.Man I remember. You're whole world is crashing down around you,right? Hang out with your buddies,remain occupied. It will be okay.

 

[heypapajinx]

If you have enough bad sex eventually you will forget all about the good sex.

yeah! because you'll kill yourself.

seriously, i want to say that everything will be fine, but the truth is, everything just takes time. look... it's been over 7 months and i'm still not over MY ex.
of course when HE left he took my soul with him, but whatever.

 

[tzarinna]

Did we date the same guy?
It's been a year.

 

[heypapajinx]

Did we date the same guy?
It's been a year.

haha! that is QUITE possible.
except that would have meant that he was cheating on me with you, we were together 3.


well, were we!?!?!?!?!

:heart:

 

[tzarinna]

Oh yeah that rotten bastard had another chick on the side.