''um I not sure , but did I just pay for sex'' ?

[Kaleb]

Does anybody think this after they date a guy/girl and take them to a movie , buy them popcorn and go out for a meal . and it ends with a happy ending.

 

[roach]

we all pay for sex....some of it isnt as overt as prostitution....but we all pay for it

 

[Danalys]

hang over from the days when women didn't have any money. i go half and half on stuff and get a happy ending. if they've had far more money than me they've bought me a drink without reciprocation monetary wise.

 

[Rambo, John J]

Interesting. While i've never thought about it as bluntly as that, I wonder about guys who constantly buy their girlfriends things. Things like jewellery, clothes etc. I would say up to a point they're genuine gifts of affection and tokens of love but at what stage do they become the symbolisation of the guy saying 'i'm not sure if you like me for me, so i'll buy you lots of things to ensure you stick around'?

 

[Kaleb]

Id really like to hear a girls view on this.

 

[roach]

The rule of thumb is the person asking has to pay. However being the good(read:devious) guy that I am I usually pay and be all impressive and ****.

 

[Danalys]

well it is a way to show your hard working nature. if you think that they have worked for hours to be able to pay for the things they buy. and if it's something the woman wants. then that shows that you have been paying attention to part of their character.

 

[Joe Kerr]

Id really like to hear a girls view on this.

psssshhh good luck...

 

[blind_fury]

Does anybody think this after they date a guy/girl and take them to a movie , buy them popcorn and go out for a meal . and it ends with a happy ending.

Try being a prostitute for a week then tell me there's no difference.

 

[roach]

Try being a prostitute for a week then tell me there's no difference.

where'd this come from

 

[Danalys]

the book of clever responses to silly questions?

 

[Axid]

That book sucks

 

[Kaleb]

george bush has my copy

 

[Danalys]

i thought he had the book of silly responses to clever questions.

 

[Axid]

"If you wanna be happy.....

 

[Axid]

Jesus Christ the song just came on in the cafeteria

 

[Ronny Shade]

Um. Yeah. This has never happened to me.


.....b-because I never pay for girls, yeah. Yeah, that's it

 

[Danalys]

you pay for men instead?

 

[Erzengel]

Just for clarifcation isn't a happy ending in reference to a hand job so essentially Kaleb is saying he paid for one?

 

[Ronny Shade]

you pay for men instead?

sigh *drinks scotch*

 

[Danalys]

soz mate.

 

[Zaed]

we all pay for sex....some of it isnt as overt as prostitution....but we all pay for it

Bingo! We have a Winnah!

 

[Ronny Shade]

we all pay for sex....some of it isnt as overt as prostitution....but we all pay for it

not if you never have sex

 

[Ahura Mazda]

Well I kind of Dissociate the invitiation to dinner and such to the acts of sexual nature even though there is often a correlation between the two. I will generally always pay when I am with a lady, be it my mother, a girlfreind, just a freind or even just somebody I just met only because that is the way I was brought up. However, apart from how I may be attracted to someone, the reasons she is attracted to me will determine whether what has happenned can be compared to services paid directly as you seem to infer.

 

[Kaleb]

Just for clarifcation isn't a happy ending in reference to a hand job so essentially Kaleb is saying he paid for one?

oh I did not know that