Small governments tend to be weak due to giving too much power to their divisions and horrible mismanagement.
I'm not advocating the existence of no government. I just don't think that the government has the right to put it's nose in the personal and economic affairs of the individual.
This is all a matter of opinion and beleifs and it's kind of hard to change that upon people. I'm most likely not going to get you to change your mind on having a huge government that provides the people with every possible serivce they need and you're most likely not going to change my mind that I beleive that the government should only really do what is necessary and strictly adhere to the Constitution.
Socialist democracys don't meddle in the affairs of individuals. Do you really think Sweden and the Netherlands is like communism?