Here's what makes this Spider-Man situation sad:
Spider-Man needs Marvel, but Marvel doesn't need Spider-Man (at least not in terms of movies).
Marvel found a way to dominate the film industry without Spider-Man, the X-Men, or the Fantastic Four under their cinematic banner, and they've made it work to the point that they were able to showcase Batroc The Leaper (making him look like a badass in the process) in the highest grossing superhero film this year!
Look at what they did in the most recent half season of Agents Of S.H.I.E.L.D.
They made Skye into Quake, and they made Quake an Inhuman! That's freaking awesome!
If Marvel gets their hands on Spider-Man, he won't even be the best part of the package. Villains like Venom and Carnage will.