Well got a girl pregnent

misternorth79 said:
I have not had any pregnancy scares before in my life.....I'm not even sure what I would do if I did have one.

I would just make sure she is pregnant, and get a DNA test if she's saying its yours.

Uh... if you're fairly certain it's yours, or if she's admitted it's from an earlier relationship... why not just be supportive and helpful? Is it not noble to help the damn kid?:confused:
 
Doomed_hero said:
Yep, I got a girl pregnent and I have no idea what I am gonna do. We where safe and everything and she was my first. Now I am frightened cause I dont have the money or means to support her and a child right now. Plus my parents reactions. My life has just changed so fast and i dont know what to do. Just had to write it somewhere cause IO needed to get it out

Also, how long does it take a girl to know she is pregnent, cause this only took 2 days.

No way is she pregnant to you if you only had sex 48 hours ago. She must think you're simple to fall for it.
Question her, and I bet she backs down.

Also, next time WEAR A CONDOM!
 
Anguissette1979 said:
I'm sorry that some women are evil and I apologize on behalf of those of us who aren't. :(

My ass, I know you're evil. At least one half of you is anyway.....
 
Gerodie, I think he was. He says in his second sentence that they were safe and everything.....then again...they could have been having sex on home-plate.
 
geordie_batfan said:
My ass, I know you're evil. At least one half of you is anyway.....

Ok... ok... I'm not *that* kind of evil. Naughty evil? Yes. Manipulative and deceitful evil? Never.

;)
 
JLBats said:
Uh... if you're fairly certain it's yours, or if she's admitted it's from an earlier relationship... why not just be supportive and helpful? Is it not noble to help the damn kid?:confused:

You can be noble, but sometimes, being noble can get you hurt, even when you have good intentions. Sometimes, you just gotta know.
 
regwec said:
Oh great. The ******s are breeding.

Is that necessary? If this is indeed a serious situation, the last thing this kid needs is someone calling him ******ed. Just an observation man.
 
misternorth79 said:
You can be noble, but sometimes, being noble can get you hurt, even when you have good intentions. Sometimes, you just gotta know.

I think there's a bit of misogyny that comes from men whenever a pregnant woman is involved. They seem to instantly think the woman is always looking for a father for her child. It's like they presume becoming pregnant suddenly turns you into some sort of evil, self-serving alien being.
 
If I was a female and had the responsibility of a human life, I would be looking for the father (actual father) as well.
 
misternorth79 said:
If I was a female and had the responsibility of a human life, I would be looking for the father (actual father) as well.

Yeah, but I mean when men seem to have this suspiscion of all pregnant women, particularly the single ones.

Ah, whatever. I need to get out more:(:):O:mad:
 
If Doomed explained it differently(such as they had had unprotected sex for quite a while or even once in the past month) I would agree with you Bats, but ONCE 2 days ago? C'mon there is no way unless she has CSI in her closet she could possibly know that fast. I don't think this poor kid should be worrying like he is already about something that might not even be his concern.
 
Geeks from the hype are having sex? When did this start happening? :confused:
 
Doomed_hero said:
Yep, I got a girl pregnent and I have no idea what I am gonna do. We where safe and everything and she was my first. Now I am frightened cause I dont have the money or means to support her and a child right now. Plus my parents reactions. My life has just changed so fast and i dont know what to do. Just had to write it somewhere cause IO needed to get it out

Also, how long does it take a girl to know she is pregnent, cause this only took 2 days.


My first question is,.. how old are you and how old is she?

Secondly, I'm a father of two girls, and both situations took weeks before we even suspected we were pregnant. So if it's only been two days since you had sex,.. I'd be cautious. It doesn't mean the girl's evil or anything, but just be careful. I wouldn't be disrespectful to ask for a paternity test in this situation, but keep in mind that if it is yours,... it's your responsibility to take care of it. If it isn't, then it's up to you what you want to do, you have no obligations. It's frightening knowing that your life's going to change,.... but take it from one with personal experience,... the change is for the better. My kids are the best things ever to happen to me.
 
the day my ex told me she thought she was knocked up... I told her it would be alright.. after she left I went to the corner of my apartment and crouched in the corner crying.

Up till the day she got tested and was found negative.... I had dreams of baby cribs flooding my apartment.... how I'd have to give up going out with my friends, how I'd HAVE TO come home every day, how the GF would suck as a mother.

Thank god she was crazy... after that day I think we went back to using condoms...psh.. it was long ago.
 
has it been two days since you last had sex? did you ever have sex BEFORE that? cause it could be from one of those times

if you haven't she's lying, or mistaken and overreacting
 
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Wait a minute :confused:
My girlfriend took a shower at my house after my room mate and since he had abused himself in the shower she got pregnant and we knew like, within the hour.
 
Sounds like a scam, this looks like a job for Maury.
 
Guys I got preganant by peanut butter!!! HELLO freakin skippy with nuts!
 
Put down the Butter knife and step away fron the skippy!!
 

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