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venom892 said:I've been a fan for quite a while, Nell. You really need to stop speaking as if you are the voice for an entire group of people. You did this very thing in the wrestling thread and then accused us of bullying you. But the truth is the demeanor of your posts and the authoritative way you word them rubs people the wrong way. Then when you get called out, even by someone not insulting you in any way, you get defensive. You honestly just suck the fun out of conversation. It would be nice if you stopped making blanket statements like all heat fans are bandwagoners.
All I said is that the next "real" Heat fan I meet will be the first.
I take it you at least run background checks on these people before coming to your conclusion, right? I know a great private investigator name J.J. Gittes.Because I've never met a Heat fan that was a fan before LeBron.
Well, I personally think tone can be read for the most part in text and I only bump into you in here so I can't speak for anyone else... But when you build a reputation in the NBA thread of attacking a fanbase or player with no real purpose or depth (unless it's pulled out of you) I'm sure some will want to push back.And where you say I "suck the fun" out of conversation - I have the same conversations, with the same "tone" (as if you can tell tone over text on a screen) on other forums, and with people face to face, and never once have a problem.
Whether it's wrestling, sports, or X-Men, it is literally only THIS FORUM that I have problems with people when I express my opinion. You can say I'm authoritative, but I only talk to people the way they talk to me, and treat people the way they treat me.
By all means, speak your opinions when you want. I myself, enjoy talking about this stuff, especially when it comes to guys like LeBron. I've already mentioned this but I find him one of the most fascinating people in sports. In a slightly different, more negative way, I'm sure the same goes for you since you speak so much about him at times.So... *shrug*
But whatever. I'll keep my opinions to myself
Go Magic.
Speaking to your friends and people on online forums are pretty different boats. People who post here (or maybe not as much) may come across some of your posts, look at them and say "Who's this a**hole calling all Heat fans bandwagoners, I've been repping since 'Zo!"With LeBron, I talk on Facebook and to my friends, including those same Miami Heat fans who are only there cuz of LeBron and admit as much. I say the same stuff to them that I say on here, and it's taken as playful banter. They don't get all pissed at me for ragging on LeBron. It's sports related trash talking, all done in fun.
There's always some idiots here and there on this site, it seems like you've been here long enough to know that. Hell, one of my favorite threads for this type of issue is the 'State your unpopular film opinion', the people there know how to at least be respectful.For X-Men, I found another fanboy forum that doesn't get all pissed off when I talk about X-Men 3 or Origins being good movies. They understand, respect, and welcome my difference of opinion, even if it is different from the majority there, and have yet to have one problem there from people giving me crap for my opinion.
To level with you, I've had my issues with this forum too. I'm surprised I still post here as much as I do. I'm rarely replied to here and all the friends I met and got to know are all gone. There is a lot of variety here that I do enjoy though, that's for sure.And I say all the same crap I say in the wrestling thread to all my wrestling fan friends, and they don't get all pissed off because I like Miz or don't like Cesaro.
It really is only the Hype that gives me problems with my opinions. I come on here, or go on the Facebook page, and everyone and their mom loses their **** at my opinions.
I speak those same opinions anywhere else, and I'm met with respect, and civil disagreement.
So if that makes me the problem, so be it.
The Basketball HoF seems to have a lower threshold than other sports. Mitch had a very good career. He takes a hit because, outside of that early Run TMC action, he was stuck on **** teams. As an individual, he brought it though. Routinely a 20+ PPG scorer, versatile game, good defender, a handful of All-NBA nods (2nd/3rd Team) and a good run of All-Star spots. Throw in a good college career and some Olympic medals and you figure he gets the call, given what the criteria seems to be.
I expect Webber, as well as Tim Hardaway, to be inducted at some point too.
Speaking to your friends and people on online forums are pretty different boats. People who post here (or maybe not as much) may come across some of your posts, look at them and say "Who's this a**hole calling all Heat fans bandwagoners, I've been repping since 'Zo!"
In the end though, and just in my opinion at least, you lack substance when it comes to some of the things you write. They can sometimes come off as "There is no other opinion or correct answer other than what I just said".
Then again, that's probably the main problem of every forum. I have the same issue with Matt though to be honest, you and him sometimes come off as tag-team brothers, only coming through here to bash something.
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There's always some idiots here and there on this site, it seems like you've been here long enough to know that. Hell, one of my favorite threads for this type of issue is the 'State your unpopular film opinion', the people there know how to at least be respectful.
As a sidenote I'll add I don't mind people calling X3 okay, but Origins, ughh, God-awful dude(but that could be something for another day and even now I'm interested in your opinions there)To level with you, I've had my issues with this forum too. I'm surprised I still post here as much as I do. I'm rarely replied to here and all the friends I met and got to know are all gone. There is a lot of variety here that I do enjoy though, that's for sure.
But to go back to NBA at least, you did say you hate MJ, Kobe, and LeBron (and seemingly every successful sports franchise in the last 50 years), which IMO isn't a good look when you want to trash one but praise the other. You also like Origins Wolverine.... (Ok, I'm just messing with you there)
And if Lebron switches teams again (even if it's back to Cleveland), it'll be a joke.
I don't post much in the NBA thread, no, because quite frankly, LeBron, Wade, Bosh, and the Miami Heat single handedly killed my interest in the NBA the past few years. That's particularly why I hate LeBron so much, because his course of action with The Decision, and the collusion with Wade and Bosh to form this super team, set a new precedent among superstars that is now sweeping through the league, from Dwight Howard, to Carmelo Anthony, and even Chris Paul has been involved in his own little way as well.
Naturally, I don't speak privy to any inside knowledge, but Wade isn't going anywhere. He'll likely take a longer deal (4-5 yrs) to get more money than the 40M+ he could get over the next two; lesser on an annual basis.
The Finals are what will stick in people's mind, but prior to that, he had a very efficient 19 PPG, 50+ FG% season, even continuing on through the ECF. They just need to scale back his responsibilities and the structure of the offense to accommodate. He can still be a piece in pushing forward.
Amazing.
Cleveland wasnt too far off from sneaking into the 8th seed this past season, which isn't saying much in yhe East, but with or without LeBron going forward I'm happy with the core we have in place (although that could change in the offseason with Deng and Hawes). But we have the no.1 pick which could be decent trade bait or turn into a good player. I'd like to see LeBron on the team again, but who wouldnt want the best player in the league on theirs lol.
I think we probably don't see any big moves this offseason, Melo stays in NY, Love stays in Minnesota, and Lebron and co. remain another year in Miami.