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We all know superhero movies can pack a literally powerful punch. But, what superhero film/s wound up meaning more to you than that and why?
As an orphan/adoptee, I always felt alone while growing up because there was no one else "like me." I was a "new beginning" which is beyond scary. My history is a lot like Superman's - orphan sent away from a war torn foreign country and adopted by a loving adoptive family in the United States where I was given a better home. Although I love the life and family I have, I really miss my biological parents a lot. It's really existential and hard to explain but, even though I never met them they are really important to who I am. It's a loss that I saw superheroes going through, it's what made me a comic book fan as a kid. Not their powers. Not the cool toys. Not the action. That they were - like me, and they made it which is really inspiring.
With that in mind:
1) The Amazing Spider-Man 2
This film just beautifully captures a lot of what I've been through emotionally. Webb and Garfield spoke in interviews about doing heavy research into the psychology of orphans and adoptees, including mentioning a text that I really related to 'The Primal Wound,' and it showed. Some scenes like the Aunt May and Peter talking about his parents are really awkward for me to watch because I've lived that and there are several moments like that throughout the whole film. I also loved how Peter and Harry bond over feelings of abandonment, I've similarly made friends with guys from similar backgrounds and have had conversations like the one Peter and Harry have below; plus replace a brief case with just a birth certificate with barely anything at all on it. The whole film spoke to the reason why I've always been drawn to superhero stories - here are guys like me making it through and fighting the good fight.
2) The Man Of Steel
I largely gave the reason for above. It just plays out as a perfect orphan/adoptee movie. Ironically my parents were also afraid that I might not live long for a remarkably similar reason that Martha gives in the scene where they talk about Clark finding his parents. Superman has always meant a lot to me as a foreign adoptee, I love how this film centered around it. Even the smaller details have depth to them that I'm unsure if those who haven't had a similar experience can grasp onto and see such is the message that Zod delivers (stating it that way because most whenever I bring up this subtext to this scene admit to never having thought of it that way before), it's one thing for general audiences but becomes something really poignant and almost like a dagger to the heart when as an foreign adoptee my worst fear is being different, literally not one of "you" despite my best efforts of fitting in (this whole scene basically plays out as a very real nightmare for me):
3) The Dark Knight Rises
While I like Batman Begins the best, the Dark Knight Rises is a very close second largely because of how much I personally related to it. Coincidentally I was also a background actor in one of these scenes which I find remarkably coincidental - the first superhero film to dive into the subject, I somehow wound up in. Blake says it perfectly of why Batman is so cool. He's one of us and that's really inspiring and growing up - you need that.
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What superhero films have effected you on a personal level?
As an orphan/adoptee, I always felt alone while growing up because there was no one else "like me." I was a "new beginning" which is beyond scary. My history is a lot like Superman's - orphan sent away from a war torn foreign country and adopted by a loving adoptive family in the United States where I was given a better home. Although I love the life and family I have, I really miss my biological parents a lot. It's really existential and hard to explain but, even though I never met them they are really important to who I am. It's a loss that I saw superheroes going through, it's what made me a comic book fan as a kid. Not their powers. Not the cool toys. Not the action. That they were - like me, and they made it which is really inspiring.
With that in mind:
1) The Amazing Spider-Man 2
This film just beautifully captures a lot of what I've been through emotionally. Webb and Garfield spoke in interviews about doing heavy research into the psychology of orphans and adoptees, including mentioning a text that I really related to 'The Primal Wound,' and it showed. Some scenes like the Aunt May and Peter talking about his parents are really awkward for me to watch because I've lived that and there are several moments like that throughout the whole film. I also loved how Peter and Harry bond over feelings of abandonment, I've similarly made friends with guys from similar backgrounds and have had conversations like the one Peter and Harry have below; plus replace a brief case with just a birth certificate with barely anything at all on it. The whole film spoke to the reason why I've always been drawn to superhero stories - here are guys like me making it through and fighting the good fight.
2) The Man Of Steel
I largely gave the reason for above. It just plays out as a perfect orphan/adoptee movie. Ironically my parents were also afraid that I might not live long for a remarkably similar reason that Martha gives in the scene where they talk about Clark finding his parents. Superman has always meant a lot to me as a foreign adoptee, I love how this film centered around it. Even the smaller details have depth to them that I'm unsure if those who haven't had a similar experience can grasp onto and see such is the message that Zod delivers (stating it that way because most whenever I bring up this subtext to this scene admit to never having thought of it that way before), it's one thing for general audiences but becomes something really poignant and almost like a dagger to the heart when as an foreign adoptee my worst fear is being different, literally not one of "you" despite my best efforts of fitting in (this whole scene basically plays out as a very real nightmare for me):
3) The Dark Knight Rises
While I like Batman Begins the best, the Dark Knight Rises is a very close second largely because of how much I personally related to it. Coincidentally I was also a background actor in one of these scenes which I find remarkably coincidental - the first superhero film to dive into the subject, I somehow wound up in. Blake says it perfectly of why Batman is so cool. He's one of us and that's really inspiring and growing up - you need that.
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What superhero films have effected you on a personal level?
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