Why is the sex so important?

[Tangled Web]

Obviously, sex is a big part of a young man's motivation. We all want it. But does it always have to be the motivation for all of our actions? Earlier I was talking with my friend about a girl I like. He asks about how much sex I want from it.
Really, I don't want any sex from it. I don't care. I like her for who she is.

Is this a sign of growing up?

 

[OverMyHead]

*golf clap*

 

[black_dust]

Nar just shows your mate has a one track mind

 

[heypapajinx]

Obviously, sex is a big part of a young man's motivation. We all want it. But does it always have to be the motivation for all of our actions? Earlier I was talking with my friend about a girl I like. He asks about how much sex I want from it.
Really, I don't want any sex from it. I don't care. I like her for who she is.

Is this a sign of growing up?

no. it's a sign that you've finally realized you're gay so of COURSE you don't want sex with her... you want sex with your friend.

plus, aren't you in high school!?!?
you should be so filled with sexual hormones you're humping trees and fire hydrants on your way home!!!

 

[Ghostvirus]

Obviously, sex is a big part of a young man's motivation. We all want it. But does it always have to be the motivation for all of our actions? Earlier I was talking with my friend about a girl I like. He asks about how much sex I want from it.
Really, I don't want any sex from it. I don't care. I like her for who she is.

Is this a sign of growing up?

Not really a sign so much, as you probably won't be like all these other walking penis's that can be controled by a woman at a wink.

 

[Mr. Credible]

no. it's a sign that you've finally realized you're gay so of COURSE you don't want sex with her... you want sex with your friend.

plus, aren't you in high school!?!?
you should be so filled with sexual hormones you're humping trees and fire hydrants on your way home!!!

you have a terrible habit of making me launch whatever food or drink item may be in my mouth when i read your posts.

but, in all honesty, if you're not wanting to hump this girl, TW, you are either gay, not "sexually" matured (ie: balls haven't dropped) or you're just not attracted to her. simple at that. the fact that you don't want to touch her no-no parts is not a sign of maturity. i'm 23, and i want to get my hands on every ham-wallet i can. it's not something you grow out of, especially not at 9, or however old you are.

 

[Mr. Credible]

Obviously, sex is a big part of a young man's motivation. We all want it. But does it always have to be the motivation for all of our actions? Earlier I was talking with my friend about a girl I like. He asks about how much sex I want from it.
Really, I don't want any sex from it. I don't care. I like her for who she is.

Is this a sign of growing up?

so like, he actually said "how much sex do you want from her, man?!"

like he expected you to say "i want to hit it at least 6 times, bro."

 

[BloodyWolverine]

Couldn't tell you myself for well lets just say i'm likely more holier then any priest in the vatican when it comes to that subject. My opinion is that women want romanced alot more then come and get me big boy but often the case sex seems to make or break a couple for a man generally wanders when he thinks with old one eye. I say charish her your partner more then just sex. Am i wrong ladies would you rather have a man treat you like a queen and romance you instead of the sex thing being the only reason. Seems to me a grand romance would mean better sex.
But what i know .

 

[heypapajinx]

you have a terrible habit of making me launch whatever food or drink item may be in my mouth when i read your posts.

t:
oooo!!! yayyy!!
i hope it was PB&J so that it stuck to your screen and when you went to wipe it off it just got stickier.
that just makes me so happy to hear.:heart:

i'm 23, and i want to get my hands on every ham-wallet i can.

Oh.
My.
Good.
God.
did you actually just say that?!?!?
i just got medium sized spam flavored chuncks in my throat.

"it's what's for dinner... and breakfast... and lunch... because you're ****ing poor".

 

[heypapajinx]

How do you eat ham? Do you eat it by itself,grilled,fried,or other? I ask because I'm asian,and I always thought people just ate it with rice like I do. But then my friend said he just ate it by itself....like a steak or something. I always thought that was weird.

ham!?!? or spam?
because ham i can eat just by itself sure. honey glazed ham around Christmas time. pork chops after i help with the shake and bake?!
but Spam i usually eat WITH things. like eggs. pasta. rice. veggie casserole and what not. <---slurp

 

[yenaled]

It's only important to people not having it.

 

[Babs Gordon]

It's only important to people not having it.

^agreed.

My question for you TW is whether you really are being honest with yourself. Is it that "yes, you'd love to hit it with the time comes but for now you'd just rather not think about that and focus on getting to know her" or is it genuinely that you have no sexual interest in her at all. Because like people above have said if you're not interested in some sexual way (kissing, touching, hand holding, spooning, dry humping or the sex....) then you probably aren't attracted to her right now.

This is funny to talk about because I'm teaching sex ed to my sixth graders. Oh my.

 

[I_Hate_U_All]

Kids get taught the birds and the bees at school nowadays? What's their homework?

 

[Erzengel]

Obviously, sex is a big part of a young man's motivation. We all want it. But does it always have to be the motivation for all of our actions? Earlier I was talking with my friend about a girl I like. He asks about how much sex I want from it.
Really, I don't want any sex from it. I don't care. I like her for who she is.

Is this a sign of growing up?

I usually require a bushel of sex. But that's just me.

 

[Darthphere]

Obviously, sex is a big part of a young man's motivation. We all want it. But does it always have to be the motivation for all of our actions? Earlier I was talking with my friend about a girl I like. He asks about how much sex I want from it.
Really, I don't want any sex from it. I don't care. I like her for who she is.

Is this a sign of growing up?

You have issues man.

 

[Noir]

Obviously, sex is a big part of a young man's motivation. We all want it. But does it always have to be the motivation for all of our actions? Earlier I was talking with my friend about a girl I like. He asks about how much sex I want from it.
Really, I don't want any sex from it. I don't care. I like her for who she is.

Is this a sign of growing up?

...No its a sign your a homosexual.

 

[Machx72]

I actually turned my ex down when she repeatedly pressured me for sex, as I'm more of a, "waiting," kind of person. Besides, even if I had wanted to have sex with her, lord knows what she might have had [she'd been around the block once or twice before coming to me, which I found out while I was dating her, and through my own sister].

Usually it's a telltale sign for me that I know I really respect the girl I like/dated/whatever, is if I'm not constantly thinking about porking her 'til she can't take anymore.

 

[Babs Gordon]

I usually require a bushel of sex. But that's just me.

lmao

 

[fu manchu]

Obviously, sex is a big part of a young man's motivation. We all want it. But does it always have to be the motivation for all of our actions? Earlier I was talking with my friend about a girl I like. He asks about how much sex I want from it.
Really, I don't want any sex from it. I don't care. I like her for who she is.

Is this a sign of growing up?

...No its a sign your a homosexual.

You know how I know you're gay?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=um4eNMYqpFA

 

[Kevin]

Obviously, sex is a big part of a young man's motivation. We all want it. But does it always have to be the motivation for all of our actions? Earlier I was talking with my friend about a girl I like. He asks about how much sex I want from it.
Really, I don't want any sex from it. I don't care. I like her for who she is.

Is this a sign of growing up?

...Your threads are fun. I'm serious.

 

[Babs Gordon]

Kids get taught the birds and the bees at school nowadays? What's their homework?

I got taught the birds and the bees 14 years ago in school too. Now I have that honor. The homework this week is for the boys to think of a question about the female system and vice-versa.

 

[Capt Throbberson]

I got taught the birds and the bees 14 years ago in school too. Now I have that honor. The homework this week is for the boys to think of a question about the female system and vice-versa.

That should be hilarious.

 

[Babs Gordon]

The whole class is pretty hilarious. Me and a co-worker were listing out loud all the horrendous sounding reproductive system related words we could in front of the kids who all shielded their faces in horror, blushing, crying out in agony when my co-worker cried out "Retina!" and all the kids freaked. We had a nice chuckle about that one. The poor, uninformed little buggers.

 

[Tangled Web]

^agreed.

My question for you TW is whether you really are being honest with yourself. Is it that "yes, you'd love to hit it with the time comes but for now you'd just rather not think about that and focus on getting to know her" or is it genuinely that you have no sexual interest in her at all. Because like people above have said if you're not interested in some sexual way (kissing, touching, hand holding, spooning, dry humping or the sex....) then you probably aren't attracted to her right now.

This is funny to talk about because I'm teaching sex ed to my sixth graders. Oh my.

Yeah, that's it.

 

[Babs Gordon]

Then I don't see how that's a bad thing. You sound like you've got your priorities as straight as many girls would like them to be.