Were you ever betrayed by a good friend or family member?

[blind_fury]

My half-sister owes me 4,000 bucks. She hasn't called me in over 9 months.

 

[Darthphere]

Thats not a betrayal, thats smart business.

 

[blind_fury]

No. It's stealing from a family member.

 

[Darthphere]

No, not really. Im guessing you never set a timetable for paying you back. Your fault.

 

[Darthphere]

This reminds me of a policy I have "Never lend people money, and expect them to pay you back."

 

[blind_fury]

No, not really. Im guessing you never set a timetable for paying you back. Your fault.

I don't think a timetable matters if the person never plans on paying you back.

My mistake was not going through a bank to make the loan formal. I didn't realize when you lend someone a large some of money, no matter who it is, you go through a bank. That way they're legally obligated to pay you back.

 

[tzarinna]

To the thread title.

Um,yeah,it's why I spend way too much time here.

 

[hippy fascist]

"Neither a borrower nor a lender be; / For loan oft loseth both itself and friend. / And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry."--Shakespeare

 

[Revolver_Ocelot]

Nah, my friends and family are pretty good.

But I did let some dip**** borrow Age of Empires 2 in 8th grade and he never gave it back

 

[Sofa]

I don't think a timetable matters if the person never plans on paying you back.

My mistake was not going through a bank to make the loan formal. I didn't realize when you lend someone a large some of money, no matter who it is, you go through a bank. That way they're legally obligated to pay you back.

You understand it now.

Took you the hard way though.

 

[Dorian Gray]

Family members? No...well My Half-Brother hates me immensely, not exaclty sure why(but I don't think that counts as betrayal)

I had a g/f(It was partialy my fault because I made a bad decsion by dating her) who cheated on me. Yet, I never took it to heart because it was only a week relationship.

As for friends, none of them betrayd me.........yet.

 

[blind_fury]

"Neither a borrower nor a lender be; / For loan oft loseth both itself and friend. / And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry."--Shakespeare
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"And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry"?

What the hell does that mean?

 

[Sofa]

Means burrowing a man on the side for a quickie is bad bad bad..
I dont freakin know. :

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

Means burrowing a man on the side for a quickie is bad bad bad..
I dont freakin know. :

you should tho.

 

[Sofa]

I frankly dont care.

 

[hippy fascist]

"And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry"?

What the hell does that mean?

It means women don't want a debt ridden loser.

No I do'nt want no scrub scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me.

 

[AndThePickles]

Oh, I've definitely been betrayed by friends before.....one of the more memorable instances occurred my freshman year of college. I thought this one girl was my best friend, but when I broke up with my bf at the time it turned out she'd just been using me to go to parties and sleep with my ex's friend who lived in his apartment. She basically just stopped talking to me, and when I finally got her to say something, her excuse was that "I tried to act black" so she stopped being friends with me. I like to dance and my boyfriend is black, sorry you racist betch

 

[Arkady Rossovich]

Thank god i dont have any siblings or cousins.No,nothing like betrayal has ever happened to me.But i have heard stories..

 

[Batty for Bats!]

I went through a "growing apart" with some friends. I wanted some stuff back, they said I could have. I said no such thing. So while they were out. I busted in their pad, got my **** back. They came over (thinking that I stole it - rightfully so) and they saw the tv I just yanked. Then I told them that I bought a new one because they never returned my old one. I'm a stinker.

 

[Kipobe]

My half-sister owes me 4,000 bucks. She hasn't called me in over 9 months.

Your sister is my hero. Haha.

 

[Harlekin]

My half-sister owes me 4,000 bucks. She hasn't called me in over 9 months.

You know what you do? You call her. Seriously, she's family. Lest we also forget, it takes quite a bit of time to be able to cough up 4,000 bucks. 9 months is semi-reasonable. Betrayal would be if she called and said: "You ain't never getting this back."

 

[HellOnEarth]

Haha, dumbass lol!

 

[Sloth7d]

My sister literally tried to kill me several times before. But I don't consider it a betrayal. For it to be a betrayal, I would have to expect her not to kill me.

 

[blind_fury]

Your sister is my hero. Haha.

Let me guess. You have picture of Hitler over your bed.

 

[blind_fury]

Haha, dumbass lol!

Yeah I'm a dumbass. I had compassion for my sister when she told me she was close to being evicted and losing all her stuff. Yeah, I should be ashamed of myself.