It can get really, really complicated, but the important thing to remember - and what I think Anita was getting at - is that viruses, and evolutionary processes in general, are not "forward-thinking," or self-aware.
However, the persistence of a virus (along with those organisms who may be considered truly "alive") depends upon the ability to replicate itself. In the case of a virus which generally kills its host, the ability to transfer itself to new hosts before (or very shortly after) the death of the current host is crucial.
This constitutes a selective pressure, which acts upon viruses as much as it acts upon any truly "living" organism (because they abide by the same basic evolutionary rules). Thus, we might expect some viruses to evolve increased virulence, or increased pathogenicity - especially if they are particularly deadly.
So it may well be that an increased viral load is merely an effect of time (as Anita has said), but that doesn't mean that it hasn't been selected for through the virus' natural history. In that sense, you may be right. The trait of "viral shedding" may indeed be selectively advantageous.
What I think Anita may have taken issue with is wording/phrasing rather than with core concepts. It was probably the word, "desperate." That's what I noticed right away. That implies some level of self-awareness that most wouldn't assign to a virus - least of all a biologist.
But I can't pretend to speak for Anita.