What do you do if you do not love the girl(boy) who loves you?

First!

 

tell her the truth but be gentle

if you drag it out she'll look back and realise you've been living a charade for a long time

be honest but not brutal.

Look at it this way, say she meets another potential love of her life in the six months while you make your mind up, if she turns that guy down because she thinks you are still in love with her you've just cost a potential chance at REAL happiness, for the sake of avoiding an awkward conversation

That's my take anyway

 

The truth will come out eventually...as a relationship without the love... Will slowly deteriorate over time.

The fact is...that you won't realise what you've got until she's gone...

...and it'll be harder.

Relationships are under appreciated at times and it's not until you're under hard times that you realize where that love is.

Trust me, I know these things.

 

Love is a tangle that is hard to get out of. I would say to save her soul, I would shatter her very core.

In the short term, it may devastate her but in the long run, i think it'd stop her forever having feelings for the person or start blaming herself for why her feelings were reciprocated. It'll leave her a stronger person in the long run...

The other way out of this would be to tell her you're gay, that normally works but you may have to take a winky in your poo poo for the sake of the team.

 

LOL Are you always that melodramatic?

 

YOu're asking a man in his 30s to trust a teenager in the ways of experienced love and relationships?

 

YOu should hear me having a monologue while i wipe my arse after a morning poo.

Spoiler

And here i take the spirit of a dead piece of mother earth, reincarnated as as the most gracious of tools. so unloved, so overlooked, yet so well modelled and irreplaceable in our society, to grace the cheeks of my buttocks and slowly wipe the sticky unwanted poo off my life of my hairy rectum. I hope this poo and paper (and some butt hair) travel on their journy down the toilet together and find meaning in their harmounious lives and realised sometime ago....they were both loved'

 

wtf?????






anyway in my last relationship the girl treated me better than anyone else had and was completely in love with me , i on the other hand cared for her alot and enjoyed her company but at the same was wanted to date other girls . i wasnt in love with her but couldn't break up with her because im an idiot , so i started fights. we eventually broke up and i'm not proud of how i acted . so i say you gotta let her go otherwise your just wasting hers and your own time.

 

quick question ahura, how long have you been seeing this person for?

you might be able to ride the storm a lil bit longer

 

So why is the term 'love' been thrown around if it's only been a couple of months?

 

I avoid those females that get "feelings". Best thing is to not answer their calls or see them in public. It's worked 3 times for me already.

 

Eh, you can't help how you feel.

If you don't feel you're in love with her, then you're not.

I wouldn't be honest with her per se, but I would say something like "I don't see this relationship progressing".

 

You are so screwed....

 

First quit being a coward, secondly tell her. Stringing her along is not cool.

 

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Wasnt being an ass about it btw - its just got to be done. There isnt a good moment, do it tonight. Personal experiance.

 

You might want to do it soon, no sense ruining her Christmas.

 

Hmmm.... Dude, you should totally wait and see what she gives you for christmas first.