Been curious about this for a while...

Discussion in 'SHH Community Forum' started by spideyboy_1111, Feb 22, 2008.

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Spill it!

  1. I'm Gay

  2. I'm a Lesbian

  3. I'm Bi, I like both!

  4. I'm Straight (100%)

  5. I'm curious and played around before

  6. I'm curious but too afraid to act on it

  7. I've had thoughts, but not acting on them

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  1. spideyboy_1111

    spideyboy_1111 Young Avenger

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    Be honest... and closet people, don't be a pansy, no one is gonna track you down and out you...
     
    #1 spideyboy_1111, Feb 22, 2008
  2. Monster

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    I've been sexual with a guy before.

    I'm straight nevertheless.
     
    #2 Monster, Feb 22, 2008
  3. spideyboy_1111

    spideyboy_1111 Young Avenger

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    hate to break it to ya... but thats not 100% straight.. i guess you could call that "was curious, but only did it a time or 2"
     
    #3 spideyboy_1111, Feb 22, 2008
  4. Monster

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    Yeah, I put that on there.

    Thing is, after that I changed my whole view on it and decided to stick with girls.

    Most I do now is if I think a guy is good looking or hot, I'll tell them.
     
    #4 Monster, Feb 22, 2008
  5. November Rain

    November Rain Single Mother

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    What is the definition of Gay/straight though?

    Is it the emotional attachment or the physical need for release?

    is it possible for one to yearn and crave the sexual curves of a woman but to truelly madly deeply love a man....or a horse?
     
    #5 November Rain, Feb 22, 2008
  6. Eggyman

    Eggyman The Oval Avenger

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    I'm straight! I only want friendship from men and horses :)
     
    #6 Eggyman, Feb 22, 2008
  7. spideyboy_1111

    spideyboy_1111 Young Avenger

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    hey im glad you admit it. I don't think people realise how curious guys can be and still end up strait. was it during your teen years? or into adult hood if i may ask?
     
    #7 spideyboy_1111, Feb 22, 2008
  8. Norman Osborn

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    Apparently I'm a narrow channel of water connecting two larger bodies of water :huh:
     
    #8 Norman Osborn, Feb 22, 2008
  9. Monster

    Monster Reborn

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    I'm 16 now, done the things at 13/14.
     
    #9 Monster, Feb 22, 2008
  10. DarknessOfDeath

    DarknessOfDeath Rebel Scoundrel

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    same... lol :) sea horses? :yay:
     
    #10 DarknessOfDeath, Feb 22, 2008
  11. Erzengel

    Erzengel |-o-| (-o-) |-o-|

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    Well no one can track you down since you didn't make this public, and there have been other straight/gay/dog lips threads before.
     
    #11 Erzengel, Feb 22, 2008
  12. spideyboy_1111

    spideyboy_1111 Young Avenger

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    well you can love a friend.. but if your showing

    1) signs of sexual attraction... the thought of a person of the same sex arouses you

    your probably curious acting on it or not is another story...

    2)love a friend to death, feel you could love that friend of the same sex as a soulmate and would love to spend the rest of your life with them because you feel your "in love" but never really thought about the sex, i'd say its unusual but still

    then ya that fits in too... being gay doesnt have to be just sex... neither does being bi... i know bi people who are all about sex sex sex, and bi people who just say "i just love people"
     
    #12 spideyboy_1111, Feb 22, 2008
  13. Erzengel

    Erzengel |-o-| (-o-) |-o-|

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    It's funny, it's socially more acceptable for women to go on lesbian vactions, take pictures have fun, send postcards but come back home straight.

    A lot of people feel once you're with a man, that's it.
     
    #13 Erzengel, Feb 22, 2008
  14. DarknessOfDeath

    DarknessOfDeath Rebel Scoundrel

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    Im one of those people who just say I love people...and yeah i am Bi but that doesn't mean I have the desire to sex a guy. Im more straight when I feel for women cause they are so cutesy and fun to be with. [​IMG][​IMG]
     
    #14 DarknessOfDeath, Feb 22, 2008
  15. spideyboy_1111

    spideyboy_1111 Young Avenger

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    thats because straight guys are idiots...

    but i must admit it's hot when (being gay) you first experiment... lots of times the guy you experiment with ends up being straight the rest of his life, and i've read many articles on the subject and seems like there really is alot of guys who've messed with another guy, they just don't talk about it mostly because they don't want to be labled gay
     
    #15 spideyboy_1111, Feb 22, 2008
  16. spideyboy_1111

    spideyboy_1111 Young Avenger

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    well if you were in love with a guy would u have sex with him?
     
    #16 spideyboy_1111, Feb 22, 2008
  17. DarknessOfDeath

    DarknessOfDeath Rebel Scoundrel

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    No. I'd rather have sex with a woman and feel good about it - as long as she feels good about it too then I am happy. :):D
     
    #17 DarknessOfDeath, Feb 22, 2008
  18. spideyboy_1111

    spideyboy_1111 Young Avenger

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    lol well do you see yourself settling down with a man?
     
    #18 spideyboy_1111, Feb 22, 2008
  19. Erzengel

    Erzengel |-o-| (-o-) |-o-|

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    I'm not saying it's not a double standard just what's socially thought of.
     
    #19 Erzengel, Feb 22, 2008
  20. terry78

    terry78 My name is Stefan, sweet thang

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    It's no good if the poll isn't public. I won't know who to chide. :o
     
    #20 terry78, Feb 22, 2008
  21. spideyboy_1111

    spideyboy_1111 Young Avenger

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    it sorta is a double standard though and its socially thought that way because men are socially to be manly and women are socially suppose to be flirtatious and sexy... guys like girls going at it... most guys feel the need to show off masculinity towards other guys and women, women (though i've noticed alot more in recent years) don't usually find 2 guys going at it attractive.
     
    #21 spideyboy_1111, Feb 22, 2008
  22. Damien Rage

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    I've always known I had an attraction to men. I had an expeirence (with a man) when I was 15 (it felt normal (to me). In high school I did have a girlfriend (only becuase it seem that it was what I "was supposed to do". We messed around very little...but I didn't feel what I felt when I was with another male.

    While I can appreciate a fine woman (Michelle Pfieffer is the most beautiful woman in the world), and I have a few female friends who I love to death...I'm a mo.

    At work there are a few guys that are like that in reverse. It's also funny that they (play) flirt with me. Once I was asked if I get offended when they do so. I said "no becuase it just proves you are secure with yourself to joke around".

    I work in a very crazy kitchen and we are all very comfortable with one another (culinary people are whack).
     
    #22 Damien Rage, Feb 22, 2008
  23. spideyboy_1111

    spideyboy_1111 Young Avenger

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    i was going to make it public, but i've ran across many a closeted/curious guys who come up with the craziest excuses and paranoia of people finding out...

    im like 1) if anyone one u know is on a gay site, guess what makes them gay too
    2) yes everyone and there mother wants to show off your pics and webcam to the world.. and by your picture or name i can track you down and out you to the world.. (boring)
     
    #23 spideyboy_1111, Feb 22, 2008
  24. spideyboy_1111

    spideyboy_1111 Young Avenger

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    so you gay or bi? sounds like you enjoyed men more (just out of curiosity)
     
    #24 spideyboy_1111, Feb 22, 2008
  25. Damien Rage

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    "mo" as in homo.
     
    #25 Damien Rage, Feb 22, 2008
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