So, I've been watching the show, I was looking forward to it since it was announcedced, and... I don't like it.
I've got a million different little problems with it, but the main issue I have is that the show seems so preoccupied with making sure we know it isn't Zack Snyder, it forgot to figure out what it actually IS. It doesn't have much of an identity of its own, in my opinion. Just vaguely gesturing towards character beats that were earned a lot more effectively in anime like Sailor Moon, and then paying lips service to Superman's morals.
Listen, I want to make one thing clear, I do not like Zack Snyder. Not being Zack Snyder is an important quality that every DC project needs to have. But a story is so much more than what it isn't.
The villains are bland, the changes made to them all feel unmotivated, and the show has a lot of unearned story beats. Lois jumping off the roof to test Clark and being mad he kept secrets from her only works after they've been writing partners for years, not weeks. In such a short time frame, it really makes the character seem unreasonably demanding of the new guy at work she's been flirting with, not rightfully pissed that your writing partner of 5+ years has been keeping the biggest secret in the world from you after you've been through hell together multiple times.
Also, giving Superman a henshin was a mistake. The narrative utility of Superman's costume is how much it humanizes him. His mom made it for him. He wears it under his street clothes all the time. There's something very grounding about those facts.